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  • View author's info Author Posted on Jun 09, 2005 at 01:31 AM


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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 23, 2018 at 07:02 PM


    I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I know that I'm single not because of lack of options, but because of lack of quality. I'd rather be on reserve for the man that's the best of the best rather than settle for mediocrity. I'm looking for someone with the confidence and the standards it takes to satisfy and care for me, as I know I will care for them in my own way. 

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 20, 2018 at 02:19 AM


    I think, man are afraid of them, because they are afraid of loosing them. Like when they see the beauty in them, everyone will see that...

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 05, 2018 at 10:26 AM


    A lot of men are afraid of them for some reason lol.  We’re all human.  Also having more options make the choice harder.  Have you seen the cosmetic shelf,  look at all the options for blue nail polish lol. It’s like watching Netflix,  so many options to chose from,  sometimes I won’t pick anything lol.  Also if you don’t have the ladies man,  skill and confidence,  it’s hard to develop,  making it harder to stand out,  on the proverbial cosmetic shelf.  

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 08:53 AM


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    Greeting, most people assume that a beautiful woman are hard to talk to. The truth is the pool of men that a beautiful woman get is less than a undesirable woman. A less attractive woman get dozen of offers to date, whereas the princess is left wondering why she does not get her man she wants. Because of that most beautiful end up marrying later and the beautiful woman pursuit their careers.

     

    Also end up being used by some business as their mistress. REmember the pool of men is dried up by the time they are in their 30's. So they have fewer dates and get used by wealthy or established more often. The wealthy woman loses confident, and just does not date as often, afraid if being used.....

     

    Beautiful are easier to talk to but remember their ego was been hurt by a dog, they ever get the experience that less attractive woman get when she is younger....

     

    Again beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Men of influences know this and uses beautiful woman making them harder to talk to...

    My father said that very same thing to me that you said in your first paragraph when i was a weebit of a young teenage girl! I didnt understand what he was saying to me then, but i do now... :(

     

    If men only knew how approachable some of the ladies really are. A simple "hello" sometimes is-- really all it takes.

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 27, 2018 at 03:33 PM


    For me it seems the fit just isn't there. I've dated millionaires, billionaires, NFL players, NHL players, blue collar workers and small business owners. The wealthier the men, the more they try to impress me with their possessions and forget to impress me with the love they could offer me. With the blue collar workers, the fact that I earn more than they do always becomes and issue for them. With small business owners they are so focused on making it big that they forget about finding someone who will work with them to make it happen. At the end of the day every man wishes he had a woman to love them for them but they spend the day focusing on all the wrong qualities in themselves and sometimes others. 

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 22, 2018 at 06:56 PM


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    It is the same going for a job. They want dumb, plain women. 

  • View author's info Posted on May 26, 2018 at 09:52 PM


    Greeting, most people assume that a beautiful woman are hard to talk to. The truth is the pool of men that a beautiful woman get is less than a undesirable woman. A less attractive woman get dozen of offers to date, whereas the princess is left wondering why she does not get her man she wants. Because of that most beautiful end up marrying later and the beautiful woman pursuit their careers.

     

    Also end up being used by some business as their mistress. REmember the pool of men is dried up by the time they are in their 30's. So they have fewer dates and get used by wealthy or established more often. The wealthy woman loses confident, and just does not date as often, afraid if being used.....

     

    Beautiful are easier to talk to but remember their ego was been hurt by a dog, they ever get the experience that less attractive woman get when she is younger....

     

    Again beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Men of influences know this and uses beautiful woman making them harder to talk to...

  • View author's info Posted on May 24, 2018 at 09:47 AM


    Wow...a number of answers from women.

     

    The simple answer is the the demands and unrealistic expectations. 

     

    At a certain one is tired of jumping through hoops. 

     

    For many their only control was sex...and that has become less in demand too-

  • View author's info Posted on May 14, 2018 at 08:24 AM


    Probably the same reason that any single person is still single, they haven't found the right one yet. No matter what you look like or what someone else looks like, finding the right person is not easy. 

  • View author's info Posted on May 13, 2018 at 12:36 AM


    Gezz I wish I was stunningly beautiful, maybe I'd get 1 message on this site.

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 10, 2017 at 05:08 PM


    Hello

     

    I can only speak for me. :) I'm single & quite new to my area.

    I'm still learning what's here, where I might like to go and when.

    Going somewhere there's common interest can make it more likely to meet someone interesting.

    (The nightclub, bar, crowded loud scene isn't my focus. I imagine if it were, I would've easily met men this way. I'm happy I haven't.)

     

    I seek someone not easily found.

     

    One thing we all seem to have in common is- We are on a mission of some kind to find the special 1 whom accepts and values us- and it's mutual.

     

    How many people can say, they easily found someone with matching: attributes, goals, mindsets, interests, communication skills, attraction, etc? How many can even say with all these, the relationship will continue getting healthier and stronger?

