The instant message is great, and it will increase the 'addiction' for some, but it may turn others away. Why? Because every forum has turned into mundane small chat amongst the women. There is no intellectual thought process involved. Sorry everyone, I'm not trying to be catty and put you down, but it's a fact I'm bringing to your attention for a reason. The reason is that when topics are raised for good discussion it draws other interesting people to the forums e.g. 1SG, wellab, katie, Mandalay (when he was still here), and www1234, Alberto, etc. These Gentlemen are an endangered species and we're risking their extinction! With these gentlemen contributing to the forums, I'm sure it would influence other good men to jump in and join the forums also. This is a great medium to get a feel for an individual. It's okay to have a few fun chat threads for small talk about petite's skinny legs, choc chip cookies, the secrets people have, flirting with Lion, Mas or Alberto, but we if convert all the forums topics to that, we're going to lose those great guys that were drawn to the forum to express their views, and lose the chance of ever drawing others into this forum. These men chose to jump in to the forums based on the forum topic and the posts they read of others expressing their views related to the forum topic. Certainly topics diversify, but keep it interesting. This kind of small talk banter would never inspire a successful ilntellectual man to jump in. Sorry girls if you don't like what I'm saying...but if you think about it...I believe I've hit the bullseye. I've just read thru many of the Romance topics...and they've all been converted to this cute little small talk.
I'm suggesting it is contained to a 2 or 3 sites...friends on here, you guys pick em'. But don't turn them all into it, because the great guys we've got on here may become extinct! To them this might be boring. Make sense ladies?
Would ya'll just stop being so f-ing gorgeous and leave the old lady (me, duh) some leftovers? I can't get over how good all you ladies look and nobody wants to look at me, dammit. Just stop it, stop it right now!!! LOL Annie
butterfly.... I simply commented on a post he made about me and he started in on me, so I just gave it back... He is nothing but an damned FOOL.. I have never emailed that man and don't plan on starting