From Russia with what? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 23, 2008 at 11:34 AM

    To karla241 :
    Thank you girl!!
    To OTHERS with doubt of "bad Russian girls? ALL of you on "million dollar site" and cannot AFFORD to hire investigator for $40.00????!!!! Find out if she the person who she is.. THAN talk, and dont ask stupid question about visa or ticket? ok?
    Oh! BTW ..before to put a claim on ALL GIRLS- research economy of those countries.. how many people have job and how much they pay them. DID you ever wonder how much ticket cost from Russia to US.. let say roughly 2500.00 plus hotel( or u expect her to pay for hotel too in your city/town and invite you there? cz you invite her to America!!!)
    another one .. her salary more than $300.00 per month.. dont forget.. she have to eat and pay bills.. also she would love to buy a expensive clothes (we dont have
    Wal-Mart ok?) to see you in America-Got the point?
    Stop talking bad about russian-ukrainian girls- if you not want them- dont contact them! obviously you know they are best women in the world!
    no women in the any end of the world want insecure men!

    We have words in my country: -afraid of wolf- do NOT go to forest!
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 22, 2008 at 11:20 AM

    AMEN TO:
    yourinspiration (28, Tokyo, Japan )
    ... one more thing:
    i heard a cry- he got her here and after a year (1 year for green card) she left him.. she got what she want and gone!! WRONG!!
    Women (no matter where she come from Russia or she local) never leave good husband only bastard.. If you treat her not well, treat her as she has to kiss steps where you walk- just because you took her from THERE...good for her that she left you!!!
    Second of all.. Imagine yourself living there.. Different culture,, different language relatives no friends (for the reason above)how would u act or behave? eh?!
    I came here in 1989.. AND I had relatives and have friends here. I could talk with them on daily basis.. BUT ..1st 2 years I hated here (no I wasn?t order bride and not needed anyone to "save" me) now I love it.. and would stay here forever.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 21, 2007 at 02:02 PM

    For all russian girls Americans are mystaries to find sole inside their commuphlage heart. Think that IN Russia if a men couldn't revial his tru identtity he is not worthy, In US first impression is far from reality. And than u spend at least 20 dayts be sexy digging inside u lover to find out that at time he eat from u plate and wipe on your dress shoting he want to marry you.

    To all u americans Russian girl will never love u unless she swap you from damster and bring to her loving home. Pride is God to that nation its how they grow.A russian man never overpower women he want to fall in love I am a model and live in US for 15 years every men slaving himself for me but I dint find lovable creature yet. I think american men is lazy for love-something they want to take in grave with themselfs. Shame. I HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER, I DONT FELL NEEDED LOVE IS NOT EXIST U.S. All russian girls feels like they are GODDESS and want to bring magic in ONEs life instead they hear We have freedom of religion only offer we exsept u body, BUT IN R.G. MIND IS ALWAYS a russian guy. Magic can only happen with magic U NEED SOMEONE TO SPARKL it. Unless u are migitian didnt even get close and about poor girls in russia Even if girl have money for ticket she will spend it on shoes and american marriage always be like business opportunity. U WILL SEE HER FADE AND SOON she be will like any other american girl shy,fat,speechless.
    Its like panda creature u buy it feeded with special unique life style to keep it species survive. If u want to experience A REAL RUSSIAN GIRL FANTASY u need to travel and enjoy her where she feels safe and secure.****AND MAYBE SHE WILL FALL in love with u.
    And for me only joy i have in U.S. is shopping. Trully, russian guys in America are sockers.They aren't tastfull as bubble gum.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 01, 2007 at 01:18 AM

    karla was right, you are unsecure person.
    russian woman too much for you.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 24, 2007 at 03:27 AM

    ok, shortly: I'm am russian, and I can effort the tickets and the hotel as well as many of us regardless what lie CNN says to the inocent. But tell me why on earth should I fly over US to the gui I've never seen, pass all the humiliative procedures in the embassy suspecting me to be whatever bad, have all the expenses... This is just not healthy-all I can say. There are two reasons why I think a man should come to see me in Russia or Japan first: 1-he is a gentleman,otherwise I don't need him,2-it is much easier for him with visas and air tickets discounts. To your reference: there are no discounts for Russia, plus in a travel agency they will make you buy an expesive hotel at triple price!A girl would have to buy something like Hilton for the Grand Hyatts prise! So if for you to come to Russia is about 2.000$, for me to come to US is at least 7.000$ than. So, why it should be me who come first?Who of us is a man? Or are you that miserable? Or think it is woman who should always pay more? Who is scam in that case? But if she looses the interest after you offer her to ttravel to her country,that's scam clearly, forget herr than.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 22, 2007 at 04:25 PM

