Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
I love black women. They seem to be more passionate, sensual, exotic and not to mention the attitude. Although the ebony women I dated didn't care much about race so long as they were treated with love and respect, there was always that one friend or co-worker who showed resentment. But I say you can't live your life pleasing others.
I think you just like what you like. I have a girlfriend that feels the same way that your friends feel. At the end of the day, you are the one that is going to be lying down with this person, sharing your life with this person if it goes that far. I think everyone should be with whomever they want to be with. I married a black man for 21 years. I'm not knocking black men but I want something different. I'm at a point in my life where I want to explore other nationalities. I've also dated a white man and enjoyed the experience and would like to continue to date white men.
Color has nothing to do with matters of the heart. I'm just attracted to whitemen period! Guess it just like the saying once you go white, you never black.
I prefer white men because I am attracted to them,they are awosome on the other side the off springs are so pretty which makes me live each day expectantly waiting to meet my white man... I do not know how long it will take me to find him but I know one day I will find him!
I am not going to put down black men, I just don't want to date them. I am sure there are some good ones out there. I just find it sexy to date out of my race!
I've had many white men that liked me, but I was never on the market( lol).Thought the word "market" was funny ;0 But anyways, I don't have a prefrence, although I've never been romatucally involved with a white man I do find some attractive. I've dated, black and latin men... But now that I am on the "Market" I am willing to take my time and find the right man reguardless of race.... Let the adventures begine!
Sweetheart...never mind what anybody says...I love white men too although i havent dated one yet...but i know i will and then invite all them haters to my wedding....colour is nothing when it comes to love...SIMPLE!
I truly agree that white men are much more affectionate, sensual lovers and honest beings. The attitude of a person comes from their upbringing a lot of times.
I wish you luck in your journey of finding true love. I think every woman of substance should find it..
hi. i sense your anger/frustration which could be a turn-off to both black AND white men. nobody wants an angry black woman... it's unfair and unfounded to say that black men prefer blondes with blue eyes. i assure you that is very far from true. i attract both races equally, and i'm obviously far from having blonde hair and blue eyes. perhaps you feel the need to convince yourself of that so that you don't have to address the real/true reason why you don't attract the black men you want and deserve. perhaps you are just simply not their type, but that doesn't mean their type is blonde/blue eyes. or, perhaps you expect the worse, and in turn, you subconsciously give off those negative signals to GOOD black men.
with that said, why would they pursue you if you approach the situation with preconceived notions. hmm, i'm sure you've heard of self-fulfilling prophecy... it's not always exclusively about physical attraction. with all do respect, it sounds like your issues are from within, and a white man is not the answer. i say date who makes you happy, but happiness starts from within. all the best to you!
Don't listen to what these other people have to say I don't give black men the time of day anymore and I don't care what any one thinks about it because I have been treated so bad by them in the past that now I don't look their way. I prefer white men and that's just me. Most black guys now in days think that blonde hair and blue eyes is what's really beautiful so I don't see y they would care who we date...so date who you want, I do.
Love is blind! You cannot say who you will fall in love with, unless you mistake love for lust. Don't choose a race, open your mind and heart and let him in, regardless of color of skin.
Most of my life I have dated white men. My friends call me a traitor sometimes and say I should stick to my own kind. But I feel as long as I'm happy I don't care what my friends have to say about my dating preference. I get annoyed but in the end I stay true to myself.
I like men of all races, and some of my friends have a problem with that, so in that instance I understand where you're coming from...On the other hand, it seems as though you just like to date white guys because of their color, and that's not cool...The way a man treats you is what counts, not the color of their skin.
I'm a 41 year old black woman, I've never dated a white man, but would love to date a white man one day. I would love to share life with a white man....