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Things Men Do That Upset Women 😡

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Things Men Do That Upset Women 😡
I've edited the list down from 7 to 3. Hope my revised list helps those men that are still trying to figure out us women! 👼🏻❤️
• MEN, what upsets you about women?

• WOMEN, what would you add to this list?

• EVERYONE, does substance matter to people on here?

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1 year ago
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Hi Mary,

 

You are so kind.  Yes everything is okay.  I was just talking to someone for awhile and that was taking up a lot of time.  Also, I know (at times) I have spent way to much time on the blogs, so it is good to not be commenting so much.  Plus, the blogs have degraded and gone to selfies hell.  I do hope that one day my time will come..as in marriage and family.  I have been talking to a woman that I really like. The problem is that she's very young (25) and hasn't been divorced long.  She has no children which is good.  But it's more like friends.  We've talked 3 times on the phone and each conversation lasted about 3 hours.  So clearly we found something to talk about.  And she is very, very sweet...and pretty.  But she's in AZ so we are a long distance apart.  She has mentioned coming to visit me, because she likes the idea of living in the country (woods as she calls it), and it's much cooler here.  So time will tell if anything comes out of it.  But I feel myself wanting more and more to settle down and have a family, that is for sure.  So I'm working toward that, since it's becoming very important to me.

 

Thanks Mary for inquiring and I hope you've been doing well?  Maybe we'll both meet someone special soon. :-) Let us keep hope.



 

 

 

DAKY ,

 

Long distance relationship is not everybodys thing ..but there

are people who are made for it ..

 

Yeah , go on with this young woman from AZ ..I will be happy 

for you ...

 

 

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Fun, I think you might be correct about "being quite".  But some women are not so easy to "set off" as others. So I guess we should not group all women the same.  I've known some really cool laid back women.  And it might be great to know which ones are laid back and which ones are not before any kind of serious relationship forms.  So being quiet might ultimately get you in trouble?  As you can see, I haven't learned to "be quite" yet. :-)

Being quiet won't get you in trouble. LYING will.
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Sadly your image is not true.  Men that lie to women, get what they want and stay out of trouble.  If you are honest she will think you are lying or get mad at you.  If you don't talk, then it keeps you out of trouble.  If you talk to much it gets you in trouble.  If you don't show emotions she'll just write it off as you being a man.  If you show emotions, then she will not think you are a man.  You might get away with breathing until she's pissed at you, at which point she'll ask you to stop.

 

Men lie to women and have become what they have become because they have learned it works.  If it didn't work, then they wouldn't do it.  I'm just a idiot that has been slow to learn, because I didn't want to believe it.  Slowly learning my lesson.

Wow. No wonder you're single.
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1 year ago
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Yes Mary, you are correct and that's the way it should be.  Get past whatever the problem might be and then look back on it later, laugh and wonder why it ever got to that point.  I've of course never been married, but of the relationships I've been in, I always tried to find a peaceful solution.  I once wondered how I would be in a relationship because I have a horrible temper, but I'm proud to say that I never yelled or insulted any of my GFs. And only once did one yell at me, and it wasn't bad.  I've learned that respect begets respect.  If you can't respect someone, then you just need to walk away, which I've done many times.  If there is no respect in a relationship, then it shouldn't be a relationship. 
 

Hi DAKY ! 

 

Sorry I forgot to say hello to you ..Is everything ok out there ??

 

Im sure , when your time comes to settle down and have your

Cute little kiddies , you will be just fine because you know your

mistakes and your flaws ..you know your limit as a person ...

 

I will be happy to know that your time comes so don't turn your

back yet ..just be patient ..the right gal will sure come along and of course you will get a big package from me ...

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1 year ago
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Mary, when both people care, then they will listen and communicate what they don't like about each other, or what makes them angry.  Sometimes both the man, and the woman believes they are correct.  That is when the relationship is tested and both must learn to compromise, and hold their tongue.  If one fails, then the relationship will ultimately fail.  

 

There is no question that what you wrote is correct.  "we are human, we make mistakes, we have flaws".  And if we expect any relationship to work, we must learn this about our self and learn to forgive each other.


 

Of course , communication is one of the important aspect in a

relationship but I know people who never do it , instead yell at each other because its the only way possible .. Each on its own ..

I never have a Doctrine or a formula but I was married for 23 yrs. happily although I had a different way of solving problem but it worked for us .. the good side of it , we always ended up laughing and solved the problem peacefully ..

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1 year ago

 

FATE , 

 

How about 1 to 1 Score ...

 

MEN :  Used to leave socks on the floor

 

WOMEN :  Many are naggers 

 

And so on and so forth ..no end ..I think we better stop blaming

each other ...just try to accept each other ..we have flaws ..we 

are human ..

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Great input everyone! 😀
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1 year ago Total posts: 150
haha, nice one. But I wonder how many men out there might need to pop a few Viagra before those two words are uttered together?!
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1 year ago
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I expect each man has his own list of faults and virtues.  So too the ladies. 

 

RMAC , 

 

I agree with you ...each on her/his own ...

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This goes for both men and women - if you lie, can't communicate or show emotions, then you will never ever be in a healthy relationship. Anyone who believes otherwise is fooling themselves. 

I believe substance matters to some people on here. It certainly matters to me. 

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I expect each man has his own list of faults and virtues.  So too the ladies.