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From Russia with what? Long Distance Relationship

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 14, 2012 at 02:41 PM


    A person who can´t  take decisions himself in his private life and asks for the opinion of public is already a mistake of the nature. I would not be surprised if the girl dropped him after being established in his country. And this is not because she is from the East, West, China or Africa or USA. This is because the guy is a jerk.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 08, 2012 at 05:23 PM


    RE: Bentley1983
     

    Thanks dear! That' s so true. There are lots of Russian or Ukrainian or ... women here in US. Bringing a foreigner is a risky and very difficult business.  Good luck!

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 23, 2012 at 07:01 PM


    very ture, my main reason is to find that MAN, not doing drugs and heavy drinker. Tired of those...
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 29, 2012 at 06:17 PM


    I would say it is somewhat risky to pay someone to come here. I also come from an Eastern European country and like all people around the world we have good and bad ones. There are still a lot of Russian women whose dream is to come to the U.S. and marry a man who can support her and her family, but there are others who just want to start a new life in a new place with less corruption and more freedom. I say you follow your gutt, talk to her on the phone first if possible.... But I will give you one advice for sure that many women do not want to admit - Eastern Europeans like to be spoiled and see that money is spent for them AND their family. But, that is not necessarily a bad thing, we give a lot in return - love, passion, and fun! I hope this helps. Good luck!
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 09, 2012 at 01:55 PM


    Quoting author:

    Stop thinking that all women want to escape from Russia. Those days are over. Now Russia is well-doing country and if you WANT to get rich you have a chance, if not just relax. I don't think that Russian women look for better conditions there... what better conditions, leave here all relatives and good friends? Leave here a good job and places you love? Live in a new country, learn its language and adopt to a new life is a big risk!!! But WHAT moves Russian women, WHY do they go to get marry abroad? The answer is simple - A MAN!!! Because of drinking culture and drug dealers and some recent wars Russia lost many of its good MEN. So, we, Russian women, don't have good or sometimes enough choice of men. We should suffer of a husband's bad behavior because it is very simple for him to find a new wife, but difficult for a woman to find another man. So, the answer is to search for your love in the another country and surf the Internet.
    If you are afraid of scam, use first skype and listen to your heart and watch her eyes (eyes don't lie). Send a ticket.

    Absolutely agree. Except tickets. I would recommend to a guy to go to Russia first...even if you don't like a girl you'll be impressed with the country.
    Concerning that majority of Russian women divorce their American husbands. I guess the same happens in American-American couples. I've heard so many stories when American guys were fooling Russian women about their work, property, etc. Ugly people are everywhere...people who use others for their own purposes...material, immigration...what ever. Yes, nowadays everybody has to be very careful...no money has to be involved into relationship . I saw many mixed couples that are happily married with many kids. Russian women are very loving and caring, but as i said bad people happen everywhere.
    I am Russian, half of my family lives in Russia, half in US and i am looking for my match here and there and everywhere; that stereotype about Russians is very annoying. I have better education than average American, I have my own real estate and I have no debts, I have good job...why should i want to escape?? I love US but it is not a paradise either by many aspects. The only thing that is meaningful is to find a man I would love to get old with...and i don't care what country he will be from.
    By the way, two American guys were borrowing money from ME and didn't give it back. LOL So, everything is relative in this world...
    Conclusion...marrying Russian is a gamble - either you loose or you win jack-pot. Good luck to everybody :-)
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 03, 2012 at 10:48 PM


    why this woman who tries to give you some piece of advice is so much angry and hush on women from ex-USSR?
    the answer is simple she is evil and jealous!!! and judging people using herself as her own example?!
    remember: people are good,bad and different.
    trust the facts: lots of men in Russia are alcoholics.there are many good women there.
    the best is to fly yourself and find out.or if you need any help or advice you could contact me.

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  • View author's info Posted on May 24, 2012 at 04:41 AM


    Quoting author:

    I advise you to stay away from all former soviet women because:

    1. They all search for a better life in a developed country;
    2. Don't believe them when they say there are no men or good men in their country;
    3. They know about the % of preperty settlemkent they will get if they divorce, and they will have the permanent residency of you country. So for them, it is a win-win;
    4. They will tell you they want family, marriage for ever, blah..blah..They just say that to anaethtise you into marrying them and then they will leave you.
    5. According to USA department of Immigration, 82% of Russians/post Soviet women initiate the divorce;
    6. They lack the values we have in theWest and they are "AMORAL". Si leaving you won't make them lose sleep because to them it is all about their self advancement and their life, and not yours!

    Finally, I have travel;led to Russian. Ukrain and several other post-soviet countries. I loived there for a few years. Don't trust them, don't believe them.

