Searching for A real Man Long Term Relationship

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 20, 2005 at 09:03 PM

    where are they??
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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 08, 2016 at 01:06 PM

    You want to know where the real men are?  I can tell you.


    1) Married. 

    2) Being ignored by women because they are too short (or too poor, or the wrong race, or too fat or simply have health issues).   Check out the studies at OKCupid about those things - women date based on height, money and race more than anything else.



    The worst kept secret is that women are human beings just like men are.  That means every time you see a man do something shallow and mean, a woman does something equivelent.  But our society all too often lets women get away with it because it's socially acceptable.


    The easiest way to find a real man is to HONESTLY write out a list of what you want in a man.  Then go through the list and ask "If all the men that had this specific quality were dead, would I rather be single or would I accept something less than this?"   When the answer is 'accept', rewrite that requirement to reflect the truth - or cross it off the list entirely.






  • View author's info Posted on Feb 04, 2016 at 02:07 PM

    A good women will always have a good man even if he is not a miliniare . It will depends on a women how much she loves him. If she looks at bad things in him- no point to have 10millions is it? if she sees good things in him then he will be worthy his miliones. 

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 16, 2015 at 02:04 PM

    Quoting author:

    where are they??

    They are avoiding the abusive personality trait that you exhibit...


    Rigid Gender Roles

    Abusers usually believe in stereotypical gender roles. A man may expect a woman to serve him; stay at home, obey him in all things - even things that are criminal in nature. A male abuser will often see women as inferior to men, more stupid, unable to be a whole person without a relationship. Female abusers may expect the man to provide for them entirely, shift the responsibility for her well-being onto him or heckle him as being 'not a real man' if he shows any weakness, emotion or perceived inadequacy.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 20, 2005 at 10:40 AM

    Like Ive said in previous postings there are good men out there, but sometimes you have to look past age or looks to find someone special that will treat you the way you deserve. You should never judge a book by its cover. Someone writes you you should take the time to get to know them. Dont let distance or other variables discourage you, You never know what you might find if you look hard enough and take a few chances, Be Spontaneous.

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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 18, 2005 at 04:18 PM

    I don't know where they are but when I meet a real man I'm going to hold onto him!!! charm
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 16, 2005 at 07:08 PM

    I am sure that "we" are a couple of real men here on this site! Including my self!lol

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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2005 at 11:22 AM

    How UN-Romantic! All these folks posting there WWW's. How many ladies with class are going to write a fellow the first email?

    Ladies if you are interested in guy, WINK at him. If he can't afford 20 bucks to reply do you really want him?
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 09, 2005 at 10:08 AM

    Maybe you haven't been looking in the right spots? contact me singleinholladayMSNcomPANY
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 06, 2005 at 01:14 PM

    When you find one... let me know ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 06, 2005 at 06:24 AM

    I will send them an invitation for this website .. deal?
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 06, 2005 at 06:20 AM

    Perhaps he's not located in the US ???
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 05, 2005 at 08:24 PM

    I reckon I am a real man...pls read my profile. Thx.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 30, 2005 at 08:38 PM

    if any young female wants me the dnt haitate to contact me
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 25, 2005 at 12:33 PM

    I am a real man...Well at least last time I checked. It has not fallen off or gotten lost. LOL Hope you like water.

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  • View author's info Posted on Nov 23, 2005 at 12:14 PM

    real man? if you find one and he has a good looking friend, let me know?lol
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 20, 2005 at 10:40 PM

    hi....I know Bonnie is real...
    Blonde...I haven't decided....
    Didn't we have a date for Astoria....?
    Miss you my friend....
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 20, 2005 at 12:02 PM

    Ok, before I admit to anything LOL...what is your idea of a real man?
    Ok, before I admit to anything LOL...what is your idea of a real man?
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 28, 2005 at 11:18 PM

    trusten write:
    Greetings folks,

    I am new here, so let me say hello to all the ladies, gentlemen and to those who consider themselves otherwise. Each and everyone of you will be respected for whomever you are, since each individual is entitled to their own personal beliefs.
    Yes I know that we do not live in a perfect society, but I still dream of that Utopian I think that this is where you will find 'the real man' which you seek. Additionally, most of us search for the perfect mate by starting the lines of communication with preconcieved notions as to what 'real' is.
    I have this theory, which states...'every being, animate or inanimate is real, however everything which is real, is not necessarily true.'
    The first reason is, reality, even though it cannot be recreated, similar to energy (matter), that is, it will take a different form based upon needs or wants as the case might be. Having said this, what is real to you can be fake to another. The manufacturing industry has proven this. Knock off here, knock off there etc. In this day and age, we humans are no different, the cosmetic and plastic surgery industry can attest to this. What you see is not what you get.
    I for one, considers myself to be a 'real man', however, because of my beliefs others consider me to be a fake. I readily accepts this, since 'reality' in 1000 BC is different that reality in 2005. Change is enevitable, but the more things change, the more they remain the same. This is that fine line between reality and truth, master this realm and you will never have any problems with what is real and what is NOT.

    Stay strong in
    One Love...

    Change is the only constant factor in life
    The commercialsed version of 'Beauty' and 'Love' comes from within...within bottles , jars, compacts, tubes , plastic surgery of 'Promises' of all that is illusionary..
    What is 'Real' and 'Virtual' is now surreal..Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder..but can the eyes believe what they see?
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 28, 2005 at 07:51 AM

    Hola Boricua !! If you are looking for someone "outside the box" I would love to talk. I like what you say and how you describe yourself. Love those pictures. Are they from California or from La Isla del Encanto ?