    I was contacted on a different dating site by a woman or by someone posing as a Russian woman. I was pretty suspicious because she was drop dead gorgeous, 32 years younger than me and promising me undying love and fidelity after one email. I googled her email address and typed in scam. Sure enough I found websites that listed hundreds of addresses of these scammers. Basically they claim to be coming to visit you. At the last minute they either have their wallet stolen or claim they need money for a visa. Gullible men send money to a travel agency in Russia then never hear from the woman again. I really doubt that it is the actual woman in the picture who is doing the scamming, it could be anyone. Google has the answers if you just take the time to take a look.

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 20, 2007 at 05:58 AM

    Many Russian professionals like doctors, teachers don't make enough money even for living not to say about travel. Why on the Earth they would buy a ticket and visa to starve then for a year? It's hillarious when people discuss something they have no idea of
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 10:42 PM

    Dear Friend,

    I can tell you that most Russian women asking money for visa, passport, air ticket are scams. That is the sad reality. I don't know how you met her, but it's better to go through an agency that can check her out. Also, you can send her flowers or a letter and determine if she has a real address. And you can try to talk to her over the phone. If you have done all that and it checks out, I would go there. there are also several agencies (mini detective type firms) that can check her out for a small fee. That could save you a lot of money in the long run. How do I know all this. I was scammed. You can also check her out on the fraud lists for Russian woman. Also, if she gets a visa as many are counterfits, you can email the U.S. embassy and they will tell you by the serial number if the visa is valid.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 12:31 AM

    Thank u ,Linda!
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 12:17 AM

    Unfortunately it is true,girl from Russia cannt afford no ticket,no visa ,no hotel spending.She reALLY NEEDS TO BE LUCKY TO GET A GOODHEARTED MAN TO ESCAPE HER .WE are happy to live in America,the best country in a world.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2007 at 12:13 AM

    With all respect...If u are really interested in her,go visit her and then apply for visa .U never know,if u dont try your happines.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 26, 2007 at 09:08 PM

    fitnfla write:
    how does one protect themselves from a scam. i hav a lady from russia who wants to come visit me. she wants me to pay for here vis and travel ticket. how do i know its for real and wont get scammed. what can i do to protect myself.


    just say know ha ha, everyone wants a green card ...
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 24, 2007 at 08:59 PM

    If you really like her, I guess you can buy her airline ticket. I cannot imaging that she will not be able to pay for her visa.... It is strange, though that you were asked for money upfront... If she will not be able to get a visitor's visa (which is not easy), then she doesn't need a ticket. It is helpfull to have airline ticket when she goes to the american embassy (does not guarantee the visa), but you probably could just do some kind of reservation, so if you need to cancell it, you will not loose a lot of money...
    Feel free to contact me if you need more help or info....
    Russian girl
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 30, 2007 at 11:22 PM

    Dear Karla!

    I must say that I am so grateful to you for such words you have said here on protection of Russian women - from kind and warm, human been heart. We all are the same in the world, but our condition of living are different. All of us want to love and be loved, to be happy, fullfilled and secure in our personal life. I am feeling sorry for those people who are first looking for worse in the person with whom he potentially are planning to create a serious relations - as really strong relationship is based on mutual trust and care. I will tell that I had a sad experience with Western man for whom I paid as he promissed to give me money back and it did not happen eventually - so, what? it was his problem of personality - not mine. But I still believe in people and that there are genuine men are existing. Thank you very much again - for words of fairness and for bright heart. I wish you to find in life great happiness in everything. Irina. Moscow
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 20, 2007 at 03:18 AM

    There is an easy answer excist... fly over to her and chect it out!

