Quoting RubysLove:

Ive heard that the members who pay dont have much more to go by, than nonpaying members. Theres alot if sites out there that are free and they are perfectly fine. I feel like if these sites cant afford to pay their own bills then they shouldnt have a site. Why push off your debts to running the sites on the very people that help make your sites popular? Pay your own bills datesites!!

Quoting hazgal:

Winks are sent we cannot reply unless we prescribe why not be able to communicate right away to the guys . These sites take your money but what happens you do not meet someone that's problem as there are fakes out there . I have a few good men I'd like but they send a message I can't reply winks once a week these guys also do not email why can't they or viseversa do u guys block emails as I've received none but yet guys ask for more info we can't give it it seems a waste if time

Quoting Good2BTheKing:

The scammers are very very annoying but every dating site seems to have either scammers or crazies. I know someone here on MM who tried a much more expensive dating site and thought the high price would solve the problem, but the first guy she met in person turned out to be a crazy stalker.

 

All we can do is be very careful and avoid them, and just look at them kind of like the junk mail we get in our mailboxes and throw away without a thought. There are still plenty of honest people here if you can keep deleting the scammers until you find the good ones.

Quoting AutoTech28:

I feel woman and men should have one month free trial, better monitoring on scam artist.

Quoting Unavailable:

I would prefer all pay to be in this mm site, and as a minimum be verified. You might loose some members initially, but would likely gain more integrity in the long run. I would prefer a three day free period to peek, then membership only.
Your quality of prospects is overall very excellent ang glad I did sign up.

Quoting Finally5252:

In two weeks 4 scammers have approached me. What’s goin on here?

Quoting RubysLove:

One thing that seems prevelant on datesites is the lack of asthetic ,and pleasing background. This may sound silly but color stimulates the mind. Also, since this is Millionaire Match, the overall appearance should be upgraded to its finest allure. As far as scammers, check their i.d.s better. They make them look pretty good. But theyve scammed enough to be obvious. Most people with any sense can spot them. What bothers me is reporting them and nothing changes. Then when we spot them, you want us doing the "leg work" so to speak. Its discouraging. We all want to be safe. I worry abiut the young women in here. They havent experienced enough to know these lines the scammers pull.
Lastly, just my own opinion but i think this luxuries thing, about showing off "toys" and assets is tacky and tasteless. I seek men who dont show their wealth on camera. I want to see real exposed hearts to those looking for something serious. Thanks for listening, allowing my opinions.

Quoting CuriousGirl3:

@We all need to keep in mind that, while the membership is pricey, maintaining the website and the verification process is not free. It also sets it apart from the other dating websites. It keeps the rifraff away. Otherwise you would join another website that is free, you have that option. So, what you are basically saying is that you want to meet a professional, financially stable man, but you want it to be free to do so. It just doesn’t work like that. No one is entitled to anything free, especially when someone else has done all of the work. I see this sense of entitlement every day in the medical field. If it is worth having then usually it takes hard work and dedication. You expect free then go to a website where no one pays and see who you meet. Good luck to you.

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

Then there is only a 1 way benefit ..No Dating Site have that

kind of Membership ..Its Internationally required ..

Quoting Legs4dayz127: I feel the men should have to pay, not the women.

Quoting rmac22:

We all  know they are corny, pick the least worst and use to indicate interest.  If he is a paid member he may email you back if he is interested too.  

Quoting Infinity4life: I think the “Wink” messages are so corny. 😂 maybe change few of those.

Quoting Unavailable:

I just joined , and yes as a non paying member I don’t even have access to see who likes me and I cannot do much. I am disappointed. I expected a lot more, better choices and more access.

Quoting Legs4dayz127:

I feel the men should have to pay, not the women.

Quoting KissedByaGirl:

Sure I have an inbox full of messages I can't retrieve until I upgrade!

 

I was a paid member then I stopped and went away. Now I noticed as a non-paying member that all you can do is watch pretty much.

The chat is gone, in the past non-paying members can enter the chat room and watch the conversations, that allowed paid members to notice them and initiate contact. Now that has been taken away which is sad because having access to the chat room is a PERFECT way to filter out fake profiles from real profiles. Another option would be to allow all members to view the chat history of other members because SCAMMERS would not be too involved in chats. I gained many friends just from the chat room because you can have a glimpse at their personality before you wink at them ;)

 

The other side of the coin is that the site needs to make money and if they allow non-paying members To be in the chat room they believe they will never join.

 

Since I've been on both sides of this, most of the friends I gained had observed my conversations before they ever approached me and the fact that they were not paid members kept me from cancelling my membership because I was getting value from paying and not the other way around.

 

Long story short, if MM gods take my advice and:

1- Allow all members access to the chat history (because I witnessed many nutjobs in the chat room)

2- Allow non-paying members to enter the chat room,even if they can only respond to paid members invitations

 

This will keep your existing paid members happy, cuts down on falling for scammers for the ladies, and actually increases your renewal/upgrade rates because paying members will refer others if they actually receive value from their membership.

 

Quoting Paci008:

thanks for keeping it real!

Quoting CarpenterDonald:

A person doesnt get wealthy going around giving you money to be on this site. Try charging if we get married. otherwise- I'll hang onto my money. You are just looking for suckers.

Quoting CarpenterDonald:

strange questions. Im looking into getting my pilots license, you ask if flight is important to me, I think what you mean is -am i stable. dont limit the responses. a lot of your questions were yes or no. alot of my answers would have been -never worried about it or never cared about it, or not relavent. Contact me if you want help making better questions. I can correct your ideological errors and direct you to the proper results you are looking for. I wont do it for you but I will help if you want it. cant help people if they dont want it.

Quoting rmac22:

A gentleman should not need to bring it up at all.  If he is normal he will be interested in sex.  It is a given.  First they need to establish that they like each other.  Then they need to establish that they like each other well enough that sex needs to be discussed.  That would normally be at least a few dates past the first one.  If the lady wants to bring it up on the first date that is her prerogative.  

Quoting DD112729:

Naturally and Sadly men still make more money then women, and yet women pay more for certain things.
Besides the name is Millionaire not Millionairess ! Also the majority of scammers, rapists, stalkers, and others as such are of the male persuasion. There i said it and its the truth.

Quoting DD112729:

Please do a bit more, perhaps a background check, nothing extensive.
Enough to know at least the basics such as identity, their income, social security, and any criminal activity on their part. Surely if these men are serious about finding a loving lady then certainly they'll be willing to put more into it. And for those who dont have or want to go further then apparently they have ulterior motives. And with all of this being put into action, by word of mouth MM shall become even more acknowledged as the site to go to for the Love of ones life....