do you really believe they are millionaires? Dating Wealthy Men / Women Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Sep 13, 2011 at 05:07 PM


    i am very leary about the men on this site. i believe half of what they say about their income.

    i am a very comfortable women and i wanted to meet someone who has a bit more then $40,000 a year. it has been impossible.

    there have been a few that looked decent, but the rest are not my type. i am sure they are wonderful men, but for an older thinking women.the younger men want younger women. there is nothing i can do about that except i don't let it stop me. i write to them anyway.

    i always look to see what time it is that they are on line, that could tell you something. either they are retired or not too busy to contact you. hopeing  i get a break.

    Sandi

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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 11, 2019 at 10:53 AM


    Quoting author:

    i am very leary about the men on this site. i believe half of what they say about their income.

    i am a very comfortable women and i wanted to meet someone who has a bit more then $40,000 a year. it has been impossible.

    there have been a few that looked decent, but the rest are not my type. i am sure they are wonderful men, but for an older thinking women.the younger men want younger women. there is nothing i can do about that except i don't let it stop me. i write to them anyway.

    i always look to see what time it is that they are on line, that could tell you something. either they are retired or not too busy to contact you. hopeing  i get a break.

    Sandi

    Sandi,

     

    My grandmother, at 85 years of age, got a boyfriend; neither of them are millionaires, but my grandfather was a politician, and her new boyfriend is also a politician (although he is younger than her).

     

    I don't think its too late or impossible for you to find someone you may be very well compatible with. I think its great that you are taking the time to approach people online, as you will likely have to be more assertive to find someone, though If I was in your position I would also be very assertive in looking for mate outside of the internet if you are not so already. If any of your friends and family do not know that you are interested in finding love, then you should definitely consider being more assertive in your search in daily life.

     

    I do think your profile is well put together. Your descriptions are precise, relevant, and far from generic. It is not a deal breaker, I would consider removing the height preference as it will likely improve your chances with sensible men.

     

    When ladies post a height requirement men label them as "size queens". My father, now divorced, is 6'2 and even he doesn't women who state height requirements. It simply looks very superficial; If you read a man's profile that said "if you don't have natural size DD breast, then go away" would you approach them? I can only guess that even woman who fills this requirement wouldn't be interested. Men are just as sensitive about their height as women are about their breasts.

     

    Of course professional pictures help attract attention, though I don't think the ones you currently have are dragging you down. though I would recommend adding some pictures of yourself during your travels as well when you are interacting with your lovely pets.

     

    I hope some of this will help you in your quest for love, and wish you the best of luck!

    Ruben

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 11, 2019 at 10:19 AM


    Quoting author:

    Meaning no disrespect, of the women who have posted in this thread, only ONE would fall into the trophy wife category. Also note she stated she's had success here.
    Its a bit naive to expect a wealthy man to automatically say, "I'm wealthy and successful, I think I'm going to go to a site dedicated to matching people based on their incomes, but while I'm there, I'm going to look for women who are my age and that do not already share my lifestyle." If you want to find a man on ANY site of this type you need to be either young, attractive, or wealthy, some combination of the above works as well.
    You're only going to find two types of wealthy men on this site, the ones looking for trophy wives, and the ones looking for women who have more in common with them than the average woman they meet (based on the possibly flawed logic that she wont be a gold digger).

    I'm gonna take a quick guess and say mikemc is likely talking about KimmyBarbieDoll as being the only one that falls into the trophy wife category. Ladies, men are stupid about everything except what their eyes tell them. It would serve you well to remember that; if you are not what most men would categorize as "trophy wife" material it doesn't mean all hope is lost, it just means you should try a different strategy. For those of you who have not looked at LoriRita and her profile, you would do well to take that as a good example of what a well put together profile looks like from a serious man's eyes. she has clear pictures in places other than the beach doing activities she enjoys. although her bio is short she does state enough information for a man to get a general idea of views of the world as well as her desires in a man.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 27, 2018 at 05:22 PM


    These men on here are a bit of a  joke.

    If you are a millionaire.. why would you have to brag about all your toys and show your self in a selfie bathroom shot or your abs...

    I am off here tomorrow and just wasted a month membership.

    And all the silly ridiculous women or girls drooling over each ugly old man pic.

    Makes me ashamed to be on here

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 15, 2018 at 11:56 AM


    I came on this site to find a well-rounded, put-together, man as well. Someone with a millionaire mindset. With drive for more like myself. Articulate to discuss ideas, which I love. I was surprised. Most men were only wanting sex talk or sex trips. 

     

    I found men that I liked, but then discovered they lied about their age, their single status, even their height. 

