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Cafelatte and cake.The main thin is getting to know you. I hope you love going to cafes and we get to have a good time.
Category: Cafe
I’d like a nice sit down dinner with low light and light classical background music so we can talk..
Category: Fancy Dining
For a first date, I'd love something simple like dinner, drinks, or any cozy spot where we can sit down and have a quiet conversation. What matters most to me is being able to really talk and get to know each other. I love music, so some soft music playing in the background would make it even nicer.
Category: Others
Absolutely a low key one, and unforgettable. Coffee, or drinks, followed by a romantic and lovely walk at a nearby park would ease my date state of mind, to make her feel like in her teenage.
Category: Others
I like people to be 100% themselves with me, and I like to feel a connection with the person I’m going out with first, developing some kind of mutual attraction. That’s what matters to me. I don’t like being drowned in a lot of questions about me what I do, etc. We can talk about that on another occasion, but I like to have the moment for us to think about how we feel around each other without being carried away by a more interview-like type of date
Category: Dinner
My idea of a perfect first date is something elegant but relaxed, where we can enjoy a great conversation, laugh, and really get to know each other.
A beautiful restaurant with a romantic atmosphere, a glass of wine, and maybe a walk afterward would be perfect. Nothing too loud or overwhelming. For me, it’s more about the chemistry and connection than the place.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
I like to have a first meet up for coffee or drinks maybe dinner and see how we match and then plan a proper first date.
Category: Drinks
An ideal first date preferably in the late afternoon, could be a gym, tea or casual drink meet, I thrive on energy, I think it’s easier to plan a light event then go extravagant and we end up not connecting expensively 🤣🤣. Second date we can go on an evening extravaganza.
Category: Others
Sunny day, lots of sun, nice breeze air, walking in the park by the water lots of tress and deers , peaceful walk.
Category: Walking or Hiking
I'm unique with unique ideas. I think we start with something fun and that you like that you can show me!
After that, spa. Private, so we can flirt over champagne in an Cosy place. Massage and prepping the body for romance. Dinner at the beach, music, lamps, cushions and blankets, 100s of lights...you give me an expensive diamant necklace that I will never ever take of.
And all of this is of course in the Seychelles. So that we during the day also had the opportunity to take some cute turtle babies to the ocean..
And before the dinner we had gone on an exciting tore on the beautiful island. Stopped for a drink in a bar to see an 200 yr old big tortoise walking in and make a memory that stays in our heart forever.. We swim in the pool and talk about everything and anything in those big sunbeds..we flirt all the time. Laugh so we cry.
And after the dinner that I started to talk about. After that we go down to beach where it is bioluminescent, so when we hugs and finally kiss the whole water around us is shimmering all blue... We deep kiss and you take my hand firmly back to our room and finally efter a couple of geting to learning each other we have the best sex during the whole night and next day. The hotell must come with breakfast to us because we can't leave the bed...
Category: Others
Drinks at a jazz show. Great conversation. . Laughing. Maybe a snack. . . . . B . . . . . . . . . .
Category: Drinks
My ideal first date would be a cozy dinner with a nice atmosphere, good food, and even better conversation. Somewhere we can laugh, flirt a little, talk about life, and enjoy getting to know each other without any pressure. A little romance and a thoughtful man who knows how to make a woman feel special would definitely be a bonus!
Category: Dinner
My ideal first date? I’m a romantic at heart, so it could be an intimate dinner by candlelight with a beautiful glass of wine, a simple beach walk with a picnic, or a spontaneous “let’s hop on a jet and go to Paris.” I love a man who is fun, adventurous, playful, and knows how to make a moment unforgettable. For me, it’s all about the chemistry, the laughter, and enjoying life together—with a true gentleman and absolutely no drama.
Category: Others
I appreciate a man who takes initiative and plans a thoughtful first date. Good conversation, genuine chemistry, mutual curiosity, and a relaxed atmosphere matter more than anything extravagant. A little effort goes a long way.
Category: Cafe
Coffee/tea or some tasty ice cream with a stroll in the park always seems like the easiest starter without high expectations.
Or, lets do something fun! An activity that lets us really show who we are and lets our personality shine. Go karts, mini golf, haunted house, escape rooms, laser tag?
Category: Others
I’m a fan of Italian food, but I will try anything once. If I don’t like it you will probably be able to tell by my facial expressions.
Category: Dinner
Creativity! Sometimes dinner and candlelight is boring, I want to be able to talk and get to know each other while doing something that gives us something to talk about. I appreciate a man that makes the plans and tells me what we are doing, indecisiveness is annoying. I am not a follower but I do appreciate a man that can make a plan and is also alright if it changes. I would enjoy going to a beach and watching the sunset, a festival, live music and dancing.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
An coffee or tea or dinner togother both ok ,understading more if interested each other ,lets be easy going !
Category: Museums and Galleries
Thank you for matching with me. You are extremely handsome by the way. Where would you take me on our first date?
1. Maestro’s
2. SW
3. Papi Steak
4. CUT
5. Flemings
Category: Fancy Dining
MAxxxxxx
Colorado Springs, CO, USA
Sitting at a quiet dinner isn't my style—I’d rather be moving. I have my kids 24/7 and run my life like a successful business: you have to seamlessly fit our family culture to be part of it.
Getting to know me means fast-paced meetups or active outdoor adventures where the kids can play. If you're looking for a low-key, child-free vibe, swipe left. But if you thrive in high-energy family action, let's talk.
Category: Errand Dating