     

    If what is being sought were so easily found, none of us would be here.

    No matchmaking services could grow richer, off all the many whom hope their effort, all somehow pans out to their liking.

     

    Even the rich, whom may appear to have everything, can easily find one worthy and loyal, fit for the long term, beside them. (They may grab a warm body here and there. It doesn't last.)

     

     

    Anything of substantial worth & value is automatically scarce in this world.

    Otherwise, value diminishes.

     

    If you are fortunate to find someone whom truly loves you- and- you can love them back the same: Count yourself far more fortunate than many paupers as well as kings.

    Having: looks, status, riches -none of these guarantee a winning mutual match of true, lasting Love.

     

    Sometimes (beauty, status, riches) makes for an easy convoy of complications due to people just seeing what they can get out of you for as long as they can get it out of you, until they are done.

     

    If you are beautiful, make sure you have more to offer than looks.

    If you are wealthy, have more going for you beside your accumulations.

     

    A great and wise man, regardless of his status always seeks the presence of a Lady possessing inner as well as outer beauty and charm.

     

     best wishes all :)

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 26, 2016 at 07:56 PM


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    Because men are afraid of them?

    Bam, and why, 1 because many of the ladies and men in this new age don't know how to be in a monogamous real relationship because they have not seen one nor believe that they have to surrender/commit to an individual that they say love and adore.  The entertainment industry have a multitude jumping in out of relationship the same way they jump in and out of movie scenes.  What Hollywood is not tell everyone that these movies are for entertainment and if you live your life like these scenes, many will end , in the same fashion. However we will not just blame Hollywood there are a multitude of reasons. The beautiful ladies I've had the pleasure of dating, they are scared of true love because to be truly in love and become married means you will have to commit,  many will marry the guy they can control,  then scream he's not a real man, how can he be his own man if he is being controlled.    

     

    Now we know by all the out pouring of sharing we got some serious problems,  so how do we fix it? Hummmmmmmmm!

     One lady said it best JC.

        Love and peace, yours truly Mr. Born1top...

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 26, 2016 at 07:30 PM


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    Simple: Men do not approach us. (minus the occasional crazy or homeless person)

    Why only the crazy and homeless? 

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 24, 2016 at 07:49 PM


    Simple: Men do not approach us. (minus the occasional crazy or homeless person)

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 03, 2013 at 09:08 PM


    Very good question!  I know a # of women (myself included) who are considered by I would say more than 90% of men AND women they encounter in daily life as beautiful (inside and out), caring, independent, smart, even approachable...as a matter of fact some of us need to only step into a social gathering and any man that is single (and even some not so single) will approach us, like us, be interested in us, even ask us out; we may even go on a few dates with them, or choose to have a relationship that extends into months, we may even get engaged to one.
    Here is the deal & this is just my personal opinion.  More women don't marry for money nor need a man for social status.  It doesn't mean they would not be proud of such a man if they met, but this is not their # 1 criteria; they want loyalty, chemistry,communication, some romance, companionship, intimacy and someone who will stick by them through thick and thing and never give up; we want them to also be cute or have some physical characteristics we are attracted to; we want them to be excited about things like travel and trying new activities.  In terms of their career, yes we want them to have something going for them; if we have something going for them, there is no reason why a man who lives in a country of opportunity all his life, would not in his 30s/40s have that (there are exception of course, recently divorced, gone back to school) but then the exception may not be in a position to start a committed, long term relationship with a woman that has everything going on for her.  Women that have the whole package (including education past high school may I add, which they also expect in the men they want to be taking seriously), are not desperate; the question you should be asking is why are so many people in miserable marriages, because they married out of desperation, neediness, were tricked into it, out of guilt, out of family or religious & peer pressure, or societal pressure, or too young to knw what they wanted, or just to not be alone? I can guarantee you that those unhappy marriages started on the wrong foot....the women you speak of, do not want to marry out of desperation, or neediness or due to any other outside pressure; they want to build a life based on genuine caring, trust, love, attraction, maturity, loyalty...they are less likely to put up with a man they smell while dating will cheat, be violent, have addictions...they date all these guys, maybe...but they are too smart to marry them...on the other hand maybe men are intimidated by a woman that doesn't need them or think they are hard to please.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  These women in particular, may want a regular guy, that has integrity,something going for him, and some family values...it's not unreasonable and it's coincidentally not so far from what a man who has it all together wants.  (prerequisite is physical attraction)  Men have become to spoiled, too scared and lost some of their masculine strength in this generation, not because women are more empowered, but because the other women that think they are empowered, and think for instance sleeping around is their freedom, are in fact weakening the fabric of society; yes these women have always existed, but now sex has become like underwear, and women wonder why they are more nervous, stressed, neurotic, hurt, bitter...they forget that the body has a memory and wont' forget things that happen so easily, too many casual encounters and one becomes numb, can't feel deeply any more; the women you speak of, are kind of needless when it comes to being happy single, so there is so no urgency ever to jump into a relationship...this ironically is good for men too; but men don't realize that most women anyway do get attached when sleeping with men; this causes a whole series of issues, if it happens too soon, before a woman is ready.  I digress.  If one of the women yo u speak of is ready, and the man she is dating is strong enough to wait for her, he may just get exactly what he wants, and more, instead of settle for the one that chased him, or he thought would be easier to handle.  :)
  • View author's info Posted on May 27, 2013 at 04:12 PM


