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Posted on Mar 25, 2017 at 07:30 AM

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

Thank you


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Posted on Mar 18, 2019 at 02:22 PM

Oh dear! 🙈 I do give them my real name and whatsapp number! 🤔

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Posted on Mar 18, 2019 at 02:17 PM

Would be nice to have a proper app for this so it’s easier to chat!

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Posted on Mar 18, 2019 at 12:00 PM

@Author

I'd be interested to hear your theory behind the women shouldn't pay comment... I believe that men that can pay may not be interested in women who can't. There are lots of free dating sites and the service and quality is very poor. The higher subscription prices separate the quality of individuals and clearly demonstrates they are willing to invest their money, time and effort to find a quality partner. The old saying is - you only get what you pay for!


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Posted on Mar 18, 2019 at 11:50 AM

If you wish to maintain premium clientele - You really should upgrade your site and servers since the site is 20 year old technology and painfully slow. You are charging a premium for your services, your clients are leading busy lives. Your painfully slow site eats up our valuable time.

 

 

Customers value their time - time is money. Your site is the slowest I tolerate. I think if you survey your clients, almost all would agree that this is one of the most impactful places for you to focus your attention. Time is our most important asset and waiting 30 seconds for searches and messages to load can be frustrating and not worth the investment in time. 

 

Something to consider  


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Posted on Mar 16, 2019 at 07:02 AM

Throw some money at your software & servers. They are always bogged down and surfing is a challenge. With the amount of money paid for membership on this site, it should be wicked quick.

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Posted on Mar 15, 2019 at 11:04 PM

Could I ask why my last two blogs were deleted, even though they had no photographs? They were were not lewd or offensive, so fell within the BLOG guidelines which you advised me were on this page.

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Posted on Mar 05, 2019 at 01:25 AM

I report fake profiles and pictures all the time. It’s time connsuming trying to weed through the BS. But it’s worth it if keeps the site from turning into scam central

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Posted on Mar 04, 2019 at 05:19 PM

You should update your site.Add option to edit post on profile comments.You can make money on different ways then asking for upgrade on who like me .That will bring more traffic to you....etc.

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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 10:19 PM

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Most people lie about their age. That’s pathetic


 

That is one problem about fake person with fake profile ..

I have made a lot of follow up and found out its not existing either Email or Tel. Nos..

At least I eliminated their Profile from here .


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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 10:13 PM

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Thanks Maryclaire

 

My last sentence was hypothetical as I wondered how one could go about it.  Being warned not to give out such information too soon made me wonder how within the MM framework one could accomplish it when it was not too soon.   

 

I have seen some interesting and blatant approaches on MM.  Obvious code for example.  Sometimes code so invisible as to escape the attention of the intended recipient.    



 

RMAC ,

 

Thats another smart suggestion ..


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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 08:12 PM

Quoting author:

 

Hi RMac ,

 

Im sorry about your experience but I can give you some advice ...

After a month of corresponding Im sure you have gathered informations about her ,

so if you are really interested, give her an Email address 1st which is not your Private 

Email adress but only for Dating Sites without identifying yourself and a Tel.No,

from a Prepaid CP ,until you are sure she is real .

 

Goodluck RMac ..



Thanks Maryclaire

 

My last sentence was hypothetical as I wondered how one could go about it.  Being warned not to give out such information too soon made me wonder how within the MM framework one could accomplish it when it was not too soon.   

 

I have seen some interesting and blatant approaches on MM.  Obvious code for example.  Sometimes code so invisible as to escape the attention of the intended recipient.    


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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 04:27 PM

Everyone should download the App Reverseimage onto you phone & that’s how I caught a scammer on this site. I took my pic off plus a break, it is sad, scammers are online, but the more we use background apps to investigate, the scammers will called out & caught...

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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 01:12 PM

Most people lie about their age. That’s pathetic

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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 05:07 AM

We are in the world of technology folks let’s use what’s in our arsenal of defense... I’ve found 2 industry tools useful in verification outside of MM efforts. 1) BeenVerified - is a low cost app that pulls public record including criminal records. Other than dating, I’ve use it before I hire a vendor/contractor. You can access a file using name, phone or address. 2) TextNow - cost free app that allows a free phone number for texting and talking from a non-disclosed number.

