Dec 12, 2024
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I am 38 years old, divorced, and have children. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is an entrepreneur with an annual salary of one million and is about to get married. Of course, my annual salary is not worse than his. We met online. Today I want to talk about my experience of using dating apps to get rid of single life. First attemptI tried offline channels first, but blind dates are not friendly to people who are divorced and have children, so I signed up for social software. At this time, I didn’t know the pros and cons of social software and I subscribed to all social software you can think of. Some apps are too exciting. I often receive nude photos from boys I don’t know. I can’t digest it and uninstall them quickly. Some apps are completely different from the real person in the photo, and the quality of the push will get worse and worse. So I turned to an app with good reviews. Its advantage is that the platform will ask you countless multiple-choice questions, and many boys carefully fill in their information. Shortly after using it, I met a young friend who had never been married and had a relatively ordinary family background. He is an avoidant personality and I am an active personality. We hit it off, both deleted our accounts and started a serious relationship. After dating for more than half a year, we found that due to different economic foundations, there were many conflicts. We always quarreled over trivial matters. This relationship ended after a calm conversation. Summary and reflectionAfter carefully summarizing the reasons for the failure of the previous relationship, I posted a post online titled "How to find a rich person like me to date". I saw someone recommend MillionaireMatch, so I downloaded it and tried it. This is a more serious dating platform, which includes entrepreneurs, doctors, lawyers, etc. Compared with previous software, it has a threshold and will filter out some people who do not meet the conditions and have other ideas. Some people think that excellent people do not use dating software. I think this is a big misunderstanding. No matter how excellent a person is, as long as the circle is not big enough, you have to find a place with high traffic. If you have the ability to let a high-class successful person introduce you, it's okay. The question is, can you find one? Some people say that I am busy, introverted, and don't like online chatting. I am the same, but I rely on myself to get out of being single. The single-getting-out software is just a channel to meet excellent objects. I hate long-winded chats, but when I meet a high-quality object, I still have no burden of being reserved. Find true loveI would share my daily life on social software, and he took the initiative to establish contact with me. He said that he knew I was divorced and had a baby, but he looked sunny and confident and was deeply attracted to me. Our progress was slow because I didn't want to get to know each other after dating like before. He pursued me for four months and we got together. After confirming the relationship, he treated me better and better. His mother is also a very good lady. She would knit scarves and hats for me. I would also help him take care of his family when he was on a business trip. The elderly on both sides would also make appointments to have dinner and vacation together. I don't want to define love. At least at this moment we care about each other and care about each other. After dating for a year and a half, we decided to get married. Advice for everyoneBoyfriends will not fall from the top. You must go out or use social software to expand your circle. You can't find a high-quality partner in the garbage. You can use MillionaireMatch, which I use, or other reliable apps. You must choose the best path for your future. |