I hear this lot from women, "I want to be spoiled."
Exactly what is that?
Isnt it in reality exactly what a man is supposed to do?
Isn't a man supposed to completely and abundantly provide for his woman, emotionally, physically, financially, and even spiritually to the best of his ability?
Isn't she supposed to be confident in her man and his desire, committment, and ability to be her man?
Isn't she supposed to be able to consider his word gospel?
Isn't she supposed to be confident that her happiness is first to him, because in reality when the Queen is happy The King is happier
I think "yes" to all the above! So why is it considered "spoiling"
My answer is this because women have accepted less than that for so long that men dont come to the table with othe best, but bring just what we need to get by....I challenge women to stop accepting less than excellence in their relationships...Ask for, demand, and expect a man's best!!
As for me, My Queen can be assured of all my best!!
No, HM, I will not come. I was a great big, I mean big, snowman. You girls melted me down to a small stick/snowball. It will be next winter before there is snow again to become myself, and I can not take the chance of disappearing totally. Acutally, all that is left of me now is my uggggh ......... brains. lol
I know It will be a big disappointment for all of you, but you could join me in the freezer. It might be nice this summer.
That's cute I-Blonde. My daughter pulled that routine a few years ago, "Eeeeuuuwww!!! Don't talk to me about sex and dating and men! That's gross when your mother talks like that! Parents aren't supposed to have sex!"
I told her, "If I didn't like and have sex at least once in my life, little girl, ... you wouldn't be here acting all grossed out about it."
Then I told her she likes to tell me about her boy interests and how hot they are and how they have cute behinds and such. If I were close-minded, I would be grossed out that my baby is thinking about sex. But if she wants me to respect her as an adult capable of dealing with sex, she has to respect me too and remember that I love men and sex and hot guys as much as she does. I said there's nothing disgusting about sex anyway and there's nothing wrong with two woman checking out bums, flirting, daydreaming about doing it and ... actual "doing it."
Now, she tells me everything .... and I do mean "everything," in graphic detail. I'm proud of the fact that she trusts me enough (as she IS over 18) to share her new explorations with an experienced source of information ... her ungross mom. lol
Wx4 that was a very sweet thought. To bad it went Poof! When i find that special love i want to be "spoil" completely. But in return he will also be "spoiled " completely. It doesn't take big things to spoil me. Calling me when he thinks of me. Bringing me flowers whether he got them from the side of the road or maybe from the ladies flower pot down the road, it does not matter. It tells you he is thinking of you and he is glad you are in his life. Gentle looks"just because" A butterfly kiss on the shoulder or neck. Holding your hand as you both walk or at your back tells you he cares. A little note in your lunchbox as you both go off to work. And in return he will be spoiled by leaving a message on his phone that would say"I'm just thinking of you" laying together while you run your fingers gently through his hair. Fixing him his favorite dinner or bringing him a warm drink when he's tired. Kissing him for the "just because" reason. Sending him off with a note in his "lunchbox" or his "suitcase if he travels. A card to open every day he is gone(i did that once). These are the "little" things that count the most. It lets you know you are "loved" I don't want expensive things. Those are gifts. It's the things, which by themselves would have no meaning that make being spoiled so "very special"
1HotHottie ... I love that precious little kitty and I loved your post, but it's 2:30 am now and I'm laughing like an *ss 'cause I thought you wrote, "Even better for him to help me wash my hair on my back......" I'm sorry! lol But it sure woke me up!
(Course, if yur a cat .... you WOULD have hair on yur back! lol
I had an wonderful, erotic but horrible dream last night. It was about what makes me melt.
I was lying in the snow, and along came the most beautiful women in the world. There was fun4two, HotMama, katiegrl, statuesque4u, TomiGirl, babydol, intelligentblonde, Moonray, and a few others. They started rolling on me, touching and patting me, pouring strawberries on me and nibbling on me, feeling me up everywhere. The were even fighting for just a piece of me. I never felt so loved, so touched, or so many lips on me at once. They stroked my legs, my chest, my back, and you know where else. I was in heaven. I fell in love with all of them. They even put a funny hat on my head and giggled and laughed so cute. AND, then the sun came out and I melted.