I hope this post is found useful.
Sharon

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Posted on Mar 03, 2019 at 12:06 AM

@Author
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Posted on Mar 02, 2019 at 11:40 PM

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I was just now reminded not to give my real information such as telephone number, real name, offline email address, or address too soon.  

 

Any time I have ever tried to give my offline email address after corresponding a lot it has been corrected to my MM email address.  Phone number was just deleted.  

 

Obviously, since I met the lady and saw her quite often, there were other ways to accomplish both.  

 

Still, how can one accomplish it if perhaps you have been corresponding for a month. or two, and still your attempts keep being edited.  



 

Hi RMac ,

 

Im sorry about your experience but I can give you some advice ...

After a month of corresponding Im sure you have gathered informations about her ,

so if you are really interested, give her an Email address 1st which is not your Private 

Email adress but only for Dating Sites without identifying yourself and a Tel.No,

from a Prepaid CP ,until you are sure she is real .

 

Goodluck RMac ..


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Posted on Mar 02, 2019 at 08:07 PM

I was just now reminded not to give my real information such as telephone number, real name, offline email address, or address too soon.  

 

Any time I have ever tried to give my offline email address after corresponding a lot it has been corrected to my MM email address.  Phone number was just deleted.  

 

Obviously, since I met the lady and saw her quite often, there were other ways to accomplish both.  

 

Still, how can one accomplish it if perhaps you have been corresponding for a month. or two, and still your attempts keep being edited.  


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Posted on Mar 01, 2019 at 07:08 AM

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Are criminals allowed to be members because they are certified millionaires who are cheap skates and want to take you to McDonald's


Obviously we can't run a background check on every profile (thousands a day) but to answer your question NO criminals are not allowed on this site.  Members safety is our first priority.  Please report anyone with a felony/criminal record so he/she can be blocked and removed.   Thank you


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Posted on Feb 24, 2019 at 09:50 PM

My suggestion is take serious look on every profile before you response.

Too many fake profiles here: some of them even have same description, same head ling, same tone…
Since the first experience of approached  by a scammer, I reviewed every profile very carefully before I reply them. Especially the photos: they were obviously photoshopped on many fake profiles. 
 
I do not response a profile with less informations. 
I stop talk to them immediately if their profiles disappeared very shortly.
Also I don’t like the winks or the message such as “I’m interested…” 
 
I think the easy way to recognize a scammers is:
A real gentleman would handel problems himself, especially the financial problems.
A real man would never ask money for a woman.
The time who asked  for money issues, The time must let them away to wherever they came from.
 
I’ve been approached by scammers constantly since the first day I posted my profile here last year. It’s really waste of time!
First one was a French accent guy from Austria, 
Yes, the first week he email me everyday for ask many questions.
After 6 weeks communication, He tried 3 times in one month for financial help : funds rupture of his construction company, kidney transplantation for his son…
 
Then an Italian “veteran military officer” of USA Air Force, 
I noticed his income doesn't fit his rank, according the uniform photo he sent to me as I required. 
Also the mass, terrible writing can’t be by a well educated , well trained chief commander officer,And was impossible written in a very short time. 
I stoped to talk to him before his profile disappeared few days later
 
The most recent one was a man from WA; 
Flawless gentility, elegant words,good look…
After few weeks email, message exchange, He sent me a rink about his company.
It was breath-taking! 
Over the long year worked as a translator,I have many communications with many people: bussines men, exports, engineers, lawyers, politicians… I know the way how people talk. 
I never expected he is an entrepreneur.
 
But after carefully  read, I have to ask him “As a ship repairing,maintenance company, You must have some repairing, maintenance sites in the coast area like WA? Why you are living in WA and  placed your head office in a normal house at an inland area Texas? “
He said he rent the house as office because"Texas has more of a business that has to do with oil and gas..”
 
Of cause I don’t buy the nonsence or the explanation of the knowledge which is everyone can easily found on the internet.
It would not be too difficult  to find out if the company is even existed, based on the all the informations on the homepage. 
But before I decided if I should do something,He asked me if I can get some bitcoins for him?
 
I don’t think a busy, proud billionaire would sent his passport cope to provide himself for some bitcoins. His game is over.
Still, I insisted to have a video talk which is he always avoided, in the end, All I saw was a half forehead in the dark and a younger voice with foreign accent…
 
Eventually, you are who you are!

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