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Posted on Jan 24, 2018 at 02:17 PM

So this whole site is about dreams, words and ideas that we turn into what we think the person at the other end of the e-mail might be. Fantasy. That word has a sort of sexy sound and I like it a lot. It is the world of my imagination. I am a dreamer and a romantic dreamer at that. I really did not know that about myself when I started this on-line looking. I have been helped in that discovery by the few dream men that have e-mailed me. The banter and imagination added to my  self discovery.  What I discovered is I have Sapiosexual tendencies. (look it up it is also a good word).  I discovered that I like to write and it helps me discover thing about me. I discovered that voice is important. I should hear the voice of the person I e-mail sooner than I thought when I first started because I am prejudiced. If you sound stupid you probably are stupid unless you have had head trauma you are recovering from or English is not your primary language. But if you deny both of the above mentioned qualifiers then your just stupid. Well that is the story that got me to blog. I wanted to believe in the fantasy I created even though the voice was stupid. My fantasy man was educated, employed and successful. I like dreaming of him. But a few days of e-mails and he asked for a gift card for 100$ from Wal-mart.  I stopped talking to him and reported him but it hurt a little. He called me a few days after and I decided to play along again. I did enjoy the self discovery of e-mail banter.  So after a day this time he wanted 2-100$ iTune cards. Stupid is as stupid does. My Fantasy is no more. At least not him. I have to create a new one now. Well be careful and enjoy your fantasies and talk to them sooner than you think you should and know it is all not real until you meet. Be Safe, tell your story and enjoy the adventure of life. Thank you



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Posted on Apr 06, 2018 at 10:16 AM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

@Venus_Pisces ,

 

The truth is no never.. Either they lost their Credit Cards , sick , had accidents or the worst is they are asking for financial help 

even though they have not meet me yet . What a shame ...

I prefer to stay alone and enjoy life ..being independent and can 

do things what I like ..Be attentive of the reasons I told you because they are Scamming styles a. ways .

 

I think you are a smart woman ...keep it that way ..never fall in love with a guy before you meet him several times , because that is how scammer works ..they will tell you all the lies and promises ..

 

Goodluck Venus_Pisces.

 

Sincerely ,

Maryclaire


Hi Maryclaire.

I knew that there would be risks of untruthfulness when starting the above on-line  correspondence.  He always talked about love, love, love but didn't give me much information about who he was. It was so weird but sort of cool but really felt like he was lying from the beginning. I'm not stupid.  I would frequently point out that everything he was feeling were just his thoughts about what he thought I might be like and though I liked the thoughts I had created about who I thought he was I was smart enough to know they were only my thoughts and not him. If that makes since. He did not get it of course because he really was not the man I dreamed he was. 

 

I knew when I started looking here I WOULD NOT GIVE ANYONE MONEY.  

 

Now, I will be less likely to give them my time, thoughts, words, dreams. 

 

I will talk to them sooner as voice is important to me.

 

If they get all love, love, love they are either not real or not stable.  

 

There are alot of really cool people in this world that have shared a little bit on this site so we all can dream. 

 

The dream/fantasy is not always clear but it is fun and distracting and I enjoy it right now. 

 

Who knows?  Right now I am not ready to meet anyone but I still like looking. It is something I do instead of going to the gym. But I really hoped this worked for others so I could think it would work for me when I am all the way single. Worked like, get to talk to someone and then go out to coffee or dinner and see if getting to know them is something I want to do. 

 

 

Thanks again Venus

 

 



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Posted on Apr 05, 2018 at 03:30 AM

Quoting Venus_Pisces:

Hello Maryclaire. Thank you for your reply.  You are very prolific and I enjoy reading what you write.

 

The above mentioned fantasy man was verified so I believed him more than I should have. However he did disabled his account when we started e-mailing so I could not go back and look to see if I read it correctly. He was a paying member so that too made me trust the dream.

 

But when I talked to him the voice was not educated with diction and enunciation so I really though English was not his first language. Only when he denied it repeatedly and denied head trauma did I know he really was not who he portrayed himself as. His writing had a slightly foreign tone too.      I have become more careful. 

 

 

Are you saying you have not seen any of the men you have asked for verification or you have not seen/met anyone in person from this site? 



 

@Venus_Pisces ,

 

The truth is no never.. Either they lost their Credit Cards , sick , had accidents or the worst is they are asking for financial help 

even though they have not meet me yet . What a shame ...

I prefer to stay alone and enjoy life ..being independent and can 

do things what I like ..Be attentive of the reasons I told you because they are Scamming styles a. ways .

 

I think you are a smart woman ...keep it that way ..never fall in love with a guy before you meet him several times , because that is how scammer works ..they will tell you all the lies and promises ..

 

Goodluck Venus_Pisces.

 

Sincerely ,

Maryclaire


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Posted on Apr 03, 2018 at 08:39 AM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

@Venus_Pisces ,

 

 

All of us are looking for a certain person but just be careful.

 Not all male members are real and most of them just trying 

to get somebody on their bait ..

 

If somebody is interested in me with many zeros in their Annual

and Networth I usually send them for verification and thats the

end of it ..I haven't seen them anymore .

 


Hello Maryclaire. Thank you for your reply.  You are very prolific and I enjoy reading what you write.

 

The above mentioned fantasy man was verified so I believed him more than I should have. However he did disabled his account when we started e-mailing so I could not go back and look to see if I read it correctly. He was a paying member so that too made me trust the dream.

 

But when I talked to him the voice was not educated with diction and enunciation so I really though English was not his first language. Only when he denied it repeatedly and denied head trauma did I know he really was not who he portrayed himself as. His writing had a slightly foreign tone too.      I have become more careful. 

 

 

Are you saying you have not seen any of the men you have asked for verification or you have not seen/met anyone in person from this site? 



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Posted on Apr 02, 2018 at 11:29 PM

 

VENUS_ PISCES ,

 

Remember the saying : NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS ARE GOLD .

And remember what " GANDHI " said ..ITS TOO GOOD TO BE 

TRUE " .. but we also " don't judge the book by its cover " ..


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Posted on Apr 02, 2018 at 12:48 AM

 

@Venus_Pisces ,

 

 

All of us are looking for a certain person but just be careful.

 Not all male members are real and most of them just trying 

to get somebody on their bait ..

 

If somebody is interested in me with many zeros in their Annual

and Networth I usually send them for verification and thats the

end of it ..I haven't seen them anymore .

 


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Posted on Apr 01, 2018 at 08:29 AM

This site said there was a comment but I don't see it. Well maybe I just missed it. Please comment. Let me know what you think. Thanks



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Posted on Jan 25, 2018 at 09:33 AM

Today I am still dreaming, living in a fantasy. I did correspond with one man that reported yearly income of 1-5 million dollars.  I do not know if it is real or a mistake but that much money is beyond my ability to dream about. I told him he was not in my social class but that I like to write so I will reply and instructed him to check to make sure his income reported was not a mistake and to check it down some if he does not want to be buying friends. We will see. Money and Fantasy. I guess they are linked as every good adventure hopefully starts with transportation and reservations but as I wrote that I can see walking somewhere and camping as a doable adventure but 90% of out of town adventures require funding. Having money is a key to having the ability to put your fantasy trips and adventures into the real world. You can also get your kids to go play with you as I have done that for years and they are the wonderful adventures of a lifetime. When I started looking on-line for company/distraction  i just wanted a play mate that could pay his own way. I imagined the fun of going out and not having to pay for others so I do have the fantasy that the people I meet will be financially stable.  Fantasy 



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