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Wondering why I have 9 messages that I'm unable to read. I understand why I can't read them, as I'm not a paid member (not even sure about this site anymore). But why both messages & emails (hundreds of emails that can be read and responded to). 

 

Do messages come from chat, who's days are gone/not the same? Can no longer see when someone favorites you or likes your photos. 

 

I also keep getting winks from profiles that can't be viewed when clicking on them. Kind of like the men I dated...vanished! 😜

 

Oh well, I've pretty much given up on this site anyway. 

 

My best to you all....❤️👼🏻🙏🏻

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Goodness, do a sense a few differences of oponions, and offensiveness going on? Just remember when that occurs, it's easy to put someone on the defense. Defensive comments, differences of opinions, values and beliefs are going to happen. But all in all, I'm gambling everyone here is uniquely different, but still good people for the most part. (Now if we could just say that for the scammers and predators on MM). I think I should throw a few of you in the ring together. I'm sure after a few rounds, you'll forget what you're arguing about! Speaking of, those with money, how about sponsoring/advertising/investing in professional boxing?! I'm being serious on that thought. Wether it be a pro boxer, boximg show, or pro boxing company, or if a really big investor that's interested in getting Mike Tyson's boxing promotions back. Ok, now everyone play nice, as I have lots of pro boxing shows to go match, and boxers to advise and help them find sponsors, so I'm not on MM much. God Bless🙏🏻👼🏻
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Quoting Tarkin1:


My parents paid for my schooling (Colgate U), and LENT me 20k to buy me my first condo.  I have paid them back and now lent them $30k to upgrade their housing.  My parents are well off, but not millionaires.   I am a millionaire.

 

You agree with everything I say, but are pissed by "more brains and money than most men" ? Your reach seems extreme.

 

I don't brag and don't lie.  I simply told the truth that not everyone would prefer the system I desire for dating, as it is expressly designed to be MORE expensive (hence my comment about me having more money) and requiring lots of questions (hence my comment about more brains).

 

I did not, as you implied, blame the system.  I simply said that I could design a better one.    If you can't tell the difference between those two statements, well, that's on you.  I know exactly why I am single, and it has little if anything to do with any web site.  (It is also not relevant to this discussion.)

 

Finally I am offended that you think I was bragging about money.   Look over my profile.   Not one pic of a car, jewelry or other crap.   I simply stated a true fact that was directly relevent to the discussion. without bragging.  

 

Compare with yours profile that:

a) brags about a rolodex

b) humble brags about running non-profits (implying ou are so wealthy you don't need to work).

c) mentions owning a BMW

 

Finally, thanks for calling me 'young man'.  As I am about one year younger than you, so your statement implies that you think I look good for my age.

 

Regarding this paragraph;

 

"Finally, thanks for calling me 'young man'.  As I am about one year younger than you, so your statement implies that you think I look good for my age."


I think the reason why he called you "young man" is because it appears you have a lot more growing up to do. lol.

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Quoting isitfate4unme:

@Jenkneee yes I was wondeeing the same....if those meeaages came from chat room. I think thr site generated better correspondence and activity when it was the old way. I agree with the issues of all the selfies and winks from all the scannmers. Sad world we live in. Hang in there and good luck wirh finding love. ❤️
Thank-you, I appreciate it!!  Good luck to you!!
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Quoting Tarkin1:

To Jenkneee            

"*Lower your prices for membership."

I am sorry, but the main reason I still use this site is BECAUSE it is expensive.  There are a lot of cheap (or even free) dating sites out there, and most of them have far better set ups.

Millionaire Match has ONE major advantage over other web sites - the prices keeps the rif-raf out.

As a direct result of the high price, you don't get a bunch of idiot men joining up and emailing everyone.  As such, the women are not flooded by really stupid emails that say things like "Hey".

They still get a lot of emails, but not a flood, and not as stupid. 

Which means the women are far more likely to read all the emails, rather than reject based on photo, age, etc.

Which means they read MY email.

Which means I get responses.  Ten times as often for MillionaireMatch than for other web sites.

Of I were to design the perfect dating website for me I would do:

1) Millionaire Matche's expensive price.

2) OK Cupid's questions/search capability.

3)  A rule that said no man can ever email a woman unless she has first swiped Yes on his profile. (Think Tinder's rule, but the girl has to go first).

In my mind, this would be perfect for me.   Of course, I have more brains and money than most men.

 

1) Wow, you come across as very arrogant.

 

2) I disagree with you but why waste my time typing.

 

3) I don't do Tinder.  I read profiles.

 

 

 

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Quoting funtimes0007:





*tarkin1*

 

I read your "attempted" constructive reply till I read the last part, "In my mind, this would be perfect for me. Of course, I have more brains and money than most men."

 

Han? Why do I get this feeling you didn't earn the money you claim you have, was it inherited from daddy's hard work? if you had more brains you would never say such a thing. I am not claiming I am perfect, but that's sad to hear.

