I don't see a problem dating outside one's race. I think if an African-American woman prefers to date a white man than that is her choice and vice versa. People are going to talk about you no matter what you do, you can't please everyone. I personally prefer to date white men but am not close minded to dating my own race. Color is nothing but a color....it all depends on how "he" treats you.
So for all black women that do prefer to date white men don't worry about what other people say. It's not important. To each his own!
Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
Hey, as long as white guys are cool with playing in the dark, I don't mind playing in the snow...and I've dated many a snowman! LOL
I've dated a white guy before in high school, but it was nothing serious. I wouldn't mind trying to have a serious one with a white guy...especially if his name is Ben Roethlisberger...I effin LOVE him! ok, back to the topic...interracial is beautiful
I like asia, black, mexican. But I have to be carefuly with asia cuz of their parent are very picky about the color. I feel comfortable with mexican and black. I know black woman easy to accept who I am than mexican and asia. I did dating 3 black lady long time ago.
I have had the best relationships when involved w/a white man, but dont limit myself to who I can date. I try to stay open minded but must admit that white men really appreciate a beautiful black woman especially if she is natural and not trying to mimic another race. Black men too me have know standards and will be w/a woman 8 to 80 blind crippled, and crazy if she will take care of him and give great head. White men want a woman that they can take anywhere @ anytime and she will be able to mesh.
I would say you are a traitor to yourself I bet you sound white u look unnatural and a bubble head If i were a white guy i would only want to screw u and take you out somewhere cheap presentation is everything u make us look bad I have only dated white men and can carry myself and a conversation.
I am not one to bite my tongue, but I have to tell you, you look a hot mess. I bet white guys just f*** you, and never call you again. If you love white men so much...have any of them you have dated ask to marry you? Probably not, you know he can creep with you, but not marry you. You know daddy will cut off his trust fund or inheritance if he marries a black woman.
Is this folish woman with the dated pics for real? looks like any man who dated this head case isint "doing it white" or "right" lol iiiim just kiding...sort of?
I dont really di to deep on this...to me its simple...we all have our preferances..some like em big some like them small some lke the green some like them mother of pearl...your attracted to what your attracted to and thats ok by me! WHO CARES? hint: not moi!
You should date whomever makes you happy. Often people who seem to stick strickly to their own race do so to please others, have no clue that people are people regardless of race, and they truly fear what other people think which in a way is going back to pleasing others.
It's Obvious to me that some non-'white' women prefer 'white' men because of the factors stated earlier in this blog and I also agree that location is a huge factor (i.e.: South vs North East)as also stated. In CA, where I used to be in a band in my early 20's I was the only white guy in the band and typically surrounded by AA women. I found them very passionate as I am and willing to be open and honest with themselves, more than most non AA women.
Again I agree, Love is blind, I don't care what color my partner is. If she is attractive, warm, caring, passionate, etc... I'll make her mine forever under the right circumstances.
The 'right' woman should have no color distinction. If she makes me happy - THAT'S what matters.
(Oh - Built like the perverbial Brick House doesn't hurt either and that is another attribute many AA women have)
There is nothing wrong with knowing what you are looking for in a man. There is nothing wrong with dating white men if that is what you like. I talk from personal experience having been married to a white man for 27 years and have dated mostly white men. I will agree with many who have commented love knows no race. When you find true love it will not be determined by the race of the man but the feelings you both have for each other. Don't limit your possibilities to find love by the color of a man's skin because you might miss the love of your life. Now I need to take my own advice.
Men seem different depending on location. For instance, dating a white male in NYC was relaxed and stress free. Here in the south, it's difficult to date a white male that can handle the public scrutiny.
When dating white men, it feels temporary. I have not been able to, so far, view that as something serious. When dating a black male, it feels more secure and real to me.
I do applaud anyone that stands up for what they believe. Good luck.
I prefer to date white men, and with only two exceptions (and those two were Hispanic, which is still pretty close), everyone I've dated HAS been white. That doesn't mean that ALL a guy has to be is white to have a chance with me. I still wouldn't be interested in him if he was fat, ugly, old enough to be my daddy, dumb, or as someone else said, broke with no chance or motivation for improvement. Just that it's a semi-prerequisite, because I really don't feel any attraction towards men from any of the races I didn't mention. And it has nothing to do with thinking they're not "good enough" or anything, and is more like how a gay man doesn't find other women attractive in "that way." Sometimes you just like what you like, and nothing anyone else says or even your own conscious desire to do so can change that.