Why do most men lie so much? Long Term Relationship

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 16, 2015 at 09:32 AM

    It seems hard to find an honest man now adays .... where did the real ones go?

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  • View author's info Posted on May 02, 2018 at 12:42 PM

    No I Don't think so!! Its not hard to find an honest man, the trust is you have not searched the right place for such a man. 

  • View author's info Posted on May 02, 2018 at 05:52 AM

    Relationships are meant to be built upon trust and loyalty, if you keep that at the forefront of your mind, you're less likely to deceive your partner.


    Unfortunate as the case maybe, there is always going to be those that fail to maintain that of trust and loyalty and it starts out as a little white lie, then another one is needed to cover that one and so it continues until eventually you've lost that bonding unless you nip it in the bud and own up to it despite risking what you have, better to come clean than continue down the same road.

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 30, 2018 at 11:19 AM

    Umm I realize this is an old forum and no way shape or form am I trying to be catty but you're beautiful, you don't need to wear a negligee in your profile picture. You might be attracting the wrong attention and they may not take you seriously. I would feel the same if a guy's profile picture was of him  shirtless and wearing booty shorts in a seductive spread eagle pose. Well I  would probably think two things. 

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 28, 2018 at 11:16 PM

    Very interesting.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 28, 2017 at 10:33 AM

    If they feel judged or don't want to start a fight over something they deem harmless.  To avoid confrontation and get away with flirtatious or other actions that aren't appropriate when in a relationship, and because they're not fully invested in a future with you or on the flip side to save someone from being hurt based on a mistake they made or other regrets.  

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 21, 2016 at 08:43 PM

     It begins when they are little boys.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 30, 2016 at 08:44 PM



    I think that the question should be why people lie so much when it comes to dating.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 21, 2016 at 02:02 PM

    Because people are shallow creatures who care about things that are unimportant.  Note, this answer also applies to why women lie so much.


    To combat the situation first ask yourself, is this a shallow question?  Am I asking something important, or garbage.  Would I want to be judged on a similar issue?" 


    Then, if the question is truly worthy of you, phrase your questions in a way that won't reveal which answer you prefer - or implies the other answer is desired




    Don't ask "Are you ambitious?"  Instead ask "Is 55 hours a week at work too much?"  The guy that says no is ambitious.    


    Don't ask a man "Are you just looking for a relationship?"  instead ask "How many dates does it take before you usually have sex?"