we met about two weeks ago (beginning of may) just talking on phone/texting. he lives in san diego and i live in san francisco. we physically met for the first time last fridayand we went spend three days together. he flew me down to san diego, picked me up at the airport, and we went to live jazz that night because he read on my profile i used to sing in a jazz band. i stayed with him at his beach home. he's an incredibly caring and generous man and we hit it off pretty much immediately. we used these questions to get closer on one of our dates and I think it really helped us to like each other more.