It appears only winks are allowed and its difficult to know if profiles are real!
I have not paid the fee to become 'gold' but I wanted to know for those who have, have you had any success? do men actually reach out or is this a scam?
I don't care about the money as I am trying to find an educated cultured man and I don't know if it is possible as I am ignorantly assuming that men in here would think women want them for their money and thus objectify them and some women may not necessarily represent us well either...
my point is, is this worth it or should I forget it?