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    well i find myself single once again bc i was in the wrong relationships basically since i have been 19. I yet to find the right one. Idk where or when or if i ever will find the right one. I did though waste alot of my life in the wrong ones and when i say wrong ones i have been in mainly 3 differnt ones since 19 . so it took me a long time to finally say im done. all 3 been unhealthy relationships. now im 33 and still havent found the right  person to spend the rest of my life with :( i know i might be picky but i kow i must of not been that picky if i had bad ones in the first place. and i think im a good person inside and out so if somone can tell me why i am sinlge and cant find Mr. right what am i doing wrong??



    Hi Cheliz
    You may not be doing anything wrong. Mr Right may have come and gone in your life several times but you turned him down. See Mr Right is only right as long as your emotions tell you he is. That can change anytime. When your emotions tell you he is wrong you move on. Emotions are powerful and can trick you in avoiding conflict resolution, high expectations and insecurity due to low self esteem, abuse  and lack of love when you were younger. Look at the bigger picture and always know the better successful longterm love relationships are not when you two never have conflict or disagree. It's when you work it out and grow from it. Good luck
  • View author's info Posted on May 08, 2013 at 01:06 PM


    My pesonal reason I am still single is because ..... I am profoundly deaf, even though I can speak and converse is more than one language. I dated in past and can count the men in one hand, and one thing I learn from them as well many not all men I encountered .... they prefer someone who is eye candy, and that they can show off to friends and family.  It seem like they were ashamed to tell friends and family met someone great, but she is deaf. Some even those who are just friends prefer speaking on phone instead of taking a few moments texting, etc it seems just to much for them. As soon as I noticed that these things relationship as well some friendships tend to go sour. Second thing comes to mind I have no children, if found someone I would like to try and have one child prior to me turning 42 ( still have 4.5 years left ... lol ) and many older males are done having children or just don't want any more. Seeing both sets of grandparents in love and married over 60 yrs growing up as well my own parents celebrating 43 yrs married I know it exists rare, but it does. I just choose not to settle, and know is a life commitment even though I am not picky I think. I have no preference what religion they are for at the end of the day majority of us believe in one God just our road to him come in many paths. I am not so shallow to not consider someone with a few extra pounds since we can always go workout together. Weight one can lose, but a nasty personality is not easy to change. My attraction tend to come out based on the persons character and personality since looks fade. I joined this site  thinking there might be a few rich men who are so secure and confident In life they could careless what people think about them considering dating and possibility finding love with a deaf individual. Yes, I said rich not cause I am looking for monetary gain. I have made a personal assumption that if he is set financially I might be able to share more quality time than being with someone who unable to take any time off work for the simplest things in life due to trying to make ends meet. I have seen to many overwhelming themselves with work that they end up losing quality time with love ones. However, it is not something I expect and I am not going to set it in stone. I am happy being single, and being able to jump on a plane to go anywhere at spur of moment. I am also very happy with who I am, and always learning new things about myself and life.  If I remain single for life I am ok with that for the simple fact I rather  enjoy life to fullest, continue traveling, etc. alone  than being around bad/negative company. 

     
    PS~every person that is single has their own personal reasons one just need to want to get to know them if one is interested. Just can't put them in a category, but bare in mind you will come by a few with high expectations they feel entitled even though their expectations are very shallow.  Now I am going to read the posting since this is a longgggg thread .

  • View author's info Posted on May 01, 2013 at 08:00 PM


    well i find myself single once again bc i was in the wrong relationships basically since i have been 19. I yet to find the right one. Idk where or when or if i ever will find the right one. I did though waste alot of my life in the wrong ones and when i say wrong ones i have been in mainly 3 differnt ones since 19 . so it took me a long time to finally say im done. all 3 been unhealthy relationships. now im 33 and still havent found the right  person to spend the rest of my life with :( i know i might be picky but i kow i must of not been that picky if i had bad ones in the first place. and i think im a good person inside and out so if somone can tell me why i am sinlge and cant find Mr. right what am i doing wrong??
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 01, 2013 at 07:22 PM


    It is because in real life attractive women are not approached by men. Men are intimidated by them. Women further influence their fears by talking badly about them.
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