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Posted on Mar 25, 2017 at 07:30 AM

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

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Posted on Apr 18, 2018 at 12:54 AM

Quoting watching:

Sorry if I upset you MaryClaire as I am one of the pesty replies above. Just trying to show how they get to us. J



 

@WATCHING ,

 

1st its good to see you again..2nd Im sorry what happened to

you on this Site .. 3rd no harm done on my side .

 

As you said I agree definitely with you ..there is " NO MERCY "

for scammers.. Payed members or not doesn't give a person 

the right to lie , to swindle. and to scam and take advantage of women/men . They are just mean and lazy to work hard and earn money legally ..

 

 

 


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 01:12 PM

I have been scammed a few times and they were all paying members. This is not a deterrent. We assume if they claim to be a millionaire and a paying member that they are telling the truth. 


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 01:03 PM

Sorry if I upset you MaryClaire as I am one of the pesty replies above. Just trying to show how they get to us. J


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 12:31 PM

Money is the cause of all the problems. These people are an organisation with big dollars behind them. I had one man from here, a paying member, saying he was a millionaire and contracting work all over the world. He did not want his intrim payment to go into his own bank account because they were Asians????? He sent me his bank account number and password and wanted me to place the money in my bank account and he would get it from me later. He had $i.6 million in his account. I did not come into it but referred him to the AFP.  

 

MM will not be able to stop it as they are paying to come on here. 


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 12:23 PM

The way they write is usually a give away.


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 12:21 PM

I have been hit by scammers a few times on here but you have to get up early to catch this one.  Using other peoples photos and information is a big problem trying to catch them. I usually go on facebook or other sites to check them out and find they are not whom they say they are.  Armed forces seem to be the biggest steal for information and photos,  because they are out there for the public to see. 


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Posted on Apr 17, 2018 at 12:17 PM

Good on you Silverlion.  I have just come back on after a break because of lack of interest in all areas on my part. 


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Posted on Apr 16, 2018 at 11:53 PM

Quoting Curious2078:

I haven't bothered to check out the blogs for roughly 2 years or so.  There's no more humor on the darn thing.  No more really intelligent satire/fun.  Improve the blogs by getting people to start making the blogs fun again.  That's my only thought.  I'd try to do it myself, but I'm too depressed about the state of the blogs to come up with anything right now.    

 

Pat

[Curious2078]


~~  Curious2078  ~~

 

Hi Pat,

 

As you may be aware, along with all the fun topics, things got a little heated as well, several years ago.  Unfortunately, it also caused much disruption with the blogs, leading to a loss of talent.

 

Subsequently, The Boards were flooded with ' selfies ', in place of the action.

 

However, things tend to go in cycles, and we now have some brilliant new authors, along with many, many one time comments.

 

Perhaps the one time posts, has something to do with smart phone ' apps ', as it did with the selfies.

I believe the task at hand, is to have the debatable kind of topics that, will keep the participants engaged, as it once was.

 

Any thoughts on the above ?,... Anyone.

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Apr 13, 2018 at 09:10 PM

what about if it someone is serious about meeting someone create a chat room where everyone can see to who is contacting with because there are paid scammers members here, I think google, bing, yahoo all those searching places must do something about this, all these people are so smart that from Ghana, Nigeria are managing and using any location from America or Europe, and now the social medias are out of control I guess everybody knows about this...I insist for everybody’s protection the first step is video conference for all the dating sites and verify photos profiles...those things. Is hard to believe people. I was contacted for one scam but I wasn’t silly to believe it!!! They sound real fake!!! Good luck everyone in your search.

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Posted on Apr 10, 2018 at 07:31 AM

I am very new here, I sign up for the thought that it is a very decent site and well manage but I still see profiles that does not have photos just like any other dating sites, I think it is best if you could keep all your members sign up with photos :). bitaw I really like the front page of this before signing up. its classy.

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Posted on Apr 09, 2018 at 04:03 PM

Hi,

 

there are lot of comments about people are scams in this site...wondering how I supposed to know this is a trustworthy site and people really exist. Just trying to protect myself ..these days...you never know


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Posted on Apr 08, 2018 at 06:43 PM

Quoting Curious2078:

I haven't bothered to check out the blogs for roughly 2 years or so.  There's no more humor on the darn thing.  No more really intelligent satire/fun.  Improve the blogs by getting people to start making the blogs fun again.  That's my only thought.  I'd try to do it myself, but I'm too depressed about the state of the blogs to come up with anything right now.    

