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Marriage vs Divorce, plus Broken Relationship what gives?

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Hello hello hello ladies and gentlemen/ men, I hope and pray everyone is having a marvelous time during this festive Christmas season///. Well considering what has been posted about men and their bad boy habits, it is almost impossible to believe in the season of giving is all about a baby being born and bring forgiveness,  love, joy, peace and new teaching on true love and righteousness, ( you must be born again, John 3: 1 - 21 ). 

 

 

   Now off to my topic, first let me say this I believe that when we make a vow to marry and to do this in the eyes of God, this is something many take very very very seriously, dispite what it looks like, their is still that inner spirit that touches deeply when the word divorce is mentioned ( I know it did for me)! 

 

 So my question this day, have we taken divorce and marriage as a small matter? Is divorce look at as something that is comical, and to be joke about?  As a man who has experienced divorce let me share this, it is a painful experience, especially when you consider you let God down, broke a vow, etc. So for those who have never had to experience this don't make light of it, and if you have been divorce try to see the more seriousness of our mistake ( yes I know you can be forgiven but it is  better not to vow ). 

 

  One of the many things I have learn about relationship and marriage,  and that is that our teaching on marriage and divorce is at an all time low or close to it. And we cannot except to make these dramatic changes overnight but we must begin. 

 

  And to those who are contemplating divorce, think twice maybe 3 times etc... Now that I have a clearer view about marriage and relationship, I know it is not all about me nor my partner, but about unconditional love, vows, and honouring God. So at this point in my life I try to share with others get yourself some good Holy teaching on relationship and marriage before you make a vow. Look up the word vow!!! And especially the holy vow God has standardized for His people.  

 

 Once again I welcome good conversation and dialogue on this topic, and please let's be respectful of one another.

May we all be richly blessed during  this time and season, spiritually, physically, and financially.

 

 

Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

God bless love and peace. Don't hate participate in love.

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2018 flash reminder forgive, love unconditionally,  practice being faithful, educate yourself on what true love is, be a peace maker, educate yourself on how to be romantic when it calls, learn the true essence of love. 

 

It' a new year, time is ticking,  go forward without regret,  make new friends,  be careful doing so, enjoy life.

 

 

Today I toast to to you all, no matter female or male, morning,  noon or night, juice,  water,  wine etc, here's to love, May you taste and experience the greatest essence of love...

 

 

Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

 Love and peace. 

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Hello ladies and gentlemen, what advice would you give concerning how to have a happy never ending marriage / relationship?

 

For me love unconditionally, knowing that trials will come and go but never stop loving, but under no circumstances be subject to physical abuse nor verbal abuse.

 

And for those who are seeking love and especially unconditional love learn what it means, on how to give and receive, and under no circumstances should we make vows and promise we can keep. I know this sounds like grammar, but I have seen, and experience way too many relationship that mimic false love. When you see dysfunctionalism it may be this individual has graduated into a professional deceier so be careful.  There is something really special about the teaching of true unconditional love in a most serious righteous manner that tops all the teaching in the world when it comes to marriage and relationship...

 

 I have learn that without good teaching we all stand in the romance line of being mislead by our own unjust lust, etc mimicking others who portray to be good teaches of Love when they themselves have been mesmerize and lured into a repeated teaching that Leeds to unfaithfulness,  betrayal, high levels of lust, and many unrightous love endeavors etc.

 

And today, we add in a numerous other entities that plays very important roles influencing love relationships and marriage that are unhealthy.

 

 

So be bless during this festive Christmas season/ holidays. And remember when it is time to give that toast do it with vigor / charisma, get your favorite beverage,  ( don't over do it) be  confident, hold that favorite glass high then speak, love and righteousness now and forever more.   

 

 

 

 

Yours truly Mr Born1top.  

Love and peace. 

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Quoting NiceEyes:

Our Planet Earth is a never ending changing paradigm, we are constantly transitioning within the confounds of this system we are governed by for which to exist in a state of harmony with one another, but where there is an imbalance, there equally will be instability and emotional upheaval occurring in peoples lives on a daily basis encircling us. 

 

With respect to marriage verses divorce, in a perfect world there would be a balance therefore relationships would harmonise as originally intended to do so, because we are not living under such circumstances then the marriage vows you speak of require so much more work in order to keep that commitment upheld because you are faced with so many obstacles and unforeseen occurrences that can lead to a once happy marriage resulting in a stressful divorce.

 

Sharing from a personal perspective, I could not relate on the level others have to share here whom have been faced with that exact predicament in their lives as you yourself have shared, but coming from a background of a broken home environment I can relate to the effect it has in the lives of others, including the affected marriage partners.

What I came to understand as being an outsider observer is though your intentions in the beginning are loving and sincere toward a marriage mate, various stresses enter into that arrangement overtime  which can comprise of health, emotional trauma, financial difficulties to name but a few and those alone unforeseen circumstances can be the archilies heal to the eventual breakdown of what once in the early stages was a happy and loving arrangement.

 

In actuality, such sad experiences that unfold in your life become a great teaching modality that opens up the window of enlightenment, if you learn nothing from what you have observed then you to will just continue on down that same path, so it is important to listen, watch and take it into the deepest recesses of your mind so the circle does not ensue yet again in your lives.