    Good luck,
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 09, 2007 at 07:02 PM

    In regards to "all russian gals are scams". I got the feeling that all of this hate, heat and stinky dirt flying around cause they are Russians; if those gals were from China or Spain or ect else then some of you will go much easier. Let me remind you that 95% of you have a true Russian roots, mostly from Ukraine or Belaruss and so on.Talk to your grand or grand-grand parents if they care to take a honest pride that they came from the country with richest culture and history ever. That's one. Second, I have many stories when spanik and china gals are fishing a wealthy men around the world and sure giving them hell of the hard time, leaving them with nothing, but their socks.That's second. No one knows that? I'm sure you do. Third, our tv movies american made showing us all including our kids examples of createst american made and born scams - familiar with famous "american phyco"? or "inside man"? or "thelma and loiuse"? and millions more even better some of them are based on a true stories- what is that compare to one poor Russian gal that could not afford to buy herself a ticket to experience our " BIG american dream". I just feel sorry for her since she got involved with such unsecure man.Gosh! No one knows the gal, however she already got smush to deads-- shame on you people:( So far as classic goes: from Russia with LOVE- so be it!
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 25, 2007 at 09:55 PM

    marriage has to be only for love, but when you know you loved you have to be sure you love too, othewise terrible consequences lead through many generations, trust me i know
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 22, 2007 at 05:03 PM

    Do you guis know how many ladyes went abroad for their own money and did not meet amyone it the best case, and got into trouble in the usual one? Why doe's not enyone talk about this? Or should I create a topic:"from US with what"for example,where the unpleasant truth would be discussed that it's only russias that don't waste time for internet games because still have healthy mind?That russian women are not used to perverts and don't expect a man to be one.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 20, 2007 at 08:22 AM

    The truth is that we - Russian women, we are still femminine and we love to be spoiled and we want to see in the beginning that a man is taking care about us. That is our menthality that will never change. And therefore we are so much loved by real men. So you have to enjoy to take care of your woman if you want she will be always beautiful and proud of her man.
    I live 10 years in Italy and I can tell you that my menthality didn't change and will never change. I want to be a woman always. And I am a dream of many men here because I am a woman. And not a woman with balls.
    And that doesn't mean I don't know what is business. I know to sleep 2 hours in 24 hours and I know to be strong for protection of my business. But believe me it's a problem for a woman to be in business without a man. Because men cannot think about business, they are thinking about that beautiful sweet hot lady. So what sense if a woman is successful in business without her man? I think it's better to share one business and love together having passion in love and passion in business. The ticket is nothing comparing with your future with your woman... And you are an conquistator in that case as many-many centuries exists... Just remember that you are a man.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 19, 2007 at 09:18 AM

    let me tell you my story.An american-greec man have been talking to me on the phone for 6 month every day 1 hour in the morning on 1 hour in the evening when I was in Russia.(i'm russian-japanese and have relatives in Rusia).I invited him to Russia,he refused many times and insisted me to come to Greece. Insisted to pay for my tickets,called to a russian travel agency many times. when it came to the payment he talled me he was sending money to the agency,again and again.And When I go to the agency or call they show the politiness in to hide the annoyance,say they did not receive anymoney.Finally he sent money to a wrong account(on purpose),and sent a bank payment document to me,To show that"he payed".So his money got back to him. Hi did it all for his self-intertainment, for some pervertic joy,and out of being a pityful coward.For me it was:spoiled nervs,as I was embarassed in the agency because they thought it was me who was playing, big annoyance as I new from the early begining that he was playing.The only thing I could not understand why is a person can spend lots of money for the phone-calls(I was in Russian FarEast,in the boarder with Japan,really far away from US),2hours dayly on the phone for 6 month is equal to 20 return tickets to Greece.I suspected that even this fact didn't logically lead to"he was serious".Because I've been around and know that only russian coulture "I will do it"means I will do it.In other coulters "I will do it" does not mean anything.It can only mean some meaningless game.But he insisted asking me to come to the agency again and again,to change a hotel or an islan,so on.Just Imagin:I was exremely annoyed after such a long time of dealing witha "neverman"+ the agency tryed to pinalise me,because they already booked the hotels on the islands on my name impossible to cancel.So, who is a scam? What did i do wrong?I invited him to russia, he refused,I connected him with the agency never asking to send money to me, and what finally?