If you are not interested in altering anyone's life, including your own, and you would like to work out a mutually beneficial arrangement, then why not decide what it is you would like to have available to you such as - traveling partner, movie companion, company home watching movies and being comfortable, etc. Then work out what is acceptable for both parties.
isn't that what most of us looking to "add" into our lives ask for and attempt to make fit our companions? are you saying why not list specifically a "travel partner" etc. rather than work it out between the parties?