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I enjoy visiting while hiking up in the Rockies behind my cabin. Then we could relax with drinks on my deck.
Category: Walking or Hiking
A walk, a coffee, a museum, or other art event.
A visit to the Rothko Chapel always great or a stop in the Menil.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
Meet at a cafe and see if there is synergy. If there is a connection, walk and talk. I love going to museums , theatre , opera or music of any type.
Category: Cafe
A nice dinner at Jakes Crawfish where we can get to breaking the ice and learning about each other. I would then follow the dinner with a walk on a the riverfront.
Category: Dinner
Since flying to somewhere exotic is a bit ambitious, let’s start things off the old-fashioned way, with dinner or lunch and good conversation. Or, I also know some scenic trails if a hike sounds good to you...
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
BEACH
BOAT CRUISE
NAPALI COAST
SAKI
SUSHI
DOLPHINS
TURTLES
WHALES
SWEET NOTHING WHISPERS
SUNSETS OVER NIIHAU THE FORBIDDEN ISLAND
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
We could walk on the beach or pier. Just a casual first meeting would be fine for me. I like walking and talking on nature trails.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
Quiet and relaxing evening with a light music on the background having great conversations to help to know better about each other
Category: Dinner
Somewhere we can actually talk—a great glass of wine, good food and no rush. If the conversation is flowing and neither of us is checking the time, that’s a pretty good first date.
Category: Dinner
A candlelight dinner is very nice, but I would rather have a casual dinner and converse with each other .
Category: Dinner
Taking a road trip to local interests or just sittin on my patio enjoying the outdoors. Maybe going to one of the rallies I go to.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
Fun with conversation and stories about both of us. Staring into each others eyes. Long walk if possible
Category: Cafe
I like to walk and talk or go to a fun place to enjoy together, not so much into just sitting and drinking. Some ideas are strolling the Seattle waterfront, or the Kirkland waterfront. Just whatever we decide to do is fine.
Category: Sightseeing
Dinner in a quiet spot where we are able to talk and learn more about each other. I believe communication is the key to any relationship.
Category: Dinner
Nice walk, perhaps along the beach, followed by a drink.
If we seem compatible and agree, meet up for a meal later.
Category: Cafe
A very fancy dinner in a restaurant that have a beautiful view. And then go to a place with very nice music, where we can have a nice conversation.
Category: Fancy Dining
I would love to chat and see what works for both of us. Perhaps coffee, lunch, dinner. I am open to where
and how we meet.
Category: Cafe
Let’s keep it simple—a cozy café, coffee or a glass of wine, and a conversation that comes easily. Add some laughter, a little playful flirting, plenty of eye contact, and that unmistakable feeling that there just might be a spark.
And if we both find ourselves lingering because neither one wants to say goodbye quite yet… I’d call that a very successful first date. 😉
Category: Cafe
Dinner with good conversation. Walk on the beach afterward listening to the waves under the moonlight.
Category: Drinks
Coffee somewhere comfortable where we can actually talk. If we enjoy each other’s company, we can figure out what comes next.
Category: Cafe