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Why old men looks for a young women?

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Why old and rich men looks for a young women .. they don’t care about personality or the soul? What they are going to do when beauty outside dies? They are going to reemplace the person? Or there is any that only looks the inside personality?
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1 year ago
The real problem is that we live in a patriarchal world. Women have always been portrayed as sex objects and second class citizens back in the day. Our culture does not teach equality. It makes it harder to find a man who values a woman as his equal. 4000 to 6000 years ago during Neolithic times, God was worshipped as a Woman and lived in harmony with the earth. They held high roles of status, possessed land and the holy scriptures were written in Mother-Daughter until a patriarchal civilization fought the matriarchy and won. Women became the possession of men, took their land , and killed all Goddess worshippers. Then our forefathers wrote the Bible which did not dignify women. As women this is our herstory. Present day inequality stems from HIStory. ✌💚😀
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1 year ago
Older guys who look for younger women are usually shallow and insecure. They dont want a woman with a soul if they have no soul. Dating a guy with no soul means dumbing down and losing oneself. Better to be alone and wait for the right one.
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Trophy wife—— arm candy to make them feel young. Insecurity.
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1 year ago Total posts: 242

 

Seriously, they just want to use you for practice while waiting for the real deal.     Young guys will f*ck everyone and you will be one on a roster of women. 

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1 year ago Total posts: 3

I don't know. When the age gap is huge I just think it's weird. That is my opinion. I have as young as 18 year olds up to 30 year old guys pursuing me on these dating sites and honestly I just don't get it. I have children that are older than some of these guys wanting to date me. It is just downright weird to me, I just can't do it. I already have children, I don't need to date men who can be my kids friends.

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1 year ago
You’re 39 and 5’9 and very attractive ...relax
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Desperation
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What do you mean 'old men'  What you mean is 'ALL men'  Men value women by their smv (sexual market value) and thats tightly tied to age.  

its simply biology, men don't fall in love with women because they have multiple degrees or even lots of money.

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1 year ago
Honestly, I don't know about older men searching for younger women. Me on the other hand I just find older men more mature, and better looking. I'm 26 and I don't ever date a guy close to my age they are always in their late 30s or early 40s.
Don't see nothing wrong with a little salt n peppa hair😂
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1 year ago
Age is but a number when it comes to matters of the heart, mind and soul. Personally, it is the connection between two people that can stand the test of time. You can meet someone your own age and have zero connection or someone 20 years younger and the same. I try to give everyone a chance as sometimes you just never know.

My father got remarried 35 years ago to a lady 21 years his younger. They are still happily and blissfully married. For me, that is good enough for me to consider someone younger but I am also open to someone the same age or a little older, assuming they are active and enjoy doing outdoor activities. I am super active and seem to vibe well with those younger then myself but I have also known women older then me who I had an amazing connection with so I never make a prejudgement until getting to know someone. At the very least, you might meet an amazing friend who might know someone who is a better match for you.

I have never had children as well so a younger lady with kids or even a desire to have is appealing to me as well. This could be a factor for some who desire to raise children or have a larger family.

To each their own though. It is best to worry about what we can control and not what others do to make themselves happy. Life is too short to waste precious energy on the actions of others.
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Some older men had their wife divorce them because they wanted something different and better. Then some of those same women wonder why older men go for younger women. They had a man, but wanted a different one. And they usually get a big chunk of the guys money. So based on this experience why would a man want a woman like the one that just threw him away?
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Wow so unavailable older women can’t be cream of the crop not true let’s be honest here it’s the control they get to have
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The same reason woman do
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Don’t worry they probably won’t be here by then! Lol 😇
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1 year ago Total posts: 17

Well maybe  some men( most ) overlook the older ones.

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Well I think it is because some ( not all  ) younger women do not know any better and the men think that money will solve their problems with being lonely...  just an opinion

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1 year ago
If older ladies would take care of them I bet they would not have to look at younger women 😉
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Any man that want to answer? Then we will saw your point of view ..
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I’m gonna cover what Maryvlaire200 hasn’t mentioned (which was an amazing organized response).

Taking into consideration of how the two met, sometimes it can be the equilateral maturity point and the “old and rich” factor has absolutely nothing to do with their choice. What I truely believe is that .... If the male is very well off, than he’s got open range therefore he’s able to pick the “cream of the crop”.

Now if you flipped the genders around, don’t you think the females would also pick the “cream of the crop”.

So in my personal opinion, it’s what’s available to the person. I’ve seen good looking young females with older guys that are not rich. What do you make of that?

So if there’s a “rich person” with a “younger person” and they’ve both managed to be happy about being together, I don’t see why this is even an issue or topic. Do we talk about how one race is gravitated to another race? Is that important? Probably not. Happiness isn’t always obtained in a lifetime so why go down on people that have found what makes them happy. I don’t wear a robe or have a mallet so I would never judge. These things just happens.

Oh, if you’ve watched Modern Family you’ll know Jay and Gloria. Find out how they met. It had nothing to do with looks or wealth.