 

Pat

[Curious2078]



YEARS AGO, the blogs were fun as non paying members could post real time.  Now paying members as well as non paying members have to wait roughly 48 hours to see non paying members blogs.  Hard to keep a conversation going waiting 48 hours......Stupid MM.....Hi Pat.....How are things at the deli.  


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Posted on Apr 08, 2018 at 10:46 AM

Quoting Curious2078:

I haven't bothered to check out the blogs for roughly 2 years or so.  There's no more humor on the darn thing.  No more really intelligent satire/fun.  Improve the blogs by getting people to start making the blogs fun again.  That's my only thought.  I'd try to do it myself, but I'm too depressed about the state of the blogs to come up with anything right now.    

 

Pat

[Curious2078]



-- Curious2078 --

 

Don't be depressed.  We need all the help we can get.  There are some new folks who are fun.  So, there is hope.  

 

-- Rmac22 --


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Posted on Apr 08, 2018 at 08:29 AM

Welcome back Pat......long time no see.  What have you been doing the last 2 years.  Was there something on the blogs that made you remove yourself for so long??  In any event, welcome back!!!  I am hoping to see some fun come back to the boards.


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Posted on Apr 08, 2018 at 06:04 AM

Quoting MMCounselor:

Hello SL, hope your holidays were joyous and safe.  I will forward your concern to support and see what they think.

I hope all you bloggers have a Happy New Year and keep the blogs interesting and fun.  The MM staff has enjoyed reading all of your suggestions and we are seriously looking into some changes so stay tuned.

To all MM members (paying and non-paying) you may consider verifying your photo in order to deter scammers.  I (for one) feel more comfortable talking to a member whose ID has been verified and is a REAL person.  We DO NOT keep your ID documents on file, they are destroyed after verification.

 

Be safe, be kind, be healthy.....

Jutta



~~  MMCounselor  ~~

 

Hooray !, ... Thanks to You, Support & Management, for being dedicated to The Boards and listening.

 

I've noticed that, ' Date Started ' on the topics,  now displays the year as well, based on my earlier suggestion.

 

Hopefully this will help the ' Newbies and Wanna-be Bloggers ' realize that, good topics with substance that create a Camaraderie amongst members, is much more interesting than anything else.

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Apr 05, 2018 at 03:31 PM

I haven't bothered to check out the blogs for roughly 2 years or so.  There's no more humor on the darn thing.  No more really intelligent satire/fun.  Improve the blogs by getting people to start making the blogs fun again.  That's my only thought.  I'd try to do it myself, but I'm too depressed about the state of the blogs to come up with anything right now.    

 

Pat

[Curious2078]


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Posted on Apr 05, 2018 at 04:03 AM

Quoting silverlion:

~~  MMCounselor  ~~

 

May I suggest that, " Blog Guidelines & FAQ ", be placed immediately below or above this topic.

 

It appears many members have posted a one time comment, as if The Boards were an extension to theit profile page ?.

 

Perhaps the clarity of The Guidelines, will make for a renewed success, of these once very popular place.

 

I M H O ,

 

~~  S L  ~~


 

@SL , 

 

Definitely ...you said it well .. How about a " Crash Lesson " 

on Blogs ...Remember we have also some problems before ?

And thanks it was eradicated .. 

 


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Posted on Mar 31, 2018 at 11:50 PM

Quoting MMCounselor:

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

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~~  MMCounselor  ~~

 

May I suggest that, " Blog Guidelines & FAQ ", be placed immediately below or above this topic.

 

It appears many members have posted a one time comment, as if The Boards were an extension to theit profile page ?.

 

Perhaps the clarity of The Guidelines, will make for a renewed success, of these once very popular place.

 

I M H O ,

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Mar 08, 2018 at 07:46 PM

300 million ???    Yeah right.  On the contrary, if it's true, what a shame.  That money could develop and feed half of Africa...or maybe some other nation.    Still a pretty picture. 


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