 

The real key to successful marriage arrangement  I believe is #1 True devotion, love without condtions encompasses a myriad of situations that may arise when you both finally commit to this end and part of that above is the only way it has a chance for true success.

 

In closing, if contemplating the road to marriage, be prepared for a continual work in progress and put your heart into it from the very beginning and be ready to fight off the unforeseen that stands in its way, there still exist many successful ones out there in the world I dear say.

 

Good Topic Born1Top

 

Good day to you Mr  NE, and thank you for your comment,  well put, and I hope the future generations will take heed to some good teaching that lay before them in every aspect of life. May mother's,  dad's,  and all family and friends all around the world began to embrace righteous teaching when it comes to sharing about what makes for good marriage and relationship. 

 

 May we all be more compassionate and considerate when we indulge in teaching and conversing about love and unconditional love. 

Not that everyone is a marriage companion, but if those individuals be truthful concerning their intention that helps narrows the field and removes unrightous intention. 

 

At the rate we are going we need all the help we can get, from the movie industry,to the music  industry, schools, universities, churches etc. Teaching love and righteousness is what the world needs more than anything. 

 Once again thank you for commenting. 

 

Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

Love and peace. 

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Our Planet Earth is a never ending changing paradigm, we are constantly transitioning within the confounds of this system we are governed by for which to exist in a state of harmony with one another, but where there is an imbalance, there equally will be instability and emotional upheaval occurring in peoples lives on a daily basis encircling us. 

 

With respect to marriage verses divorce, in a perfect world there would be a balance therefore relationships would harmonise as originally intended to do so, because we are not living under such circumstances then the marriage vows you speak of require so much more work in order to keep that commitment upheld because you are faced with so many obstacles and unforeseen occurrences that can lead to a once happy marriage resulting in a stressful divorce.

 

Sharing from a personal perspective, I could not relate on the level others have to share here whom have been faced with that exact predicament in their lives as you yourself have shared, but coming from a background of a broken home environment I can relate to the effect it has in the lives of others, including the affected marriage partners.

What I came to understand as being an outsider observer is though your intentions in the beginning are loving and sincere toward a marriage mate, various stresses enter into that arrangement overtime  which can comprise of health, emotional trauma, financial difficulties to name but a few and those alone unforeseen circumstances can be the archilies heal to the eventual breakdown of what once in the early stages was a happy and loving arrangement.

 

In actuality, such sad experiences that unfold in your life become a great teaching modality that opens up the window of enlightenment, if you learn nothing from what you have observed then you to will just continue on down that same path, so it is important to listen, watch and take it into the deepest recesses of your mind so the circle does not ensue yet again in your lives.

 

The real key to successful marriage arrangement  I believe is #1 True devotion, love without condtions encompasses a myriad of situations that may arise when you both finally commit to this end and part of that above is the only way it has a chance for true success.

 

In closing, if contemplating the road to marriage, be prepared for a continual work in progress and put your heart into it from the very beginning and be ready to fight off the unforeseen that stands in its way, there still exist many successful ones out there in the world I dear say.

 

Good Topic Born1Top

 

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What another great day, and with that being said top of the  day ladies and gentlemen. Today we embrace upon another dose of Love, joy,  peace and all it has to offer... 

 

 Today I will speak briefly,  just as love is the antidote / medicine for great relationship,  one of the other fruits we will  find just as rewarding will be faithfulness.  Being faithfully when things go arrays and when they flowing tremendously golden will not remove it from being a standad for those who vow to uphold it. 

 

 

 Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

God bless love and peace. 

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Good day ladies and gentlemen, do remember to keep joy in your life during this time of the season, no matter what your going through. 

 

 Now let's be real and up front about the mates we have chosen to marry and be in relationship with. For some it is has been rather spooky / challenging, one because you knew you had choose a mate that had bad boy / bad girl ways, but yet you had hope that one day they may change or at least not ever put the family business in danger of being ridicule / shamelessly embarrassed. But yet here the situation is, but before it gets any worse don't jump ship just yet give it time, there is light at the end of the tunnel,  and there is a tremendous reward for faithfulness. 

 

 Yes I know it hurts but time heals all wouns no matter how deep the cut / etc, Yes it will leave a scar,  but you will have other trials no matter what road you choose, and it may possibly be even more disasterous. Love is the most rewarding antidote / medicine that we humans will ever encounter. 

 

 However this information is only in reference to unfaithful broken vows and relationship,  not physical nor verbal abuse!!!

 

 Seek legal help in a dangerous marriage or relationship asap, if your life is in danger and be wise please...

 

 

Ladies and gentlemen we must do better as humans on teaching and living what we teach concerning marriage and relationship...

 And we must remind our youth not to mimic what they see and hear, when it comes to movie music and Lifestyles Of The Unbecoming in a unrighteous manner. 

  

 Now let me say this I know that not all are willing to participate in these endeavorment, but it will enhance a lot of relationships, marriage, and vow breaking, if we take a more compassionate approach concerning life... ( love, instruct, fulfill, evangelize  G3 )

 

 Yes yes yes I am aware of my surroundings family,  and let' practice love.

 

I welcome all who are willing to share and be positive concernig this most delegate topic.

 

 

 

 

Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

Love and peace, don't hate participate in love.