Money can sometimes pervert a mans sexuality. Meaning it takes great extremes to satisfy him. But at the end of the day. Looks is the most important form of attraction to women, even down to a hormonal level. The triad is looks, money and status, you’ll need a good combination of all 3. I would say the most important personality trait is humor.
The reason successful older men prefer to date younger women is because THEY CAN. Women are not attracted to youth. Women are attracted to confidence and power.
LOL Your interpretation of what women want is immature. I only date younger men and always have. No one wants an old wrinkled fella with no ability to satisfy. I've found that the men that want a barbie aren't seeking love and that may or may not be due to their own inability to love. A man who knows the love he has, wants a woman who will return it and cherish it, and doesn't seek out the arm candy and the cold faux affection that comes with it.
It's what's been engraved in humans for millenniums. Younger women are more fertile and viewed as more vital. Once we hit 35 our fertility goes down, once we have children, those who are not graced with good genetics will need surgical intervention to put everything back in place. Also child birth is dangerous, without modern medically intervention many of us died. Having a younger women to produce more children was necessary, especially the short life spans and high rate of infantile death. Granted this may not be the case in westernize cultures today but a women's youth is still valued and sought after.
In my opinion, most men are attracted to youth and beauty, a younger woman feeds their ego. Most of the time, the younger woman is with him for what he can give to her. I think he knows that, but doesn't care. That moment of affection and attention from a younger female is worth looking like an "older" fool. I could be wrong, but there is a bit of truth to this statement.
This is a very interesting Topic. You're a living example of your earlier home life, educational background, those crucial growing years when you are transitioning from a child, teen to an adult is the determining factor that plays a baring as to the type of person you become, therefore a young Lady may or mayn't be attracted to somebody that fits within that category, they may be self sufficient in their own right, very/highly educated, therefore don't find or feel the need for and Older Wealthy Man to take them under his wing and provide for them and jet set them around the world as should they choose they can carry out all that on their own accord.
On the other hand they may find that appealing because their life has no meaning in their own eyes and they need that fulfilment and excitement they never experienced growing up and desire for such a Man to provide them the security and love they never felt they had.
That works the same for a a Young Guy to be attracted to an Older Woman, to feel emotionally more connected and a sense of greater emotional security and intimacy, but on the other hand just like above if that younger Guy is confident and self assured like a younger Woman, then in his own right, he too is more flexible to whom he might decide to partner with and vice versa Older or Younger on all accounts, so it is dependent on that earlier start in life, a product of ones environment overall I personally feel determines the outcome.
It certainly appears that way. It’s sad to think that some women just want to be paraded around as eye candy. Little do the old guys know, but their younger eye candy will be doing their pool boys before too long! You reap what you sow!
I’d take a classy, seasoned man with his sh*t together before I would take on the babysitting job of a younger man. I just don’t think there are any on this site!
Rich guys go with younger women because they are easier to manipulate. They use there money as a tool to show the woman what she could have until they are done with her. It's the world your dealing with, nothing nice about it.
Older men do not always look for younger women(and the ones who do the maybe you should pass) this is a wrong statment in my opinion !!! and of my own experience 1as long as you are worth it age is only a number !Trust me !
All men want to be with someone they are attracted to and have fun with. It is not automatic that they go with younger women, but as a man gets older, the range expands so it can work out that way just as it can also work out that he finds his high school sweetheart.
Not all older men like myself want to be with a younger woman. Older women are more interesting to be with given their life experiences. They generally know what they want and are looking for. Many have been mothers which makes them more giving. It takes a lot of patience, love, and giving of oneself to raise children. They also make better lovers.
Sorry but I disagree, I have come across several younger men that when I asked them why not go after a younger girl, they said they have nothing in common or talk about with a younger girl, as a matter of fact they prefer to date older women that are mature and interesting to talk to.