 

Common man..seriously..why you screw it up at the end. Look I understand you and many other people probably get frustrated not finding the right match, but prehaps you is the one to blame in believing in such value system.

 

I have a very nice, hot friend, lives in NYC, single, mid 30's, divorced, no kids and she is looking to settle down but I would be RELUCTANT to introduce her to you. She is looking for a good man. She dumped her husband, took nothing and walked away with a tooth brush because he would not stop counting his money. Yes she even signed the prenup before marriage.

 

Young man, money only buys you a Ho not a lady..Please stop bragging about money. It means shit in a "good" woman heart when it comes to marriage. Money is important, but it does not provde the final clousure a woman is after.

 

IMHO


My parents paid for my schooling (Colgate U), and LENT me 20k to buy me my first condo.  I have paid them back and now lent them $30k to upgrade their housing.  My parents are well off, but not millionaires.   I am a millionaire.

 

You agree with everything I say, but are pissed by "more brains and money than most men" ? Your reach seems extreme.

 

I don't brag and don't lie.  I simply told the truth that not everyone would prefer the system I desire for dating, as it is expressly designed to be MORE expensive (hence my comment about me having more money) and requiring lots of questions (hence my comment about more brains).

 

I did not, as you implied, blame the system.  I simply said that I could design a better one.    If you can't tell the difference between those two statements, well, that's on you.  I know exactly why I am single, and it has little if anything to do with any web site.  (It is also not relevant to this discussion.)

 

Finally I am offended that you think I was bragging about money.   Look over my profile.   Not one pic of a car, jewelry or other crap.   I simply stated a true fact that was directly relevent to the discussion. without bragging.  

 

Compare with yours profile that:

a) brags about a rolodex

b) humble brags about running non-profits (implying ou are so wealthy you don't need to work).

c) mentions owning a BMW

 

Finally, thanks for calling me 'young man'.  As I am about one year younger than you, so your statement implies that you think I look good for my age.

 

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Quoting Tarkin1:

To Jenkneee            

"*Lower your prices for membership."

I am sorry, but the main reason I still use this site is BECAUSE it is expensive.  There are a lot of cheap (or even free) dating sites out there, and most of them have far better set ups.

Millionaire Match has ONE major advantage over other web sites - the prices keeps the rif-raf out.

As a direct result of the high price, you don't get a bunch of idiot men joining up and emailing everyone.  As such, the women are not flooded by really stupid emails that say things like "Hey".

They still get a lot of emails, but not a flood, and not as stupid. 

Which means the women are far more likely to read all the emails, rather than reject based on photo, age, etc.

Which means they read MY email.

Which means I get responses.  Ten times as often for MillionaireMatch than for other web sites.

Of I were to design the perfect dating website for me I would do:

1) Millionaire Matche's expensive price.

2) OK Cupid's questions/search capability.

3)  A rule that said no man can ever email a woman unless she has first swiped Yes on his profile. (Think Tinder's rule, but the girl has to go first).

In my mind, this would be perfect for me.   Of course, I have more brains and money than most men.

 

**  Tarkin1  **

 

Aaaw ! ... That's just terrific, perfect timing too.

 

I am running real low on ' brains and money ', at the moment.

 

Can you spare me some ?....  Please buddy.

 

**  S L  **

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Quoting isitfate4unme:

Wondering why I have 9 messages that I'm unable to read. I understand why I can't read them, as I'm not a paid member (not even sure about this site anymore). But why both messages & emails (hundreds of emails that can be read and responded to). 

 

Do messages come from chat, who's days are gone/not the same? Can no longer see when someone favorites you or likes your photos. 

 

I also keep getting winks from profiles that can't be viewed when clicking on them. Kind of like the men I dated...vanished! 😜

 

Oh well, I've pretty much given up on this site anyway. 

 

My best to you all....❤️👼🏻🙏🏻

 

FATE ,

 

There are some changes in this site including " The Chatroom ".

 

Scan to Page 6 of the Blogs and look for " CHATROOM

 

 

FEATURES " by MM Counselor ..

 

 

See you ..  Mary 

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Maryclaire yes I knew you'd still be here, as you're one like myself that's real, genuine, and actually has substance, intelligence and communication skills. Just frustrating with many of the changes that I've noticed (many that were also pointed out by Jenknee). Obviously, us 3 women are a different level of substance than the many selfie posting ,self-absorped, people.
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@Jenkneee yes I was wondeeing the same....if those meeaages came from chat room. I think thr site generated better correspondence and activity when it was the old way. I agree with the issues of all the selfies and winks from all the scannmers. Sad world we live in. Hang in there and good luck wirh finding love. ❤️
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To Jenkneee            

"*Lower your prices for membership."

I am sorry, but the main reason I still use this site is BECAUSE it is expensive.  There are a lot of cheap (or even free) dating sites out there, and most of them have far better set ups.

