MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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The first step is to make a profile that is engaging, flirty, and shows that you're not just a dud or fakeWhen making a profile, your ultimate goal should be for it to interesting enough to get people to message you. The more messages you get, the more people you get to know, and ... For detail, click here.
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The importance of a well written profileBefore you begin writing your profile, ask yourself what it is you are looking for. Ask yourself what you hope to get out of posting your profile on this site. Once you h ... For detail, click here.
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Write correctly about what you're looking forI once read an e-mail from someone who was willing to outline every single thing he thought he wanted in a woman. While I appreciated that he knew what he wanted--it was ... For detail, click here.
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Your flaws in your profile are attractiveIn my assorted glances and other rummaging through various profiles, I, have noticed the absolute adversity to mentioning anything bad about ones self, granted, no one wa ... For detail, click here.
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Don't be too general - be specific! Like 'I'm really sarcastic or I love to read.I notice that a lot of people describe themselves as being sarcastic. That's really helpful. It would be even better if you gave us an example of your famous sarcasm. I k ... For detail, click here.
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Don't put too much importance on the income listed in a profileAs a woman looking at a man's profile I look at almost everything else before income. If it's there cool if not I consider it private information that would be a topic of ... For detail, click here.
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List who you really are beyond possessionsIf you're truly interested in a lasting relationship, don't focus on what you have, but who you really are. Real value is not monetary. When I see a profile that talks a ... For detail, click here.
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Poor grammar and spelling are a turn offTip for guys: poor spelling or grammar within your profile is a major turn-off. You may not care about stuff like that, but women do. Trust me, we notice such things and ... For detail, click here.
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Profiles that get responsesWhen creating your profile, be honest, cheerful, positive and clear. Be precise without wandering off into too much detail, but giving the viewer an idea of who you are and wh ... For detail, click here.
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Stop wasting precious time and be realMost of the people using online dating have chosen to do so because they're too busy to meet someone in the traditional manner. We find it appealing to use a digital medium to ... For detail, click here.
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Be honest about what you would like to do after retirementIf you are retired or plan on retiring soon, list what you would really like to do. Be specific about your future plans, desires, likes and dislikes. There might be someo ... For detail, click here.
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Use proper grammar to make a positive impressionFirst impressions are key and there is nothing that sends up a red flag more to me that bad grammar! "Your" is not the same as "you're", for instance. I know that i ... For detail, click here.
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Advice for a woman's profile1. Pick a seemingly normal headline. It's like the old saying, "Don't judge a book by its cover." Well truth be told, most guys do. This being said, if you wri ... For detail, click here.
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Attract your soulmate with a good online dating profileIt's become a bit of a cliche that first impressions do count a lot.When you're looking for people online you have to create a profile that is appealing to the kind of pe ... For detail, click here.
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Avoid harsh words / tones in your profileBe careful to exclude harsh words or tones when writing your profile. Many people forget that your profile is supposed to draw in as many potential matches as possible. ... For detail, click here.
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Be an honest reader and writer of profilesI know that you have been told to be honest a million times, however the reader should be honest to themselves and the person's profile that they are reading also. ... For detail, click here.
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Be honest about having childrenWhen writing about your self on your profile page, try to mention that you have children, even if you have already selected the (I have children) option. I find that this ... For detail, click here.
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Be honest about what you're looking forIf you're looking for long-term relationship or casual fun, be upfront. Know what you want and don't be afraid to let it be known! Ex. You wouldn't want to meet up with someo ... For detail, click here.
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Be honest and highlight your assetsWe all want to present ourselves in the most appealing way possible but attracting a lot of people by being dishonest is a waste of everyone's time. Instead be honest abo ... For detail, click here.
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Be honest when writing your profileWhen writing your profile, it is always best to be upfront with what you want to get out of the site and what you are looking for in your match. After all it is going to ... For detail, click here.