     

    I've read that many people do find long-lasting relationships using online dating though.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 07, 2018 at 02:10 AM


    I dont think it matters if the guy is actually a millionare as long as he has the mentality and drive to become a millionare. Thats why I came on this site. Im looking for a guy with that millionare mindset of self determination, confidence, and true belief in his abilities even if it hasn't manifested yet. Mindset and ability is more important because I want to be by the side of someone that would feel assured that if he lost all of his money and assets today he could get it back. Being wealthy or rich isnt about money its about belief and mindset. 

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 03, 2018 at 09:13 AM


    Quoting author:

    I went through the process of providing bank and brokerage statement to meet the "millionaire" standard. It was not that difficult.

     

    It is clearly true that many of the male profiles are not millionaires, then again, my experience is that the average female profile decreases their age by 5 years and a good number of the profile photos are taken at odd angles, very old old or just blurry... 

    My standard policy is to video chat within a short time... it weeds out the profiles quickly. 

     

    As to the previous statement,  "Make them "work" for it, ladies you know what I mean. But also a man with truly significant disposable income won't balk at flying you out or taking you out to nice places." This is the last thing a wealthy man wants... another person more interested in their cash flow...than them. After a few years I am detect  that interest within moments of chatting or meeting. 

    And why is it so important being a millionaire or not? Without wanting to be rude, it is something that is not really important. I prefer a bright, intelligent open mind, a gentlemanly behaviour, respect and acceptance as equal. Having worked and raised to children after my husband died, I alwys paid for my own bills, the kids education, flew first and business class.Does that change anything?

    Regarding old phtos, I cannot judge the female side but a lot of men have photos taken a long time ago, no difference between male and female.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 01, 2018 at 10:27 AM


    I went through the process of providing bank and brokerage statement to meet the "millionaire" standard. It was not that difficult.

     

    It is clearly true that many of the male profiles are not millionaires, then again, my experience is that the average female profile decreases their age by 5 years and a good number of the profile photos are taken at odd angles, very old old or just blurry... 

    My standard policy is to video chat within a short time... it weeds out the profiles quickly. 

     

    As to the previous statement,  "Make them "work" for it, ladies you know what I mean. But also a man with truly significant disposable income won't balk at flying you out or taking you out to nice places." This is the last thing a wealthy man wants... another person more interested in their cash flow...than them. After a few years I am detect  that interest within moments of chatting or meeting. 

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 24, 2018 at 12:03 AM


    EXACTLY, PERIOD! WELL SAID! TAKE HEED LADIES, THESE ARE THE RULES! 

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 21, 2018 at 04:53 AM


    The only way to truly verify someone is to ask them questions. Verify everything they say, if there is no record of them, they they are not real If they are evasive or "private" they are mostly full of crap or married - either way not trustworthy.

     

    2. Make them "work" for it, ladies you know what I mean. But also a man with truly significant disposable income won't balk at flying you out or taking you out to nice places.

     

    3. If the majority of their pics are of them at the gym or working out, they are most assuredly BROKE and over compensating for it (in a really gross way).

     

    On a personal note, as bi-sexual woman, I only find women sexually attractive. When I want to masturbate, I always put on girl-girl porn. For men, I find their actions attractive. The way they treat (and touch) me, themselves, the people closest to them. Do they give of themselves? Its one thing to have money, its another to spend it. As my feelings develop for them, then and ONLY then can a sexual attraction develop. Because I care about them, and I want to make them happy, to give of myself they did for me.

     

    So when they behave crassly or say, "you know you want my big...." I just walk away laughing. On time, I walked out on this douche, went to straight to a lesbian club  and in 3 hours I took home a blonde hottie and had the best sex of my life!

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 21, 2018 at 04:13 AM


    Quoting author:

    A "millionaire" is defined as someone who makes at least 150K per year... at least by this site.  Only 3% of the population make over 250K per year.  Only 0.8% have an income of 1 million of more.  About half of 1/100 of one percent make more than $10,000,000.  Of those 250K or higher, the vast majority are married.  Statistically, it would probably be easier to be hit by lightening then to marry a millionaire. 

    OMG that's all terrible and I'm pretty sure not accurate.

    1. If that's MM's criteria for Millionaire certification then that is pathetic. But accounts for a lot of the tools on this site.

    2. In California, most people (along the coastal communities pull down $100K+) I live in San Francisco and that's what most people make working for the City - starting out.

    3. Generally speaking in SF, if you own a home you are mostly a "millionaire" by way of net worth - same is true for LA, Seattle, NYC, Boston

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 17, 2013 at 08:58 AM


     I agree with most of this statement.

