who's willing to check out my profile.... Dating Tips and Advices

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 11, 2016 at 04:36 AM

    and give me some constructive advice.   I am the real deal, but I don't seem to get any interest.  I am not interested in flings, so maybe that is the problem.  I am looking for a long term relationship with someone who is real and who isn't interested in sending me porn pics as an intro.  

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  • View author's info Posted on Jan 23, 2017 at 12:00 AM

    You are pretty, and you seem very genuine.  If I had to give you some very surface advice; have someone help you with your photos so you are showing the best you possible. Smile a little more- show your joy. Lift your head up!

    Second, it seems you may have had some turmoil in your past relationship, as all of us have, but you can leave those tidbits off your bio for a conversation (when appropriate).  One of the hardest career tips I ever received also works in life- "people don't want to hear it".  For instance, you run into someone you haven't seen in a while (at the grocery store) and you, being polite, ask, "how are you?", and the responder unloads about losing her keys, her husband, and then her mind.  You were just looking for broccoli, not a diatribe. 

    Once you find someone that cares about you, whether its here or anywhere else, they will want to hear what you have to say and you should share.  Until then, even the slightest notes of sadness upset the sensibilities of typical men.  Also, I have a free account and its a mystery to me still (though very new), and you shouldn't take this stuff too seriously- I think it can be damaging.  Get out there in person- you seem active and intelligent- slam dunk.

    Good luck with it all!

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 01, 2016 at 01:51 AM

    Take a look at your profile and ask yourself if you would date or marry yourself.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 13, 2016 at 04:06 AM

    Thank you for those tips!