Apr 23, 2024
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For you to secure a second date, you need to have a successful first date and if you come across as shy, creepy and fidgety, a woman is more likely to ghost you which can be annoying. You can spend all the money you want and take a woman to the fanciest of restaurants but if you don't have A game on, she won't want to see you again. Below are a few date a millionaire tips that will help you have a successful first date 1. Choose a great venue for the dateA good date starts with a good venue and you need to choose a place that you know will impress her. You will take her to weird places if your dating game is not on point but if you are unsure of where to take her, do some research. Make sure that the place you pick for the date matches your mood and most importantly, check the weather. You want it to be a nice bright sunny day with clear skies preferably not a dark and gloomy rainy day. Go for a meal at a fancy restaurant and go for a nice stroll in the park after. 2. Be calm, cool and collectedDon't treat the date like a job interview, stay calm, cool and collected through it. Enjoy yourself and show the woman spending time with you that you are happy to be there. Women are very good at reading emotions and if you appear tense, she will notice that and the whole date will become one awkward encounter. It will also show that you don't have a lot of dating experience which is a huge red flag. Tell her to be herself and offer as many words of encouragement as possible and only then will you see the best version of her. 3. Arrive on timeWomen don't like to be kept waiting especially if the weather is bad and if you promised her that you would arrive by 8:30 pm, be there 10-15 mins early. Don't be late because this doesn't create a good impression and if for whatever reason you are running late, call her and tell her why that is the case. She will appreciate your honesty and will not be upset that you are running late. This shows you have manners and respect her. 4. Dress to impressOne of the first things a woman will notice when you walk up to her is what you're wearing. When a woman is going on a date, she will always have her best outfit on and you should too. Same thing you do when you are picking a venue, check the weather and dress accordingly. Also, make sure that you have a nice cologne, are well-groomed, have taken a bath, have no dirty nails and have no bad breath as these are a massive turn-off for a lot of women. 5. Don't be boringDon't turn up to the date and bore her death because you will not get a second date if she sees you are boring to be around. Up your talking game, have some interesting things to talk about during the date. Talk about what she likes and doesn't like her family, friends, work, and where she went to school, there is so much to talk about during a date. You can also crack a few jokes with her to lighten the mood however, make sure that you don't cross the line and say something she might find offensive. Stay clear of any cheesy picky lines you might have picked up over the internet as she might have heard them all a thousand times. 6. Plan the dateWomen love wealthy men who can take the lead and by agreeing to go on a date with you, she trusts that you will pick the best place to go, a great place to eat, if it's a weekend getaway, she will trust you to pick a comfortable place to stay. If the date is a mess and isn't well organised, she will get the impression that you are a disorganised person full stop as that is the impression you are giving and she won't want to see you again. Make sure that she enjoys every single minute of the date without feeling bored and only then will you bag yourself a second date. 7. Stay in touch with herIf the date has been a massive success, don't think twice about keeping in touch with her and asking for date number 2. Speak to her over the phone or text but don't overdo it because you will come across as desperate. Try to avoid calling her every single day, do it every day and ask her if she enjoyed her time with you. If you cease communication after the first date let her know that you are disinterested and she didn't impress you. |