Been there, done that. Eventually everyone gets older and the age difference becomes more relevant. They will say, age is only a number. Yes and no - that gap in age can start to challenge your relationship whenever one partner starts to question the relationship. I learned this the hard way, lots of wasted time. It's not worth the headaches. I should of left years before, kept trying to make it work. Maybe her getting fired from her job will help her realize it take two people. I TOLD YOU SO!