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Posted on Jun 30, 2018 at 02:49 AM

When I got married I knew nothing about sex.  After having 2 or 3 orgasms during sex, I said this is a messy thing to do.  My husband told me it is normal.  I so often hear women say that they had never had an orgasm.  What is the problem?  How come some of us have several orgasms during one intercourse and others never get one.  

 

Is it medical, physical oe mental controlled by the mind. 


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Posted on Aug 25, 2018 at 05:15 PM

Got to let go and let your body release. And yes typically it's in your mind.

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Posted on Aug 22, 2018 at 04:38 PM

A little of both,I would say

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Posted on Aug 15, 2018 at 11:34 AM

sex is always best when both people aren't selfish and aim to please the other person more so themselves 😊 this would explain why I absolutely love going down preforming oral with the woman I would be dating or at the time and I would feel terrible if she didn't climax at the very least once during this, but I'm finding it extremely difficult to find someone who is interested in dating a younger gentleman like myself as I'm much more personally attracted to older more mature woman, not obviously because the sexual experience tends to be far greater but I really enjoy engaging in intellectual and stimulating conversations which women older than myself always seem to be able to provide which I find extremely attractive which hopefully doesn't seem odd ?

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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 03:04 PM

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A lady have to have feelings for that person to have an orgasm and she have to enjoy the sex as well..... To make a lady comfortable do a lot of foreplay and explore new new things in the bed. And you will get your lady to come. Lol


 

@Lemwill , 

 

Thanks but that is what I said and think . I think Im old

fashioned when it comes to sex ..I don' t do it just for the sake 

of it .. as I mentioned it there are other reasons why women

doesn't have orgasm ..


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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 02:42 AM

A lady have to have feelings for that person to have an orgasm and she have to enjoy the sex as well..... To make a lady comfortable do a lot of foreplay and explore new new things in the bed. And you will get your lady to come. Lol

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Posted on Jul 23, 2018 at 02:51 AM

In my experiences , I’ve discovered it’s moreso of a thought , a created mood, or even a teasing , wait and anticipation or the allure of making sweaty hot lights on or candles flickering passionate looking into each other’s eyes watching the actual thrusts and lots of talk is just a few aphrodisiacs that get too many women

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Posted on Jul 21, 2018 at 01:26 PM

Lol wow

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Posted on Jul 20, 2018 at 11:47 AM

I can have orgasm manymany times

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Posted on Jul 20, 2018 at 11:46 AM

I have a big experience with orgasm better if you find the best pose for you

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Posted on Jul 19, 2018 at 09:52 PM

Lol


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Posted on Jul 05, 2018 at 11:40 AM

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Having orgasm depends on the expertise of the partners involved. I am saying this out of experience. Explosive orgasms have nothing to do with love, money, attraction. Creating unlimited excitement and aftermath explosive squirt has to do with the art of making love. It is called Kamassoutra in the Orient. Those who know the art use it to enslave their partners.



Thank you  for your comments. They are all good points coming out however I disagree with one which is experience. We were built to enjoy the activity and as a 17 years old and never having had sex before, I did not expect this when I got married.  I don't know what I expected but it was a surprise. It looks like every one has their own way of finding it.


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Posted on Jul 05, 2018 at 04:21 AM

Having orgasm depends on the expertise of the partners involved. I am saying this out of experience. Explosive orgasms have nothing to do with love, money, attraction. Creating unlimited excitement and aftermath explosive squirt has to do with the art of making love. It is called Kamassoutra in the Orient. Those who know the art use it to enslave their partners.



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Posted on Jul 03, 2018 at 08:27 PM

Most of the time a woman’s organism is directly related to the man’s performance.  A combination of skill,  experience, power, stamina, penis size and attraction are vital. Also little or no foreplay is bad for female orgasm.


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Posted on Jul 03, 2018 at 12:19 PM

Interesting thread... you don’t have to be in love with someone to have an orgasm. Proof being that you can orgasm while masturbating. If the partner I’m with hasn’t found my “trigger buttons” then I’ll simoly guide him there rather than dismissing him as not a good lover... next thing you know he’s giving you multiple O’s. It’s both mental and physical but you can def work on the mental with simply how you breathe and get yourself there quickly with his help. 😊

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Posted on Jul 02, 2018 at 11:47 PM

 

@June ,

 

Thanks a lot for acknowledging my comments .. 

My best regards  

 

               Maryclaire


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Posted on Jul 02, 2018 at 03:59 PM

It seems to me these women suffer through men who suck at making love.  I can't imagine not having an orgasm. I won't stay with someone who doesn't satisfy me sexually. 


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Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 10:55 PM

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For some of the women here, it's financial...



You don't have to be rich to have an orgasm.  Possibly the not so well off are better at it because they love each other.  My personal thought on this is, that if a man is not in love with the woman then she may not have one.


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Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 10:33 PM

For some of the women here, it's financial...


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Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 11:57 AM

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Hi June ,

 

I think you are going to touch a lot of women here and maybe 

all ..We need opinion from an expert ..A Sex Therapist and 

Sexologist ..but I can mention some reasons personally and 

some women I happened to talk to in general ..

 

 ( 1 ) The Psychological and Emotional condition 

 

 (  2 ) Dyspareunia - which is a painful intercourse - a disturbance  in some of the women ..

 

 ( 3 ) The feeling you had for the man - if you love him you 

will enjoy sex more than just doing it for the sake of having it 

 

 ( 4 ) The physical attraction for both 

 

As you can read Orgasm is both Mental and Physical ..but in my opinion I found out " Its all in our mind " ..either Pre conditioned and Pre occupied  mind . I had worked before with 

the Govt . My Dept. was concerned with The Horizontal occupation ( paid women ) to keep them free of Viral Diseases

as well as the male population ..Can you imagine how much effort they have to do to come  to Orgasm just to get the money ??? Its a hard job I would say ...They have to work both mentally and Physically ....Im just sorry for those women ..



I always enjoy reading your comments Maryclaire,  as they are factual and straight to the point.  I agree that a lot if not all is being in love with the man as then the brain does not have to think about what is happening.  But in saying that, there is also medical facts like you say.  There are so many things that can interfere with pleasure. God made it natural for a man and a woman to enjoy each other. 

June


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