Quoting Unavailable:

Oh dear! 🙈 I do give them my real name and whatsapp number! 🤔

Quoting Unavailable:

Would be nice to have a proper app for this so it’s easier to chat!

Quoting jimmymac2019:

I'd be interested to hear your theory behind the women shouldn't pay comment... I believe that men that can pay may not be interested in women who can't. There are lots of free dating sites and the service and quality is very poor. The higher subscription prices separate the quality of individuals and clearly demonstrates they are willing to invest their money, time and effort to find a quality partner. The old saying is - you only get what you pay for!

Quoting jimmymac2019:

If you wish to maintain premium clientele - You really should upgrade your site and servers since the site is 20 year old technology and painfully slow. You are charging a premium for your services, your clients are leading busy lives. Your painfully slow site eats up our valuable time.

 

 

Customers value their time - time is money. Your site is the slowest I tolerate. I think if you survey your clients, almost all would agree that this is one of the most impactful places for you to focus your attention. Time is our most important asset and waiting 30 seconds for searches and messages to load can be frustrating and not worth the investment in time. 

 

Something to consider  

Quoting Stellar5280:

Throw some money at your software & servers. They are always bogged down and surfing is a challenge. With the amount of money paid for membership on this site, it should be wicked quick.

Quoting Paladin670:

Could I ask why my last two blogs were deleted, even though they had no photographs? They were were not lewd or offensive, so fell within the BLOG guidelines which you advised me were on this page.

Quoting Unavailable:

I report fake profiles and pictures all the time. It’s time connsuming trying to weed through the BS. But it’s worth it if keeps the site from turning into scam central

Quoting Bolndy2010:

You should update your site.Add option to edit post on profile comments.You can make money on different ways then asking for upgrade on who like me .That will bring more traffic to you....etc.

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

That is one problem about fake person with fake profile ..

I have made a lot of follow up and found out its not existing either Email or Tel. Nos..

At least I eliminated their Profile from here .

Quoting SimonetaLuna: Most people lie about their age. That’s pathetic

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

RMAC ,

 

Thats another smart suggestion ..

Quoting rmac22: Thanks Maryclaire   My last sentence was hypothetical as I wondered how one could go about it.  Being warned not to give out such information too soon made me wonder how within the MM framework one could accomplish it when it was not too soon.      I have seen some interesting and blatant approaches on MM.  Obvious code for example.  Sometimes code so invisible as to escape the attention of the intended recipient.

Quoting rmac22:

Thanks Maryclaire

 

My last sentence was hypothetical as I wondered how one could go about it.  Being warned not to give out such information too soon made me wonder how within the MM framework one could accomplish it when it was not too soon.   

 

I have seen some interesting and blatant approaches on MM.  Obvious code for example.  Sometimes code so invisible as to escape the attention of the intended recipient.    

Quoting Maryclaire2000:   Hi RMac ,   Im sorry about your experience but I can give you some advice ... After a month of corresponding Im sure you have gathered informations about her , so if you are really interested, give her an Email address 1st which is not your Private  Email adress but only for Dating Sites without identifying yourself and a Tel.No, from a Prepaid CP ,until you are sure she is real .   Goodluck RMac ..

Quoting BrownSwirl:

Everyone should download the App Reverseimage onto you phone & that’s how I caught a scammer on this site. I took my pic off plus a break, it is sad, scammers are online, but the more we use background apps to investigate, the scammers will called out & caught...

Quoting SimonetaLuna:

Most people lie about their age. That’s pathetic

Quoting Scorpio1961:

We are in the world of technology folks let’s use what’s in our arsenal of defense... I’ve found 2 industry tools useful in verification outside of MM efforts. 1) BeenVerified - is a low cost app that pulls public record including criminal records. Other than dating, I’ve use it before I hire a vendor/contractor. You can access a file using name, phone or address. 2) TextNow - cost free app that allows a free phone number for texting and talking from a non-disclosed number.

I hope this post is found useful.
Sharon

Quoting hotdrsarah:

I’ll

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

Hi RMac ,

 

Im sorry about your experience but I can give you some advice ...

After a month of corresponding Im sure you have gathered informations about her ,

so if you are really interested, give her an Email address 1st which is not your Private 

Email adress but only for Dating Sites without identifying yourself and a Tel.No,

from a Prepaid CP ,until you are sure she is real .

 

Goodluck RMac ..

Quoting rmac22: I was just now reminded not to give my real information such as telephone number, real name, offline email address, or address too soon.     Any time I have ever tried to give my offline email address after corresponding a lot it has been corrected to my MM email address.  Phone number was just deleted.     Obviously, since I met the lady and saw her quite often, there were other ways to accomplish both.     Still, how can one accomplish it if perhaps you have been corresponding for a month. or two, and still your attempts keep being edited.

Quoting rmac22:

I was just now reminded not to give my real information such as telephone number, real name, offline email address, or address too soon.  

 

Any time I have ever tried to give my offline email address after corresponding a lot it has been corrected to my MM email address.  Phone number was just deleted.  

 

Obviously, since I met the lady and saw her quite often, there were other ways to accomplish both.  

 

Still, how can one accomplish it if perhaps you have been corresponding for a month. or two, and still your attempts keep being edited.  

Quoting MMCounselor:

Obviously we can't run a background check on every profile (thousands a day) but to answer your question NO criminals are not allowed on this site.  Members safety is our first priority.  Please report anyone with a felony/criminal record so he/she can be blocked and removed.   Thank you

Quoting PROFESSIONALISM: Are criminals allowed to be members because they are certified millionaires who are cheap skates and want to take you to McDonald's

Quoting Huipinglu:

My suggestion is take serious look on every profile before you response.