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Je suis une femme Africaine à la recherche d'une relation à long terme basée sur le respect de chacun.
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Oh you can take me shopping and I'll also style you. I only accept a date like this if we connect. Otherwise you can take me in a helicopter.
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I love being Pampered, looking Beautiful, I love Peace and Quiet time, I love being home safe and sound
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On the first date coming to me is ideal just to get aqanted. I am the Spa Model at our Local resort & spa.
I was raised across the street in the Golfing neighborhood.
A couples massage would also be a fun relaxing date.
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My Perfect Day
I wake up in silk sheets, wrapped in the glow of floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the Amalfi Coast. My morning begins with fresh espresso brought to the terrace — along with a velvet box containing something sparkly, just because it’s Tuesday. A private stylist arrives to help me slip into something effortlessly elegant (Chanel or vintage Dior, depending on my mood), because today, we’re not holding back.
A chauffeured classic car whisks us to a hidden vineyard where a chef is preparing a private lunch — wine pairings, of course — under a canopy of olive trees. Laughter, good conversation, and being admired as the center of attention? Yes, please.
The afternoon? A yacht. Naturally. Sunbathing, champagne, and maybe a helicopter ride over Capri, just to catch the sunset from above. I want to feel the wind, the warmth, the wow — knowing I’m with someone who doesn’t just talk big, but lives big.
And when the stars come out, so do the candles. Dinner on the deck, music playing softly, and you pulling out all the stops — because spoiling me doesn’t feel like work… it feels like fun.
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I’m passionate about living life to the fullest — I love romance, spending time by the sea, shopping, and exploring new places around the world.
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Start with: A surprise gift reveal
– My date picks me up or meets me and brings a small wrapped gift — maybe jewelry, a perfume I love, or something thoughtful like a custom bracelet with my initials.
– Bonus points if there's a handwritten note inside saying how excited they are to spend time with me.
Main event: A luxury dinner experience
– A high-end restaurant (rooftop, candle-lit, or one with a view). Think: sushi, steakhouse, or a chef’s tasting menu.
– Let them pull out my chair, compliment my outfit, and insist I order whatever I want (plus dessert).
Next: Sweet surprise #2
– After dinner, a second small gift appears. Maybe a flower bouquet, fancy chocolate box, or a little something I mentioned I liked.
– OR they take take me shopping (even if it's a cute boutique or Sephora mini haul).
Finish with: A soft, romantic moment
– Go for a drive with music, stop for a rooftop or beach view, or sit under the stars.
– They offer a cozy jacket, play my favorite song, and tell me how much they’ve loved the evening.
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My first date? Somewhere in nature, maybe by the sea or in a quiet park. Nothing formal, nothing fancy, just us, a leisurely walk, unfiltered conversation, and lots of genuine laughter. It doesn't matter where we are, what matters is that we feel like being together is the right thing to do.
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out of the ordinary dates are the best dates, reciprocation is key as well and maintaining the bond and being vulnerable
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How about we have a candle kit dinner and then take on walk on the beach as we get to know each other
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I want to go grocery shopping or walk a grocery store with you. I want to do absolutely mundane tasks and see how well we get along just existing together. Eating in front of new people is strange for me so I want to break the ice doing something that wouldn't normally be a first date!
Bonus points if you push the cart while I'm on the handles :) jk
We could go for a walk around a lake and just take in the views. See if we have chemistry as we walk and encounter other people on the trail.
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Shopping for each other,walking on the beach,making paintings of each other,showing off our outfits, and holding hands
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an upscale dinner with great wine, followed by a late-night drive or a rooftop view where we can talk and connect without distractions. I also love spontaneous getaways, spa days, or just unwinding in style with someone who knows how to enjoy the moment.
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How about we have breakfast and visit the lakes. How about we visit a nearby mall and catch a movie.
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I would love to get together and enjoy a fine dining experience as well as go shopping and do some self care such as a massage or facial.
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We can start shopping on the Mag Mile, then perhaps State St., make a weekend of it & go for a walk through Millennium Park, then take a tour via boat or helicopter. I'm open to other options, too. I'm very flexible!
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I love going out for shopping and Fun I love entertainment very humble and love clubbing,from clubbing
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Something that blows my mind makes me feel special that I've never had before makes me feel beautiful and makes me know that they want me
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Walking through the old creeky floors at the antique store. Finding the unique stuff and being impressed with my date as she describes what it is A walk though the arts finding out how her brain analysis the art. Bring weird and isn't shy to express it. Maybe a date at a mom n pop restaurant and spoil the shelter animals as they wait for a home.
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Honestly, I’m pretty easygoing! While I love food, I think staying active on a first date makes things more fun. That said, I’m always open to hearing your ideas—I love trying new things and enjoying new experiences. So, surprise me!
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