MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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7 Tips for making an attractive first contactIt's always a challenge to make that initial contact. Do I just throw out a wink and see if they respond or should I write something and if I write something, how c ... For detail, click here.
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A customized original message creates an unique connectionThe best way to get the attention of the man you are trying to contact is to send him an original message based on what you read in his profile. Think about what you liked on ... For detail, click here.
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Ask "what do you like to do?" instead of "what do you do?""What do you like to do?", this one little question is great to break the ice, because it allows people to talk about what interests them the most. Instead of asking, "What d ... For detail, click here.
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Break the ice, but not like the titanicFirst dates can be harrowing enough without the extra worry of wondering how to break the ice. To me, the best way to break the ice starts well before the first date. When I' ... For detail, click here.
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Finding out their likes or interests and acknowledging them will make your messages stand outTry being "out of the box" or original with your introduction message to someone. Take the time to look at their profile and note a couple of things about them to ask them abo ... For detail, click here.
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How to break the ice with a emailDo you see a profile that you are interested in but you don't know how to initiate a conversation with the person you are interested in? You know that you don't want to sound ... For detail, click here.
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It never hurts to start with a beautiful complimentThe hardest part is out-of-the-way, you've finally found a match ... now you may be wondering how to merge your two worlds seamlessly without feeling pretentious. I promise yo ... For detail, click here.
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Simple ground rules on how to make a good first impressionI have spoken to a lot of girls on here who are simply fed up with the way some guys contact them, you must remember if the person you want to contact is young and attractive, ... For detail, click here.
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Simply introduce yourself as relatable as possibleThe hardest part is out-of-the-way, you've finally found a match ... now you may be wondering how to merge your two worlds seamlessly without feeling pretentious. I promise yo ... For detail, click here.
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Thoughtfulness makes a lasting impression!Read his/her profile again before your date. Find an interest that have written about and then do something special. It doesn't have to be huge, just a little thing to show yo ... For detail, click here.
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Worried about what to say in the initial contact?The first contact with someone online is usually the hardest, especially when you are new to the online dating scene. Remember, we are all here because we want to meet someone ... For detail, click here.
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Don't say one-liner without a real conversation on instant messagesI get a lot of instant messages from men who are trying to get to know me better and the biggest mistake they can make right off the bat is to send me a one-line message. Tell ... For detail, click here.
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How to get a responseRead the entire profile and find a common area or areas. Then email about them. If you like to cook and so do they, mention that. Or if they like to go for drives or boa ... For detail, click here.
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What subjects to talk about on a first date?Tips for what subjects to talk about on a first date. And this will lead to a conversation. A). Ask about his/her likes and dislikes. example: what is your favorite football ... For detail, click here.
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Don't be afraid to say hiDon't be afraid to even say hi. If you are not good at talking to others, it's okay just to compliment them on something they said on their profile or something you like in t ... For detail, click here.
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3 Simple tips to start a conversationStarting a conversation can be relatively simple...but then there are those of you who are socially awkward. So here are a few tips when attempting to start a conversation wit ... For detail, click here.
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A warm smile can lead the wayMeeting someone for the first time can be a little scary. I feel that a warm smile, eye contact, and a sincere'' Hello, nice to meet you", can make the other person feel more ... For detail, click here.
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Be brave to say hi firstFear of rejection--and rejection itself--is a state of mind. We make too big a deal of initial encounters and ask for dates/ numbers. The first step is to speak! Sounds easy b ... For detail, click here.
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Be careful with general pickup linesIf you take an interest in someone I find it best to avoid rehearsed and general pickup lines. Be original, think of what interests you with the other person, and let that be ... For detail, click here.
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How to break the ice if you are a little shyIt's important to create the right impression when meeting someone for the first time. Appearing overconfident can be off-putting, and being very shy can make people have seco ... For detail, click here.