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  • author ( 35, man | Vermilion, OH, USA )

    Let's go, or meet, at one of those really nice and cozy coffee houses somewhere. I have a personal favorite in Burton, but there are others. The kind that have a full assortment of coffees and teas, a...  see more >>

  • author ( 69, man | Miami Beach, FL, USA )

    Something that would be conducive to good conversation and focus on each other. Not cheap or expensive. It's about the atmosphere and ability to be heard and to hear. Arrive and depart together. Dress...  see more >>

  • author ( 51, man | San Jose, CA, USA )

    Id rather call it a meet is kinda old fashioned isn't it? Lets meet for Boba ..I'm guessing you probably don't drink much of it ( and think its not healthy) but lets do it anyway and ge...  see more >>

  • author ( 53, woman | Hanover, MD, USA )

    A day date on a Saturday morning that would include good music coupled with lots of laughs during a walk or some form of physical exercise near a beautiful body of water. This could be followed by a s...  see more >>

  • author ( 46, woman | Washington, DC, USA )

    My first date idea would be meeting at a cafe and talking over coffee to see if any sparks fly! Chemistry is so important so to avoid wasting each other's time down the road we need to meet for an hou...  see more >>

  • author ( 56, woman | Naples, FL, USA )

    Would love a quiet cafe out doors watching the passers by just drinking wine or coffee getting to know each other. Maybe an activity would be fun as well rock climbing , paddle boarding or hiking? axe...  see more >>

  • author ( 60, woman | Beverly Hills, CA, USA )

    Perhaps a quick first meeting to get acquainted and see if we share some of the same values. Ultimately finding a great companion comes overtime but I do believe that you can get an idea on the first...  see more >>

  • author ( 54, man | Yelm, WA, USA )

    Coffee is always a great first date as expectations are minimum. At times, dinner can also be a great first date as long as there is a great conversation and lighting to be able to look into each othe...  see more >>

  • author ( 59, woman | Palm Beach Gardens, FL, USA )

    I think on a first date we should keep it simple maybe a coffee date or something to that effect where we can talk. We can take it from there . One thing I've learned with on line dating is that there...  see more >>

  • author ( 38, woman | Coventry, CT, USA )

    I feel like meeting for coffee or tea is a decent icebreaker. There is no pressure, and a decent conversation can be had. The conversation can take place outside if the weather is nice. Another perk o...  see more >>

  • author ( 71, man | Knoxville, TN, USA )

    Simple, fun, safe, then a movie, a delicious meal, a walk in nature by a river, on the tennis court, visiting an art museum, having a conversation, wondering and wandering and enjoying living in the n...  see more >>

  • author ( 48, woman | Regierungsbezirk Stuttgart, Baden-Wurttemberg, Germany )

    I think a first date should be very informal and could be very brief if needed. I tend to know pretty quickly whether theres a connection or not. I know I dont want to sit through a long dinner with s...  see more >>

  • author ( 44, man | San Antonio, TX, USA )

    I generally like a low-key, quiet place. A coffee shop, or a brunch. A place where either party can leave fairly quickly if there's no connection, or stick around for a few hours if there is one. Noth...  see more >>

  • author ( 57, man | Alexandria, VA, USA )

    On the first date I want to sit face to face with my date and listen to her over a reasonable meal or beverage at an unassuming restaurant, caf or place, cause at this point, Im not trying to impress...  see more >>

  • author ( 61, woman | Burbank, CA, USA )

    My preference is to keep it simple and see what happens. Coffee works for me, or even a walk on the beach. I prefer casual and easy in a comfortable setting to laugh and chat and see if there is a con...  see more >>