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Another Question about Someone "Favoriting" you.

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October 29
Hey Everyone, Here is another question - why would someone "Favorite You", but never reach out? With that, if you reach out to them and say thank you - they seem distant, as though they really didn't want you to reach out to them. (Don't get me wrong - I am flattered at the favorite - just really looking for something with substance.. so thought maybe I am missing something.) Open for opinions and recommendations.
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November 3
Thank you for responding. I'm not a standard member. I am a premium member :-)
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Thank you,
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well thanks for clarification about standard members not seeing who favorited.
Now to answer the question, sometimes I favorite a profile while browsing. And then get busy talking with someone else. It can be tough to carry on too many convos.
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October 29
Good response, thank you.
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Guessing rational motives for the things people do here on MM is a hopeless task. Maybe they are attracted to you but undecided if they want to date you. Maybe they are attracted but too shy to message you right now. Maybe they are going to favorite 10 people and then decide on 1 or 2 to send messages to. Maybe you are too far away from them but they think your pictures are sexy.
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October 29
I do agree about those that aren't premium member - absolutely 100%. What about those that are already "Premium" members?
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October 29
Standard members have no other way to communicate but to send a 'wink', 'like' or 'add to favorite', perhaps in hope to solicit a reply from a Premium member which will open the door and allow Standard > Premium communication. As designed today, MM will not allow a standard member to send a message or view who winked, linked or added you as a favorite. Therefore, a standard member can only wait and hope that a Premium member also 'likes' them back or adds them as a favorite or sends the first message which will allow the standard member to message back. It took me a while to figure this out as it is not really 'spelled out' and many users don't understand how all this really works. There are way too many 'standard' unverified profiles on this site and all they do is send winks all day long. There is definitely room for site improvement but it appears member suggestions don't make it to the drawing board.