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 11, 2012 at 03:54 AM


    Meaning no disrespect, of the women who have posted in this thread, only ONE would fall into the trophy wife category. Also note she stated she's had success here.
    Its a bit naive to expect a wealthy man to automatically say, "I'm wealthy and successful, I think I'm going to go to a site dedicated to matching people based on their incomes, but while I'm there, I'm going to look for women who are my age and that do not already share my lifestyle." If you want to find a man on ANY site of this type you need to be either young, attractive, or wealthy, some combination of the above works as well.
    You're only going to find two types of wealthy men on this site, the ones looking for trophy wives, and the ones looking for women who have more in common with them than the average woman they meet (based on the possibly flawed logic that she wont be a gold digger).
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 02, 2012 at 01:49 PM


    I have been on this site a long time and only met one man. he thought he had money, but right after we met, he lost it all, ha, ha, ha. really? He hasn't dated me in months and months and I told him i didn't care that he wasn't wealthy. I liked him for who he was.
    Unfortuneately, he has a big ego and will not date me until he has some money, or as i interpret it, he isn't into me. I will probably give up and stop wondering if he is coming back.
    Since i am the most busyiest women right now, am not needing a man, thank God, When it is time, someone will come into my life.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 21, 2011 at 06:00 PM


    Yeah!..Songbelle,Racytay1020,Kimmybarbiedoll,Sandifernstein and CallmeOrlando.. But it would Really, Really, Be Soooo Nice to have a Site with ONLY Real Millionaires, To make it Easy for the Ladies, Don't you Agree.. Let's keep our Hope up and Pray. It really does take Much time and Patient to weed through people to find that special someone that you have Longed for, A REAL MILLIONAIRE that starts with at least 150K per Year and Up, I'm so Serious about meeting someone Special, who has NO GAMES and who does not WASTE People Precious Time Lying on the Sites. People should be real when it come to matters of the Heart. Don't you Agree...Take Care? "Evelyn"....
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 19, 2011 at 10:28 AM


    A "millionaire" is defined as someone who makes at least 150K per year... at least by this site.  Only 3% of the population make over 250K per year.  Only 0.8% have an income of 1 million of more.  About half of 1/100 of one percent make more than $10,000,000.  Of those 250K or higher, the vast majority are married.  Statistically, it would probably be easier to be hit by lightening then to marry a millionaire. 
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 09, 2011 at 07:28 AM


    So well put Songbelle! I haven't been on the website for long but I must say that it really does take time to weed through the people to find someone. So far I've actually had a good experience on here. I think any online dating site is bound to have its issues with people giving false info, fake pictures or what have you, it's kind of up to us to figure that out. Best of luck on your quests for love ladies! I know with patience you'll find that special someone
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 01, 2011 at 05:43 PM


    Some probably are and others are just playing games. I'm sure they experience deception from their side as well, not all women post recent photos or photos that resemble their true shape and size! I'm as advertised and not wealthy, but will do well on my own one day.

    I think its a timing thing anyway, we might fall for a broke guy at anytime, the wealthier men in general play more, but eventually they too settle down. So, it does not hurt to put yourself in a target rich environment. I for one, have three kids. Most men are terrified of that prospect. They are well behaved and respectful, and I got them covered anyway. I don't need a rich man, but it sure would be nice. The reason I got on here was a friend who used to make a lot of money told me to. We figured wealthier men would have one less barrier to breakdown that way. Money complicates things at times but also makes some things simple to solve.

    As for meeeting offline....yes, yes, yes....but still the games are played, they are just like every other guy except they have some money. So, careful. I meet at alumni events, festivals, boat shows, and I am not shy about getting out to a nice restaurant alone. Shop where they shop, eat alone where they eat. I met one on another dating site, just an accident. Had no idea he was wealthy at first, just liked that he was really nice...but here I am...he was a player.

    Have fun and be careful....yes, people lie...so some here are lying.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 27, 2011 at 11:56 PM


    Yeah... I am not sure there is really ANY way to tell how many of the men on here who "claim" to be millionaires, actually, well, are, but I do know that there are a few that are "verified" on here, and that at least those few are what they say they are. I think there are a number of men on here just looking for... erm... "better than average" women, though, and this is the only way they know of to find them, all the while putting on a facade, in hopes that it will be okay once the woman discovers the true spirit of the person. (Hmph.) It has been my experience thus far, that most of the men on here will eventually at least tell you that they aren't really rich. Yes, that can be disappointing. But if it is truly what you seek, don't settle for less, and stand your ground. I have been doing a bit of research (online and elsewhere) on how to go "out in to the real world" and find successful, wealthy men. I am wondering myself if that may not be a more viable option at this point. Still, I keep my hopes up... I have at least talked to a few nice men on a few of these sites, and have met one, and plan to meet many more. It just takes time to weed through the rats. Oh, and be sure to read the section on here about internet dating website scam artists. They are unfortunately, in high numbers on these sites, as well. Just be careful, and keep a positive attitude. You are gorgeous and smart, and in time, I have no doubt you'll find someone!
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