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So What Are Men Looking For? USA

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 22, 2009 at 04:32 PM


    I am always wondering... so what are real men looking for.
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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 04, 2016 at 11:59 AM


    Real men want...

     

    thin women

    fat women

    thin men

    fat men

     

    smart people

    stupid people

     

    money

    love

    sex

     

     

    We are not all the same.  Different men want different things.   You need to forget about what 'real' men want.  Instead focus on what kind of man you want.  Once you have that done, then you MIGHT ask them what kind of women they are looking for.

     

    One smart thing to do is to focus on the NEGATIVES, not the positives.   I.E. if you go looking for a tall man and you will be competeing with all the other women looking for the tall men.  Most likely you will end up with the worst possible tall man.

     

    But if you go looking for a guy that is short, that not fat, then you are more likely to get what you want.  Or fat but not short.  Either way, you get better results.   The women that puts "tall fat guys welcome" gets a lot more responses than the gal that says "I like tall men."   Because there will be some tall, fat guy out there despairing that women he askes out always say "too fat".

     

     

     

     

     

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 10, 2014 at 06:30 PM


    Men typically are liars so ur kinda wasting ur time until u find a real man most men want the obvious to talk a good game say whatevers gotta be said to get inside your pants get it done and kick rocks or screw ur friends typically but why not for the sake of answering your question what i want is happiness a wife and kids someone to hold as i sleep someone to wake up next to who smiles each time she's near me someone who can be honest and loyal and not screw my friends or play bs games just saying that's what i want
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 18, 2014 at 10:04 PM


    Quoting author:

     I want to matter to a women. I want to be respected. I want to know she's there for me when I need her. I want to have every reason in the world to adore and spoil her. 

     

    That is sweet. Depends what that "every reason" is.

    There will be differences, and how you weather those differences will determine your success in your relationship.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 07, 2014 at 03:09 PM


    Most men are simple and all they seek is a simple girl.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 28, 2013 at 12:16 PM


     I want to matter to a women. I want to be respected. I want to know she's there for me when I need her. I want to have every reason in the world to adore and spoil her. 

     

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 08, 2013 at 02:41 AM


    I totally agree with you,That is what attracted my late husband to me,I was a Mary Ann and still looked as good as ginger when needed to be,I played soccer,I bait my own hook,I am certified PADI diver ,I worked construction 30 years,operated chop saws, hammer drills,I was the first woman bridge builder I love my life,A little independent,guys don't like that,It's ALL good.I'm happy when I wake up,because I'm still breathing and alive,Be happy with the simple things in Life,Best of Luck to all searching for that Love of your Life

  • View author's info Posted on May 26, 2013 at 04:56 PM


    not true, they are humans too and have feelings and maybe even more sensitive than we r
  • View author's info Posted on May 26, 2013 at 04:55 PM


    usually mentally strong woman scares a man....sad truth
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 12, 2012 at 02:31 AM


    我是中国人,想找美国女孩。结婚。
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 12, 2012 at 02:26 AM


    yes ,i am looking for a girl like you.hah
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 04, 2012 at 10:17 AM


    A real man wants the type of woman that isn't afraid to be herself. we want the best of both worlds, we want a woman that can be "one of the boys", but yet still have class, and feminine attributes. We want a woman that will not sit still and quiet around our family and friends, but add life to the party and be outgoing. we want a woman that is not afraid to get dirty when we want to go fishing, or go to other outdoor events. we want a woman who has spunk, that is not afraid to speak her mind, last but not least a woman that can throw down in the kicken. ^_^
  • View author's info Posted on May 14, 2012 at 01:21 PM


    Someone you can talk to for more than a second without want to beat your head into a wall
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 02, 2011 at 03:00 PM


    Ditto on this one....;=))
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 18, 2011 at 08:55 AM


    men are looking for sex only in USA.
    You did not know that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 31, 2011 at 12:12 AM


    Men who are sincere and looking for a longlasting relationship are looking for a woman who will not criticize him judge him or emasculate him. Who will:
    value him
    support him
    affirm him
    encourage him
    acknowledge him

    Lastly, He is looking for a woman who doesn't think it is all about her and what he can do for her. He wants to know it but doesn't want her to know it or show it. This is rare but possible. And makes for a dynamic and loving relationship

    Did I say Value him...

    And he better do very much the same toward her or she needs to keep looking.

    But if the guy is not sincere all bets are off and its just another one night stand. Both should not expect anything more than what they are willing to give.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 25, 2011 at 04:45 PM


    i think men are looking for someone like me..

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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 01, 2010 at 12:21 AM


    I guess it depends on the guy. Some men prefer fine wine, some prefer the best lager. Some want freaks some want classy.

    Nonetheless it is what you want your man to want in his woman that is the real question.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 30, 2009 at 06:31 PM


    They're looking for someone to retrain their ways lol
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 19, 2009 at 07:40 PM


    i dont know what all men are looking for but i am looking for love from that special person.