I agree with you - if I were to choose between being with a wealthy man who makes me unhappy and being single, I would choose being single - and happy! :)) Indeed it would be perfect to love a man who loves you back and he also has a large bank account - just like rozylee said, it makes life comfy. ;) But money isn't everything in life!
I dont think money can by you love ....well not real love anyway. However it can be very useful in easing the wheels for things that you might like to do as lovers like taking quality time out with each other and finding unusual places to visit or things to do, and helping you keep your health to the maximum, by being able to afford quality food and health therapies that you might not otherwise ordinarily be able to afford, and easing the day to day stresses of how are you going to pay your next bill etc, so it obviously has its advantages......all that being said though you dont need money to have real fun in life either, that's for sure, so really it is just an added bonus if you have some, but no great shakes if you don't. I think the most important thing you can have in your life is good health and would trade wealth for health any day :-)