    Forget about them!!  Good luck!



    Uhmmm Karl,

    You sound very angry - did this happen to you personally? I am sure there must be some good Russian and post-Soviet women out there that are genuine and loving. They all can't be as you describe, definitely not. If a marriage ends whether it involves Soviet women or not, asset sharing is almost always involved unless of course the couple were penniless. So wouldn't the same be applied to a Russian woman's divorce?

    I guess I am struggling to believe that all the women in Russia and post-Soviet countries set out to deliberately cold-heartedly defraud their unsuspecting, wonderful, loving, men, from the outset! Do you think they have no emotions and have no need for love, care, affection, companionship?

    If a Sovient woman is married to a man who loves her, cares for and about her, cherishes her, why would she want to throw all that away, get 50% of the marital assets and be single and lonely (or alone) for the rest of her life? Are you saying they are this cold-hearted beings who are incapable of returning or having genuine love or affection for a man? Why would anyone divorce someone who makes them absolutely happy and over the moon? That just really doesn't make sense to me. The 82% stat you refer to obviously does not state the grounds of these divorces does it? And as you know it takes two to tangle. How about abuse and domestic violence that some of these women are subjected to in some of these so-called marriages? And the disadvantages they face because of language barrier and cultural difficulties? I think you are only presenting one side of the argument - but then of course you are a lawyer and it would appear it isn't your mission to advocate for the Soviet women.
    As for the original post - yeah, I would be careful with that particular one. Go visit her and see for yourself rather than having her come over. Maintain a long distance relationship with her without splashing out too much money on her and see where things go. If she is genuinely interested in you, it will show and it will endure. If not, she will get impatient and move on quickly! Good luck my dear.

    Liv.

  • View author's info Posted on May 24, 2012 at 04:31 AM


    Quoting author:

    I advise you to stay away from all former soviet women because:

    1. They all search for a better life in a developed country;
    2. Don't believe them when they say there are no men or good men in their country;
    3. They know about the % of preperty settlemkent they will get if they divorce, and they will have the permanent residency of you country. So for them, it is a win-win;
    4. They will tell you they want family, marriage for ever, blah..blah..They just say that to anaethtise you into marrying them and then they will leave you.
    5. According to USA department of Immigration, 82% of Russians/post Soviet women initiate the divorce;
    6. They lack the values we have in theWest and they are "AMORAL". Si leaving you won't make them lose sleep because to them it is all about their self advancement and their life, and not yours!

    Finally, I have travel;led to Russian. Ukrain and several other post-soviet countries. I loived there for a few years. Don't trust them, don't believe them.

    Forget about them!!  Good luck!


    Yes, forget about us and good luck in your home country!  Your post smells nazism and lie.
  • View author's info Posted on May 03, 2012 at 01:39 PM


    wow , that's a big subject:-)
    if you want to meet someone and you are not too lazy and also is not in your hope and asspiration to meet the perfect woman or man to the next corner...then go there and
    meet the person .....or , even better , meet that person in a neutral place , not your country or him , to Paris , for example 
    if that person can't afford a tiket....that can be a big problem and a sign to run....
    plus , for men , do not think only with the head from your paints , if you have 50-60-70 and look only after someone who have no more than 25-35 maxim 40....well , for sure you don't want to meet someone who can be your partner in life but only in bed.....and that will cost you 
    A LOT 
    be realistic and try to look after someone who will be with you in good or bad time 
    if a person is open to "show" you too many in web cam is also dangerous , she or he is used to do this and you need someone who still have shame and respect , if you want a good , respectfull family life you need no such a person 
    and remember...if sound to good to be true...than , for sure it is

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  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2012 at 02:04 PM


    Quoting author:

    hello.
    I'm Russian but I moved here from Moscow and I'm in the states for over 13 years already and have all my legal papers. I want to tell you Dear that don't do this.If you really want to meet a nice Russian women who is already here you can  find them in  Russian community in ur location. It's so many out there who dodn't need to marry some one for paper work. You can find a real Love and good friend here in US. But if you really like that women just take a brake and go to meet her there so you will see all real things there at her home.Try to meet with her friends and her parents if they still alive.I hope i helped you with understanding about what you were telling here. Sincere Nina
     

    Good advice Nina !!!!
    Unfortunately, some guys do like to go to the Former Soviet Union countries because they looking for a woman who are not istablish american, so they can take control of her, who is very naive and depend on them. After sometime, she will be american anyway and there is nothing he can do about it. But this usually happen with the guys are insecure.
    If a guy is smart guy and he likes russian woman or asian or etc., he will look for her in the US.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 18, 2012 at 11:17 AM


