FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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A first date that’s all about getting to know each other—sharing meaningful conversations, lots of laughter, and enjoying each other’s company without any pressure. I believe the best connections start with kindness, honesty, and simply being ourselves.
Category: Dinner
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Anything but drinks and dinner!!! Something fun, lighthearted and takes effort other than conversation to connect.
Category: Others
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I would absolutely Love to have a romantic candlelit dinner, followed by a barefoot walk on the beach; Or A romantic night with a picnic dinner, and after we eat, we just lay next to each other and gaze at all the beautiful stars together.
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Isn’t it awesome to make something together?
I always be attracted by artsy people, I believe you are one of them.
Category: Arts and Crafts
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A memorable first date starts with good energy, meaningful conversation, and a beautiful atmosphere. A fine dining experience, cocktail lounge, art gallery, or weekend adventure would be a wonderful way to begin getting to know each other.
Category: Drinks
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we grab a drink at a speak-easy bar OR we only order dessert at a very fancy restaurant (I have always wanted to do this, my treat)
Category: Drinks
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A train dinner date (dinner on the train sightseeing the town), paddle boat, painting with a twist, pottery making…
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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If you’re interested in learning to golf then you crossed paths with the right man. I’ve been playing for 25 years and have been a golf instructor for a decade.
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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I’d love to start with a casual coffee at a local café to get to know each other, followed by a nice dinner. It’s all about finding a relaxed atmosphere where we can actually talk and enjoy the moment
Category: Cafe
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“I’d love a relaxed dinner somewhere with a nice view maybe beachfront with good food, so we can actually talk and get to know each other without rushing. Somewhere like Steki or The Orangery has the right vibe cozy, easygoing, good food. Open to your ideas too if you’ve got a spot in mind!“
Category: Dinner
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A cozy wine bar, an art exhibition or a beautiful restaurant where conversation flows naturally. The best first date is one where neither of us wants to check the time.
Category: Others
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My ideal first date is simple, fun, and all about getting to know each other. We’d meet for coffee or drinks, take a walk somewhere with a nice view, and have genuine conversations without distractions. If we’re both having a good time, we could grab dinner afterward or do something spontaneous like mini golf, bowling, or dessert. The goal isn’t to impress each other with anything fancy—it’s to see if we laugh together, enjoy each other’s company, and leave looking forward to a second date.
Category: Lunch
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Maybe a nice dinner to get to know each other better.
I prefer to talk on the phone or FaceTime to see if we have a connection.
Category: Dinner
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A cozy dinner at a warm, intimate restaurant with soft lighting, great conversation, and delicious food. After dinner, a relaxing stroll together through quiet streets, along the waterfront, or in a peaceful park, enjoying the fresh air, holding hands, and simply savoring each other’s company without any rush. To me, that’s the perfect way to spend an evening.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Ir por un cafe y concerns un poco mas luego conocer algunos legares o simplemente sentarnos cómodos a platicar
Category: Random Daytime Activities
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Walk through an art museum or gallery.
Finish with wine or coffee nearby.
Great if you both enjoy culture and conversation.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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My ideal first date is simple, romantic, and focused on getting to know each other. I’d love to start with dinner at a cozy restaurant where we can talk, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company without distractions. After dinner, taking a walk together while watching the sunset or looking at the stars would be perfect. I appreciate thoughtful conversations, kindness, and someone who is genuinely interested in building a real connection. The best first date isn’t about spending a lot of money—it’s about feeling comfortable, respected, and having fun together. By the end of the night, I hope we both leave smiling, excited to see each other again, and feeling like we’ve met someone special.
Category: Dinner
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Long drive to the pacific coast highway from Laguna Nigel till all the way to San Francisco camping out in mt Diablo mountains
Category: Dinner
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A relaxed waterfront lunch, good conversation, and a walk afterward. The company matters more than the itinerary.
Category: Lunch
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dinner and a beautiful view with a warm/fresh temperature. with delicious desserts and a walk at the beach afterwards
Category: Dinner
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