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DOUBLE STANDARD - thought we were in 2020

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Okay. What I am about to say will probably not be positive or like or? At this point I really don't care, as this site has been the biggest waste of my time in my entire life. So a good place to vent, since I don't value its "opinion". Okay, do I pay what you pay guys to be on here? Yes. There is no break for the sexes. Then why in the hell is it NOT OKAY for me to message you first because perhaps that is what I like. Why is it not okay for me to show interest and then you block me or whatever you do because your little tiny weeny ego or lack of self esteem can't handle a strong willed, highly intelligent woman. What this tells me is what we have always heard. You are only looking for one thing. Young and stupid. But then you complain when she is smart enough to take your wallet. Yet, those of us, women of integrity. Solid women, Women that could be great partners, help you build your businesses up, not take away. Wouldn't be an embarrassment as we wouldn't screw the gardner or whomever she f&&ks. Because she always trades you in on a younger model TOO. You dumb a$$.
Well there is an answer. I will start my own match making service. AND I will make sure things are balanced. If she doesn't have equal access to messaging, then your messages will be blocked. I will level the playing field. Trust me with programming this is possible. So when you don't play nice or fair, there is a ying and yang to everything. So when I leave this site, which is soon, I will hire the biggest baddest a$$ programmers and create my own database and rules. So your tiny little egos or whatever will be forced to level the playing field. No. Not a man hater. That is the whole point. You guys have nice women on here, but you want to be the "only one" who can show interest first. F%%k that!
I am a woman who has run publicly traded companies. I have owned medical patents. You think I don't have enough brain to know what I want in a man! Oh pluze. Go away mama's boys. You suck - well actually you don't. That is part of the problem. You are still sucking on the wrong part of the body.
Go away those with the brain of a ragworm. Half of you couldn't even understand my original profile. I had to dumb it down so you could read it! Sad. Truly sad. And for the judge out in Arizona - you obviously think your stuff is too hot. I got bad news for you I've dated and married men that would make you like a piss ant.
Now. I will have a good Monday.
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I'm sure you are a lovely person but your post seem so angry as I get it's frustrating ... if you want help redoing your page to get more hits let me know. I did one of my closest friend's page from work.. she is 70 year and thriving !!!I find the idea of finding love exciting and I want you to win but this rant doesn't match the wonderful person I'm sure you are. Take care
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The problem is, WHORES.

BELIEVE ME.
I worked for a GOVERNMENT AGENCY- AN IMPORTANT ONE. I WAS PART OF AN INTERNATIONAL TEAM, briefly.
*WHORES*
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November 15 Total posts: 27
Hi Queen, I have seen the term used before and I had to look up what it meant :). 

I do not think we need more terms to express our individual personality. Why does one need a fancy term and a label to introduce himself/herself to stand out? Why does anyone need a term or to be put in a "box" and categorized?

It is not a term that describes our personality. By being part of a category and having a label, one already loses individuality. Truly knowing oneself, own unique self, and understanding what makes us happy is all that is needed to be unique and interesting. If one continues to learn and grow, there is a lot one can offer.
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Quoting TravelBug2112:

intelligence is sexy but just because someone has a few degrees under their belt doesn't automatically mean they're intelligent. I went to an Ivy League University and I met some really stupid people during my studies. Actually, many people who spend their entire life in academia often lack common sense and social manners. Meanwhile my Grandma never went to college and she's the most intelligent person I know. I personally think a man shows he's intelligent by showing he has proper manners, knows how to treat a lady, knows how to communicate, knows how to compromise rather than lists his degrees and companies.
I agree with you. Having dated people with Ph.D.'s, Having dated people with no to little education, I have had more fun and better communication and interaction "with and about life" than I did with an academia type person. Although I have to qualify my statement as thing are not absolute. I have a business partner that is a Ph.D.. He does have common sense. And he has manners, etc. All the things that you mention. On the other hand, sometimes in Georgia those without education cannot keep up with me and hold a conversation. At the end of the day, it's probably personal preference "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". But then I go back to a guy I dated years ago. One of the more extremes.. he had a master's degree in Chemistry, but hated it and he was a house painter! One of the nicest guys I ever dated... I still remember him from 42 yrs ago. I just drove by where he took me on our first date a few weeks ago. Fond memories. ..... there are no absolutes. Intelligence, Sapiosexual is #1 what I zero in on. As I said years ago when an old woman pointed out to me my husband was "drop dead gorgeous"... that's nice I said, but what am I gonna do when we get old.. use for him for a hat rack? IF you can't hold a conversation with the one you love, when the going gets tough, there must be more than lust to keep it glued together. COVID and the divorce rate has reinforced and proven this point. For those with good marriages, we have a baby boom coming in Oct, Nov and Dec!!!!!
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October 21 Total posts: 22
intelligence is sexy but just because someone has a few degrees under their belt doesn't automatically mean they're intelligent. I went to an Ivy League University and I met some really stupid people during my studies. Actually, many people who spend their entire life in academia often lack common sense and social manners. Meanwhile my Grandma never went to college and she's the most intelligent person I know. I personally think a man shows he's intelligent by showing he has proper manners, knows how to treat a lady, knows how to communicate, knows how to compromise rather than lists his degrees and companies.
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Quoting malinka5:

"since when was a woman's academic or business acumen a priority in men's assessment of a woman's attractiveness?"
Since intelligence has become the new sexy hahaha
exactly. I have seen quite a few profiles that advertise "sapiosexual". so a person's academic or hobbies, or business acumen does come into play . . . . pardon the pun.
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Cuz this site is horrible and im not used to using a dating site but i can tell its garbage
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Lmk when u start ur service
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October 20 Total posts: 27
"since when was a woman's academic or business acumen a priority in men's assessment of a woman's attractiveness?"
Since intelligence has become the new sexy hahaha
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October 19 Total posts: 22
I'd have to agree with you on that one. Men aren't looking to date women who act like men and unfortunately way too many women do. Listing your degrees, number of companies you ran, your investments, what revenue you increased for which companies doesn't mean much for men in terms of initial attractiveness. For women - yes. But if that's what men based their attractiveness on they'd probably just date another guy.
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October 19 Total posts: 22
Looks like you and Queen should get something going 😉
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So if things are so extremely terrible here, why are people paying then moaning and groaning?? I have plenty of issues with this website but I'm not a paying member at this time. There are so many websites out there. It just seems a bit weird to keep paying for a membership and still complain. There are men and women of all ages and backgrounds here. Trashing younger women seems immature, sorry. We're not all gold diggers and liars. We all have preferences. I think blocking is also immature but hey, at least you didn't waste your time on this person. Clearly wasn't meant for you. I definitely think it's more classy to say something like "thank you but I'm not interested" but many people don't. Just the way it is. No need to get so angry
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October 19 Total posts: 49
woo hoo. we will work on that! the way I see it, I have enough money for my other needs, the site won't be so much about making money as making people happy! (Daria may see it another way.. we haven't discussed yet). I believe if people are happy it will make money. Sort of comes under the heading "if you build they will come" from the movie ....
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I have worked hard many years with balance still in medical but have a chance to do what I studied in college. having someone with a vision would help. (tbc)
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cont' to assist me in making wise choices. I've seen successful people bump their heads and it was over. extended family who used saving to care for unhealthy children, folks with diagnosis and their money couldn't save them. (tbc)
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Hi queen you have targeted many good points. I do healthcare in ER and trauma, nicu and all and life had shown me the gift I was born to do although I studied architectural drafting in college. I count all that I participated and seen have help to
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Queen Mystery and Daria,
if you can do without bot profiles in your new site, that would be great :). I think the use of bots is unethical. There are plenty of bots here.
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October 14
great truthful post. It's the fragile ego of some men who would rather have a disingenuous woman who is only interested in his cash..but LIES to him.
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please, let me know when you start that site, you are right, I paid the same money but I feel like I'm in the forties. I have been blocked twice, because no man wants a woman who tells him what he doing his wrong. Just make me a cup of coffee.