    I get about 6 proposals a week from Russian girls, they are all beautiful, they say they get my email from an agency (that does not have my permission), but hears a few points to know,
    they all have the same story.
    they are all poor live with their mom, have no phone, use internet cafe.
    (they think all americans are stupid) and doint know they buy photos of models and pass themselves off as the one in the photo.
    ask her for one in a bikini and they say they dont have one because they are very modest.
    (truth) they forgot to buy a photo of the model in bikini. so they dont have a naked photo with a head shot of the same model so they can prove its them.
    they never answere any questions you ask, (act dumb)
    when they ask for money for visa and money to travel to moscow, you find they dont have a bank account, they want you to send cash though western union.
    they dont have a street address.
    their email comes through about six other email providers never direct.
    many email proposals come from within the US pretending to be from russia.
    scammings are so bad, it hurts russian trade, western union is only acepting small amounts now, nobody is buying nothing from russia, now the KBG are throwing these "people" in jail for 20 years, I say people because most are old bubushcas and men, or wives forced to do this by the drunk husband, give them a chance and they will clean you out.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 21, 2011 at 09:03 AM


    hello.

    I'm Russian but I moved here from Moscow and I'm in the states for over 13 years already and have all my legal papers. I want to tell you Dear that don't do this.If you really want to meet a nice Russian women who is already here you can  find them in  Russian community in ur location. It's so many out there who dodn't need to marry some one for paper work. You can find a real Love and good friend here in US. But if you really like that women just take a brake and go to meet her there so you will see all real things there at her home.Try to meet with her friends and her parents if they still alive.I hope i helped you with understanding about what you were telling here. Sincere Nina

     

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 11, 2011 at 07:13 PM


    She wants or you want?
    You know what, leave Great Russians (Oxford dictionary for stupid) alone, and if you need you next enemy, just look around you. Tip (for stupid in tanks): they look like roaches.
    By the way, for everybody: I see one more negative comment here about Russia or Russians - I'll see you in a court, the right one.
    And if you decide you may use pictures of my law school mates just like that - you're very wrong.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 18, 2010 at 01:17 PM


    Stop thinking that all women want to escape from Russia. Those days are over. Now Russia is well-doing country and if you WANT to get rich you have a chance, if not just relax. I don't think that Russian women look for better conditions there... what better conditions, leave here all relatives and good friends? Leave here a good job and places you love? Live in a new country, learn its language and adopt to a new life is a big risk!!! But WHAT moves Russian women, WHY do they go to get marry abroad? The answer is simple - A MAN!!! Because of drinking culture and drug dealers and some recent wars Russia lost many of its good MEN. So, we, Russian women, don't have good or sometimes enough choice of men. We should suffer of a husband's bad behavior because it is very simple for him to find a new wife, but difficult for a woman to find another man. So, the answer is to search for your love in the another country and surf the Internet.
    If you are afraid of scam, use first skype and listen to your heart and watch her eyes (eyes don't lie). Send a ticket.
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 02, 2010 at 01:18 PM


    Hi. Not everyone is the same. I came from Ukraine long time ago and I am american citizen. It does not matter where are you from. Russian woman or american woman what difference does this make? We all want to be happy.

     

     

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 01, 2010 at 04:59 AM


    Dont trust russian women.Never.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 21, 2010 at 01:27 PM


    The fact that you wrote this post suggests that inwardly, you have some doubt about the intentions of the lady in question. Hop on a plane a bus or anything that will take you there.  If she is not there you will have enjoyed your vacation in Russia.  If she is then you still have your vacation in Russia as a bonus to having your woman in your arms.

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 10, 2010 at 12:52 PM


    And US citizen woman will take your house, money, business and bank account! So whats gonna cost more greencard or everything you worked for your whole life! You american women make it sound like there are no golddiggers here in US! Everyday I hear men crying how their wifes didn't cook, didn't do anything around the house, didn't want to have sex and at the end divorced him and took everything! All women are the same around the world, we always want something from men in return to our love.
    An average russian woman can't afford to pay visa expenses and ticket expenses. There is a chance she will be denied to get a visa, so it's easier for a guy to go and visit her. And if the guy doesn't want to bother taking that chance then don't look for a russian woman or find one here, there are plenty of russian women here.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 07, 2010 at 11:29 PM


    Is a man to assume then, that every e-mail he receives from any woman regardless of nationality is a scam if she is much younger than he is? Am recently divorced and have received quite a few flattering messages from women outside the USA, some of them them over 20 yrs my juniors.

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  • View author's info Posted on Apr 22, 2010 at 11:01 AM


    I think you can visit her in Russia first and then invite her to USA:) Goog luck