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Posted on Mar 25, 2017 at 07:30 AM

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

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Posted on Feb 12, 2019 at 07:20 AM

I even don’t want to report them because too many and they are keeping back.

The important thing is what we should do? 
Since the first experience of approached  by a scammer, I review every profile very carefully before I reply them, especially the photos.They were obviously edited on many fake profiles.
 
I do not response a profile with less informations. 
I stop talk to them immediately if their profiles dispersed very shortly.
Also I don’t like the winks or the messages such as “I’m interested…” by the way.
 
I think the easy way to recognize a scammers is:
A real gentleman would handled problems himself, especially the financial problems.
A real man would never ask money for a woman.
The time who asked  for money issues, The time he must  go away to wherever he came from.
 
I’ve been touched by scammers constantly since the first day I posted my profile here last year. it was really waste of time!
First time was a French accent guy from Austria; 
Yes, the first week he email me everyday for ask many questions.
After 6 weeks of email, voice communication, He tried 3 times in one month for financial help : funds rupture of his construction company, kidney transplantation for his son…
 
Then an Italian “veteran military officer” of USA Air Force, 
I noticed his income doesn't fit his rank, according the uniform photo he sent to me as I required. 
Also the mass, terrible writing can’t be by a well educated , well trained chief commander officer , And was impossible written in a very short time. 
I stoped to talk to him before his profile disappeared few days late.
 
The most recent one was a man from WA; 
Flawless gentility, elegant words,good look…
After few weeks email, message exchange, He sent me a rink about his company.
It was breath-taking!
Over the long year worked as a translator,I Have many communications with many people: business men, exports, engineers, lawyers, politicians… I know the way how people talk. 
I never expected he is an entrepreneur.
 
But after carefully read, I have to ask him “As a ship repairing, maintenance company, You must have some repairing, maintenance sites in the coast area like WA, Why you are living in WA and placed your head office in a normal house at an inland area Texas? “
He said he rent the house as office because"Texas has more of a business that has to do with oil and gas..”
 
Of course I don’t buy the explanation of the knowledge which is everyone can easily found on the internet.
It would not be too difficult  to find out if the company is even existed, based on the all the informations on the homepage. But before I decided if I should do something,He asked me if I can get some bitcoins for him?
 
I don’t think a busy, proud billionaire would sent his passport cope to provide himself for some bitcoins. His game is over. Still, I insisted to have a video talk which is he always avoided.  In the end, All I saw was a half forehead in the dark and a younger voice with foreign accent…
 
Eventually, You are who you are!

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Posted on Feb 11, 2019 at 03:26 AM

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it should be a pay only site. If you can not afford the monthly dues why are you on MM. picture verification should be a must. I get messages from women everyday asking me to email a male friend. Hmmm. No I do not answer.

If this site does not change I am off.

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Posted on Feb 10, 2019 at 06:26 PM

I believe we have to take some responsibility if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is . Just be aware we are the adults connecting to the other person

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Posted on Feb 10, 2019 at 08:58 AM

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I  think you should add a feature where the person sending a message/email has an option for paying for the person to respond Example: 1 response = $1.99  2 responses = $2.99 etc.



I send you an email you can respond free.  Now.  


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Posted on Jan 04, 2019 at 05:34 AM

I would prefer all pay to be in this mm site, and as a minimum be verified. You might loose some members initially, but would likely gain more integrity in the long run. I would prefer a three day free period to peek, then membership only.
Your quality of prospects is overall very excellent ang glad I did sign up.


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Posted on Jan 04, 2019 at 05:30 AM

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If someone is on this site they should be able to pay for it, or they should choose another site such as POF which is free.  


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Posted on Dec 16, 2018 at 08:17 PM

Well all dating website will have scammers here or in the world

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Posted on Dec 07, 2018 at 07:30 AM

Many scammers reported by me too!

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Posted on Dec 07, 2018 at 07:29 AM

I find I get notifications of people interested in me and right away I will try to reply and it says that the user is not available. So how am I supposed to get in contact with someone that is supposedly interested in me???? Seems like a waste of money and time for the most part. I am also seriously contemplating NOT renewing my membership and have had two friends that have not renewed for that reason.

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Posted on Dec 07, 2018 at 03:20 AM

I had an experience where a male told me two different stories....I listened. I sent the information to MM within 1/2 hour I received an email from MM he was taken off the site.
Thank you MM
The same thing happened on another site .I reported it , the sight did nothing.

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Posted on Dec 06, 2018 at 07:07 AM

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I agree MillionaireMatch should live up to its name, if not you are just another Match dating site. Also photos need to be verify because I've reported many fake profiles and I pay high dollars for your service for other to join for $0 dollars and gather out information. For that reason I'll not re-new in January 2019.


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Posted on Dec 05, 2018 at 01:21 PM

I  think you should add a feature where the person sending a message/email has an option for paying for the person to respond Example: 1 response = $1.99  2 responses = $2.99 etc.



Carpe Diem!!!
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Posted on Oct 28, 2018 at 02:15 AM

Ive heard that the members who pay dont have much more to go by, than nonpaying members. Theres alot if sites out there that are free and they are perfectly fine. I feel like if these sites cant afford to pay their own bills then they shouldnt have a site. Why push off your debts to running the sites on the very people that help make your sites popular? Pay your own bills datesites!!

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Posted on Oct 27, 2018 at 03:06 PM

Winks are sent we cannot reply unless we prescribe why not be able to communicate right away to the guys . These sites take your money but what happens you do not meet someone that's problem as there are fakes out there . I have a few good men I'd like but they send a message I can't reply winks once a week these guys also do not email why can't they or viseversa do u guys block emails as I've received none but yet guys ask for more info we can't give it it seems a waste if time

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Posted on Oct 27, 2018 at 03:04 PM

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The scammers are very very annoying but every dating site seems to have either scammers or crazies. I know someone here on MM who tried a much more expensive dating site and thought the high price would solve the problem, but the first guy she met in person turned out to be a crazy stalker.

 

All we can do is be very careful and avoid them, and just look at them kind of like the junk mail we get in our mailboxes and throw away without a thought. There are still plenty of honest people here if you can keep deleting the scammers until you find the good ones.


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Posted on Oct 27, 2018 at 11:26 AM

I feel woman and men should have one month free trial, better monitoring on scam artist.

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Posted on Oct 27, 2018 at 10:24 AM

I would prefer all pay to be in this mm site, and as a minimum be verified. You might loose some members initially, but would likely gain more integrity in the long run. I would prefer a three day free period to peek, then membership only.
Your quality of prospects is overall very excellent ang glad I did sign up.

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Posted on Oct 27, 2018 at 07:08 AM

In two weeks 4 scammers have approached me. What’s goin on here?

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Posted on Oct 25, 2018 at 11:01 PM

One thing that seems prevelant on datesites is the lack of asthetic ,and pleasing background. This may sound silly but color stimulates the mind. Also, since this is Millionaire Match, the overall appearance should be upgraded to its finest allure. As far as scammers, check their i.d.s better. They make them look pretty good. But theyve scammed enough to be obvious. Most people with any sense can spot them. What bothers me is reporting them and nothing changes. Then when we spot them, you want us doing the "leg work" so to speak. Its discouraging. We all want to be safe. I worry abiut the young women in here. They havent experienced enough to know these lines the scammers pull.
Lastly, just my own opinion but i think this luxuries thing, about showing off "toys" and assets is tacky and tasteless. I seek men who dont show their wealth on camera. I want to see real exposed hearts to those looking for something serious. Thanks for listening, allowing my opinions.

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