Millionaire Match has ONE major advantage over other web sites - the prices keeps the rif-raf out.

As a direct result of the high price, you don't get a bunch of idiot men joining up and emailing everyone.  As such, the women are not flooded by really stupid emails that say things like "Hey".

They still get a lot of emails, but not a flood, and not as stupid. 

Which means the women are far more likely to read all the emails, rather than reject based on photo, age, etc.

Which means they read MY email.

Which means I get responses.  Ten times as often for MillionaireMatch than for other web sites.

Of I were to design the perfect dating website for me I would do:

1) Millionaire Matche's expensive price.

2) OK Cupid's questions/search capability.

3)  A rule that said no man can ever email a woman unless she has first swiped Yes on his profile. (Think Tinder's rule, but the girl has to go first).

In my mind, this would be perfect for me.   Of course, I have more brains and money than most men.

 

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1 year ago
Quoting isitfate4unme:

@MaryClaire thank you and good to see you around! When I've contemplated giving up on this site for good, I think of the people I'd miss on here, like you! Hope you've been well! 😀
 

Yes FATE , Im also glad to see you again but maybe you will be

 

surprised Im still here ..I was been in the other Dating Sites 

 

and I found out that its too boring because there are not much 

 

activities and offers as well as previleges for Non Paying 

 

Members unlike here .. Im enjoying the Blogs and the 

 

communication with other Members ..

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1 year ago Total posts: 150
@MaryClaire thank you and good to see you around! When I've contemplated giving up on this site for good, I think of the people I'd miss on here, like you! Hope you've been well! 😀
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@Tarkin1 sorry to hear your date got messed up from it. I guess you got stuck learning the hard way! Thanks for sharing with me and others! 😀
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1 year ago Total posts: 150
@Tarkin, thanks for the great explamstion! 😀 I figured the missing ones that vanished were probably scammers, but seems like the majority lately. I must be a magnet for them! 😜
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Quoting isitfate4unme:

Wondering why I have 9 messages that I'm unable to read. I understand why I can't read them, as I'm not a paid member (not even sure about this site anymore). But why both messages & emails (hundreds of emails that can be read and responded to). 

 

Do messages come from chat, who's days are gone/not the same? Can no longer see when someone favorites you or likes your photos. 

 

I also keep getting winks from profiles that can't be viewed when clicking on them. Kind of like the men I dated...vanished! 😜

 

Oh well, I've pretty much given up on this site anyway. 

 

My best to you all....❤️👼🏻🙏🏻

Hello,

 

   This site has been a big zero to me except using the blogs and forum in the past.  I used to easily see the latest in the blogs from looking at the ACTIVITIES section but not anymore, there has also been a near takeover of blogs by people who don't blog but want attention by posting selfies, etc..

 

   There is a blog that has some details by a MM Staff member that has some info in it that u could look for.  Sorry I do not remember the title of the blog.

 

  I believe messages are only from the ChatRoom?  As a non-paid member I cannot open them and yes, it is frustrating.  In the years I have been on this site, i would say at least 80% of any winks have been from scammers who have had their profiles deleted before I could even see and respond to their winks.

 

Good Luck!!

 

*********************************************************

MM staff, here is some tips on how to improve your site;

 

*Create a ChatRoom that EVERYONE can particpate in.

 

*Create Activity section for the blogs/forum

 

* Immediate removal of blogs that are NOT blogs that are posted by attention seekers.  If you cannot handle removing them then create another section for them. Lol, I can think of so many titles to give that section!!  

 

*Lower your prices for membership.

 

Those are just a few ideas.

 

 

 


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Messages are only readable by paid members.

 

They include a copy of EVERY email you have ever received or writen, as well as text messages a paid member has sent to you.

 

The main advantages of messages as opposed to emails, is that the sort by sender.   You can't do this with the email.

 

The main disadvantage is that BOTH people have to be paid members in order for either person to read the text messages.  And they don't warn you of this.

 

I messed up a date because I thought a girl had my phone number and was gonning to call me with the exact location.   But I had sent it via the text message rather than the email.  She never got my phone number, never called me. 

 

 

Vanishing people are most like scam artists that got kicked off the system.  Or they could be people that actively bothered to close their account.

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1 year ago

 

FATE ,

 

Sorry about your recent problems with Emails and Messages ..

 

The only advice I can give you is to call or write Support of the

 

Site ..  Goodluck ..

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I've been signing in recently not realizing from my phone, I should click on full version. The other way wasn't showing many things, such as this note across the top of my emails.  How nice as I can click and read messages.  Hope the men that wrote me understand this, as I'm unable to read or reply. 

 

"Note: Your recent emails will now be displayed in message folder, making it easier to check all of them from any device."

 

Note to MM: If it ain't broke, don't fix it only to make it worse. I know many people are dissatisfied and leaving the site. Doesn't appear to be reasons for me to stay either.