MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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How to treat a woman while chatting online?When it comes to getting to know someone online, the anonymity of the Internet can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, you can chat and exchange emails with some ... For detail, click here.
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Don't send "winks" - get better results!Nothing kills the excitement of getting a notice of a message waiting, than to see that it's a "wink". The fact that it's a wink sends me a negative impression - especially w ... For detail, click here.
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3 Tips for the first messageWe all know about the daunting task of first introductions. The butterflies in the stomach. It's unnerving. We want to make a good first impression; one that is unique an ... For detail, click here.
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3 Tips to talk with ladies1. Watch the details in photos Concentrate on what is in the photos, because you can find out interests, favorite places, favorite food etc. You can also see various ... For detail, click here.
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Don't sabotage the possibilities by rushing to ask qualifying questionsImagine that a conversation online is not unlike one that might be struck up while attending a party, with folks surrounding you that you are meeting for the first time. ... For detail, click here.
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To text or not to text? An email is better!Text etiquette is just as important as email or chat etiquette. When you are just beginning to get to know someone, what you decide to text can either make or break the deal ... For detail, click here.
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Use your voice when you writeThe important thing to remember is that any good relationship, whether it's a potential relationship or one already in full swing, is that chemistry is key. Sitting ... For detail, click here.
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Write something personal when writing an email to a potential dateWhen writing an email to a potential date, don't just do a generic copy and paste job eg 'Hi, I saw your profile, you look nice. Anyway a little about me, I like waterspo ... For detail, click here.
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Ask questions. Give the person something interesting to respondHi! The biggest road block I have run into in the Internet dating world is ~ Email communication. My biggest tip I could offer anyone wanting to get to know someone tha ... For detail, click here.
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Don't include any spelling or grammar errors in your emailNothing is worse than checking the E-mail inbox only to find another message from an "intelegent" person who spelled every other word incorrectly. Your spelling and ... For detail, click here.
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Say more that just "hi" or "hey" when sending your introductory emailFirst impressions are everything! If someone has caught your eye you decide to reach out and send them an email, the worse thing that you can do is send a email with "Hi" or ... For detail, click here.
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Be patient for replies. If no response, don't sweat it. Move on.Don't automatically think someone isn't interested if they do not reply right away. Don't leave rude or nasty messages. The best thing you can do is: Leave a decent message. ... For detail, click here.
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Honesty is keyThere is nothing more frustrating than chatting, emailing, or speaking to someone you think is 40 years old, is single, lives in the same town you do, has a job, etc., an ... For detail, click here.
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When you write your intro or even reply, make it substantive and connect with something they have written.Taking initiative to write someone first who interest you is a good idea. When you do decide to go for it and write your potential guy don't be bland or generic make your ... For detail, click here.
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Ask truthful and meaningful questions if there's something that you feel you need to knowHello, the The title it's very clear off the subject that I want to talk about. In the many relationships I had in the past one thing that was very clear to me was that I was ... For detail, click here.
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Getting acquainted through email and online chatWhen utilizing email and online expressing oneself by being enthusiastic, and eager would help keep the interest level high on both sides.. Online chat should be utilized ... For detail, click here.
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Make sure to write creative messages - not a direct copy of your profile!When sending messages, don't just repeat what is on your profile already. Give others something new and even better if you mentioned something specific about your profile ... For detail, click here.
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Many want someone who is educated and can type well.What I have learned from this website is many of these men aren't looking for a one night stand they are looking to communicate and enjoy someone's company. By being honest a ... For detail, click here.
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Say it like you mean it, then say it again!Often, non verbal communication can lead to the demise of a potential relationship before it even gets started. Here's one idea that may help. When a thought, idea, or se ... For detail, click here.
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Use discretion and tact when composing your messagesSince none of us are mind readers communication should be a priority, don't be afraid to speak your mind sometimes the truth hurts but a lie is a harder hit than the trut ... For detail, click here.