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Posted on Sat, Mar 25, 2017 07:30 AM

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

Thank you



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Posted on Fri, Sep 22, 2017 08:40 AM

Well not that this will be seriously considered, but for one..  let us at least see the emails/message. I know the goal is to get paying members, but for the ones who are very guarded about paying for the site, it doesn't hurt to at least being able to read what is sent.  Also, I see that one poster mentioned about having a free chat .  that would go a long way to keeping people interested here.  Just an opinion..



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Posted on Sat, Sep 16, 2017 10:23 AM

Quoting watching:

It would be good to have a language tool so that we can read what people from other countries are writing. I am sure they would like us to be able to converse with them.

 

Regards

June


 

@JUNE ,

 

In my opinion it is the responsibility of the BLOG OWNER to translate what they wrote to the English Language knowing that

the Site is Canadian and International as well as majority of the Members are Americans, Canadians and other English speaking Countries...Im not in the mood and Im not interested to do the

translation for them .



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 04:50 PM

Hi June,

Google translate works great, you can copy and paste and it translates in seconds.  Good luck



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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2017 10:12 PM

It would be good to have a language tool so that we can read what people from other countries are writing. I am sure they would like us to be able to converse with them.

 

Regards

June



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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2017 07:05 PM

Quoting NikkiJaye:

Allow better search filters- include what others are looking for so not wasting time reading profiles of people who won't like you.


Sometimes the boundaries are not as strict as stated.  It does not hurt to ask.  Few should be offended by someone being attracted    



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:55 PM

Quoting Jenkneee:

Hello and thank you "isitfate" for seconding my ideas :)  I have felt many times that I should be in charge of so many businesses, including this site!! Common sense can really go far, lol.  Sell some tokens, a set of them for a reasonable price instead of a whopping 70 bucks a month that a huge number of members do not want to pay and they would actually make more money in the long run. 

 

Entice us with a free chatroom.

 

At least 80% of my winks are from scammers. 

 

The Activities section apparently no longer includes bits of new posts in the blogs/forum.

 

The prior Events info should be embarrassing to those staff members who care.  Who wants to meet in Orange County, San Diego or Las Vegas for starters?  Parties can be set up dirt cheap these days and can turn a profit. There is no excuse.

 

This all leads up to me being throughally disappointed in this site.


We used to have the chat dite here free but it got closed to non payers. I have been on here on and off because it is a waste of time. I do have a free people who stay in touch but they are not suiters. Free chat would keep me on here longer than a few months at a time.

June



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:49 PM

Quoting Jenkneee:

Last I checked the non-paying members are not allowed to increase to a larger font.  Just another way that I feel like a misfit. Sigh.



I am non paying and I use the font here.

 



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:46 PM

Quoting Sunnyel:

Suggestion, I think if 2 people favorite each other, give them a chance to meet. If one of the a premium member he can get phone number or chance to write a letter to his favorite. The other side should be able to reed or contact that person too. Thank you


This is so true. Manners do not count on here. How many men have sent me messages and I have not received them because I am locked out. It is rude and not acceptable.

June



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:43 PM

Quoting storm79:

do I understand correctly that if I´m not a paid member I can not send email neither chat with somebody??? Or did I overlooked something? How can I connect with somebody I like? thanks



I know that this is a stumbling block for us.  By emailing through mm is the best way yo find a partner. Sending a wink is stupid when there is no winks that say what you would like to convey.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:38 PM

Quoting removed_PiqueMe_128875291:

Is there really no way to verify people? That seems like it would help a lot. And what about having different categories. Those who pay for a membership are kept separate and those who don't want to reveal who they are. What is wrong with people... anonimity makes rudeness and ignorance acceptable? Humanity is lost. I'm going back to preferring being alone and single. This experience is demoralizing and depressing. I'd rather be stranded alone on a desert island.


I have been contacted by a few men on here who are using a false profile. 



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:35 PM

Quoting 7344ZAC:

I'm new here and appreciate your honesty.  Have you had any success here at all?



I too feel the same although my age is against me. I realise men do not want older women. I have considered yo pay several times but give away the thought as I do not just want to talk to men on here and feel that if they are genuine, they will email me.

June



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 04:30 PM

Quoting MMCounselor:

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

Thank you



Please making all photos be in clothes. I am turned off by the number of men with no shirts on and close to nothing. I love a man fully dressed and presentable. 

 

Thank you

June



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Posted on Sun, Sep 10, 2017 07:09 PM

Please require the non-paying members to type out or record a statement that there is nothing at all unfair about giving paying members more privileges than non-paying members. If they dare to question the natural order of things, kick them off the site for their effrontery! Or maybe bend them over your knee and give them a spanking, depending on the circumstances.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 07, 2017 01:11 PM

Is there really no way to verify people? That seems like it would help a lot. And what about having different categories. Those who pay for a membership are kept separate and those who don't want to reveal who they are. What is wrong with people... anonimity makes rudeness and ignorance acceptable? Humanity is lost. I'm going back to preferring being alone and single. This experience is demoralizing and depressing. I'd rather be stranded alone on a desert island.


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Posted on Mon, Aug 07, 2017 10:46 AM

do I understand correctly that if I´m not a paid member I can not send email neither chat with somebody??? Or did I overlooked something? How can I connect with somebody I like? thanks



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Posted on Mon, Aug 07, 2017 09:39 AM

Since 2009 your membership has dwindled.  There is no one of interest and no 'new blood'  Hence I have not paid in 8 years.  I have done an experiment.  I deleted all of my inbox over the past 8 years.  I then sent winks to anyone who was supposedly 'online' at the moment.  I had no replies.  Not a one.  And if you take the time to look at my profile and my photos you will see that there is no reason for me to have an empty inbox.  I am 5' 10" and a former fashion model who remains strikingly stunning.  I am not interested in men 5'9" or men who refuse to answer regarding their income.  Broaden non-paying members search options and maybe we would consider being a paying member.  But I doubt it as you have no new valid male memberships.  This used to be a viable site.  It is no longer.  It is a waste of time to come back and visit.  It is a stagnant dying site.  That is too bad.



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Posted on Tue, Jul 25, 2017 10:46 PM

meaning?


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Posted on Tue, Jul 25, 2017 10:53 AM

Suggestion, I think if 2 people favorite each other, give them a chance to meet. If one of the a premium member he can get phone number or chance to write a letter to his favorite. The other side should be able to reed or contact that person too. Thank you


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Posted on Mon, Jul 24, 2017 12:06 PM

How about requiring id picture certification for all members, that might discourage scammers.


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