They shouldn't even be charging for people trying to find love. I think most of these matchmakers end up getting it wrong most the time anyway. I just feel like we shouldn't waste money on people that think they know what's best for us.
my thoughts are only you know what you want . Someone else will always get it wrong and the result will be disappointment. So to answer your question, I would not let someone else find a match for me. Prefer the involved approach.