Why are guys visiting me? Romance

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2005 at 09:12 AM

    I think it's time to quit... Just checked and for the last couple of days, I've had more men checking out my profile than women! Guess I'm attracting the wrong folks!!! Sorry guys, I'm not interested. Someone, please tell me what I'm doing wrong! Please!
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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 08:41 PM

    Hi 1SG, i think everyone has that, I know I also have had a lot of women viewing mine, it could be from reading the forum, I look at other profiles, both men , and women, from the forum, especially if I liked what they posted, or thought that it was funny.
    I like to see what the face is from some of the characters on this forum. I think it also gives it more of a personal feel to it, and when you agree with what they wrote, or disagree........
    I think that made sense, at least thats my opinion.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 08:17 PM

    All joking aside Southern, alot of same sex people look at your profile when you've posted something in the forums, to see what your about, and if your real or not.
    Well that's what I'm choosing to believe anyway! Cause that's what I do......LOL
    And yes everyday, delete a number of same sex profiles without even checking them out. I take it as I said or a mistake.
    But if it makes you feel better I'll click on your profile everyday.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 06:26 PM

    1SG don't wory about it. Think of it as a compliment. Women check out womens profile alot. Sometimes it's just to see who the name represents. Maybe they are getting an dea to change their profiles. Or checking out the competition. Who said women had the monopoly on that!!!!! But no matter it is not from preverse reasons. Oh unless that dude from florida checked you out. Forgot his name but u all know the one. If it bothers you that much. If someone checks you out more than once write to and ask. May I please have your reason for checking out my profile 3 times. It has me paranoid and i am wondering if i need to shave my legs. A little humor there maybe you'll get an answer........LOL
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 01:42 PM

    Hey 1SG....Don't take it personally daaalin...More women check my profile just about than men.....I think its curiosity more than anything else....seeing what others wrote in their profiles.....Ive only had 2 ask me if i were interested in women...LOL....of course...SO NOT!! i was polite......or maybe its because your so dang handsome...hehe....

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 01:15 PM

    Maybe they are curious of the competition. Women check each others profiles out all the time. We even make friends with each other on here...but I suppose some would interrupt that as being gay. Is there really a Cummings, Georgia???
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 12:17 PM

    Don't worry about it - I have guys checking my profile all the time.
    Several reasons for it:
    1) Accidentally hitting the profile when in the IM board. I'm guilty of doing it myself from time to time - sorry guys!
    2) Believe it or not, members talk about other members. (smiling) I know a few women who have guy friends on here and ask the guys to check out other guys for/with them.
    3) Guys DO check out the competition. I don't unless someone asks me to view a guys profile, but that's just because I don't worry about what others are doing - plenty of beautiful, intelligent women on MM for all of us!

    Only worry if they start to put you in their favorites folder! ; )
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 12:06 PM

    Everything Monique said is are they're competition, and they want to more about you...maybe they can compare what you have that they don't! Charisma...that's what is so great about these forums. When you participate, an individual's personality tends to show more than just what their sales pitch in their profile says.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 09:54 AM

    Thanks ladies!!! I wasn't fishing for compliments but I thank you for them anyway!! I'll be walking around a little taller today!

    Katie, my legs are long and skinny!! I mean there is muscle and all, but not a lot of bulk. So maybe you're right about that! My father used to tell me the only muscle I had was between my ears. I don't think it was a compliment!
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 01:33 AM

    Howdy Southern,

    Men are checking you out because you are doing everything RIGHT ... not wrong. You're pleasant, funny as hell, a really nice guy, hot looking ... and the women LOVE YOU, something that many of the men can't say on this site (well many don't have pictures ..... hmmm wonder why, but I'm sure some are scary ..... ) lollll. They could learn from you so don't worry about little biddy details like that ... you're got it made in the shade, the picking is all yours!!!!!!!

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2005 at 12:22 AM

    1SG -
    do you have great legs? How do you look in a dress? (lol just jokin)
    I have a gentleman I write back and forth with who said the exact same thing yesterday to me! He checked his "profile visitors" and was shocked to see so many men?

    Maybe theyre looking for some inspiration in writing a profile!