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Posted on May 24, 2018 at 11:48 AM

I made my first block yesterday! So, for those who actually take the time to read this, let me state that being a total dominating asshole will not get you far with me. I’m not EVERYONES cup of sugar, and in turn, I don’t expect everyone to be mine.

I have 3 children, and have been married for over 10 years. All of the children are with the SAME man. If you didn’t catch my drift about my grass not being watered (headline)... you may not have taken notice.

My relationship has been nothing but empty promises and heartache. I haven’t worked in nearly 3 years - because he doesn’t want me to. He has ruined my credit, which I am in process of fixing. He also forced me to abort our very first child. The foundation that started our relationship was cracked. But I was VERY young and naive when we married. I wasn’t even of legal drinking age. I spent most of my childhood in foster care and aged out at the age of 18.

Now, I am 31, and have finally realized that my husband is a gaslighter. (If you do not know what that means, please just google it). I have no means to “just leave him” as they say. He has made damn good sure of that. And with 3 children, it makes it even more difficult.

I feel alone, depressed, and like I am just wilting away in life. You know, the way grass does when its no longer watered. I have never even had a honeymoon or a real wedding. I own no jewelry, not even a wedding ring, because he had me pawn them off.

I have high aspirations in life. My only family that introduced me to operas, ballets, fashion shows, got me into acting, and instilled culture in my life, is nearing the end of hers.

Is this how life should be?? Why do I feel tricked?? When he courted me the first year, it was everything I wanted! He was taking me on dates and we were always shopping and just having fun living life and going to the gym daily... I’m lucky if I even get to go sit down in a restaurant anymore...

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Posted on Aug 25, 2018 at 09:09 PM

Think I'll ride to hot springs tomorrow, sunday, any suggestions on where to go SouthernSnow

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Posted on Aug 25, 2018 at 08:24 PM

SoutherSnow
I do apologize for his ignorance in seeing you smile, hear your laughter and hearing your unspoken words.
The loudest language of all is of the body, as it speaks the truth without speaking.
I know that I am in noways in 3his low caliber of disrespect to you.
If given the opportunity, "naturally" you would be the lady of every breath. As in my thoughts, thats how true love ( once given) shall be. As far as flying off, where do you desire to go?

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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 09:03 PM

Soo touching story. I feel like cry. Sorry for all of that you have been going through.

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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 09:33 AM

SouthernSnow...there are 3 sides to every story... not saying that your story is untrue... its obviously your current reality,... but most likely your ex is hurting too. One should always remember this -
the journey is more important than the destination; and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Kind regards Rosy

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Posted on Aug 04, 2018 at 04:05 PM

Why, oh WHY is he still alive?


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Posted on Aug 01, 2018 at 12:49 AM

hi

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Posted on Jul 31, 2018 at 12:51 PM

Your story is really touching and I am really glad that you shared it with is. You are awesome and inspire me for your bravery and for being a nice mum (i am sure you are great as mother). Well it goes without saying that your husband is an even bigger ass that the Mountain you are taking the photograph on. Man i wish you well.

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Posted on Jul 23, 2018 at 06:21 PM

So happy for u , I think u deserve to love and to be loved ❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

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Posted on Jul 23, 2018 at 02:30 PM

Hi

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Posted on Jul 20, 2018 at 03:10 PM

Wow, this so reminds me of my relationship I had for 12 years, i feel for you and really do hope the best hun for yours and your childrens future, hope it was ok commitmenting x

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Posted on Jul 20, 2018 at 01:48 PM

Learn to forgive the past, and you will learn to love again
Chose a partner that passes the first of many real tests; can he hold on without sex until marriage. Living a chaste life helps the soul see the truth about the person
In my profession , now retired, I have seen how the sexual revolution, and feminism (and chauvinism) have killed romance, purety of heart, marriages and hope
As for your abortion, I would seek spiritual counseling ,if you haven't already .Mercy is a gift from God and its free
Be strong and dont go after menwho only want ypur body for their own pleasure

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Posted on Jul 19, 2018 at 10:50 PM

Your story is so touching.  I think a lot of us chose the wrong partner when we are young.  Hang in there.  If you ever need a friend,  Email me.  Also great legs in your pic!


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