Can anyone explain this? Comments and Suggestions

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 27, 2011 at 07:11 PM

    the tons of winks could be: their last few weeks of chance to meet someone.
    ..hidden profile esp on weekends means that they may have made changes, added a note or pic so it is blocked from few till approved..
    xx if tey are asking fro approval, means that the other person filtered it be seen by PREMIUM MEMBERS only , they can wink, but you are not allowed to see their profile unless
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 13, 2011 at 01:35 PM

    Report these people to Customer Support.  They'll investigate.

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 15, 2010 at 08:11 PM

    This is what i do!!  i only reply back the ones that said "RECOMENDED" those are the one veryfy..i don't answer to the ones out of USA...and wen i look at the picture i look at the background!! what you see can tell alot from this guy!!!     be aware!!

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 16, 2010 at 10:44 PM

    I just had this happen to me today which was a shame because I found him interesting and would have liked to make contact, at least wink back.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 24, 2010 at 07:20 PM

    You're not the only one.  It's happened to me a lot, too.  I don't know why it happens, but I have emailed guys who did this.  Some add me as a favorite to further the conversation (they can sometimes be viewed by people they have "favorited") and others don't respond.  And them sometimes, I know it's disconcerting, but sometimes they have already found someone.  I know it's a generalization, but I have heard many men talk about dating as being a "numbers game."  They throw out a lot of emails and winks and then see what comes back.  They're not necessarily serious when they email or wink.  They figure if they ask out 30 or 40 women, at least 1 will say yes.  And then sometimes they will email or wink women who are way out of their league "just in case."  Like men who are old enough to be your father and even older than that.  Yuck.