FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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A meet and greet at a cozy drink venue no food just a drink to know whether we click or not. I never expect a man to pay for a meal until I know that there’s some interest! The only thing it would cost you is one drink if we’re getting along real good possibly two.
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Sample the local wine and enjoy each others company. Get to know each other and see if we find something worthwhile.
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Somewhere where we can talk and have a drink is always good for me ! I wanna get a general feel for our connection so nothing loud so I can hear you!
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You being intentional, taking me out, asking me to be ready and meet a a specific place, with you showing up with flowers and plan an amazing date
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Easy going date for few hours too get too know who I'm dealing with... I'm very flexible open for any ideas and suggestions make your wish and see what happens...
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My idea of a first day is simple. Meet at a Café to chat to see if we click. If we click then perhaps go for a walk. The icebreaker is important.
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An evening dinner in a nice restaurant to get to know each other and then go for a walk in the area to keep knowing each other.
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Dinner and drinks at a place we both agree on.then a walk or just setting by the lake and watching the sunset
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like the idea of keeping it open-ended: start with drinks, see if conversation pulls us somewhere else. Bonus points if there’s water involved. I’m in Pensacola, so a sunset somewhere is also a nice touch.
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A great first date is less about where we go and more about the conversation. A nice dinner, a walk under the stars, a local winery, or even coffee on a patio works for me. I enjoy getting to know someone without distractions and seeing if we can laugh, connect, and genuinely enjoy each other's company.
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Let's rendezvous at a charming, intimate spot that's not too pricey but peaceful enough for us to converse in public.
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My favourite first date is one where we can talk, laugh and genuinely connect. Good energy matters more to me than the place.
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My ideal date is simple but meaningful starting with the Napa Salad and a bottle of Red Romance at Cooper’s Hawk Winery & Restaurant. Good food, good wine, and even better conversation. Then ending the night with a walk on the beach, talking about our dreams, goals, ambitions, and what we truly want out of life. Just seeing if our energy aligns, if the conversation flows naturally, and if we genuinely connect on a deeper level. I love moments where two people can laugh, be open-minded, inspire each other, and simply enjoy each other’s presence without forcing anything.
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Don’t think too much into it — the best dates are the ones where you just go with the flow. I’m not big on pressure or over-planning. Maybe we grab coffee, take a walk, find a cool spot neither of us has tried before. Something low-key where we can actually talk and get a feel for each other’s energy. If the conversation is good, everything else falls into place anyway. I’m flexible and pretty easy to make plans with — so let’s not overthink the details. Just tell me where you want to meet and we’ll figure out the rest from there. 😊
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For the first date I enjoy going to a coffee shop for a matcha latte or a nice lunch, maybe a tennis match.
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I love small, intimate cafés with dim, soft lighting, candles on the table, and a quiet atmosphere where no one disturbs us — just a peaceful space where we can talk and truly get to know each other.
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* a beautiful restaurant with ambiance and good food,
* a rooftop at sunset,
* a coffee shop + bookstore + walk,
* an art exhibit or garden followed by dinner,
* a thoughtful picnic,
* or a classy lounge with live jazz/acoustic music.
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My ideal first date would be somewhere we can get to know each other in a comfortable location.
I am looking for a man that I can build a solid relationship with.
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A great first date is good conversation and good energy. Think wine bar, live music, a museum, brunch, plant shopping, a comedy show, or somewhere we can actually talk and laugh without yelling over the music.
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Have a couple of drinks to see if there is chemistry. I think it is important to meet in person to see if there is true connection. I'm not about texting all the time.And I appreciate phone call
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