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SUGGESTIONS FOR THIS COMMUNITY SITE ARE APPRECIATED.

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Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site. We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site. Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers", ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future. ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!! Thank you
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October 22 Total posts: 3
not everyone, ask to video. Quick and easier that droning texts.
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I am very dissapointed of this site. Men winked or make you favorite but they do not actually follow up a proper conversation. There are also a lot of inactive profiles. So it looks like there are hundreds of matches but they have actually not been online for ages. Loads of Scammers too. Not worth paying a premium membership.
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October 22 Total posts: 1
I'm learning that after no less than 50 time wasting intros! Exhausting!!! Thank you.
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I think you've got a good verification system. Anyone who isn't verified is easily recognized as doubtful and caveat emptor when chatting. Anyone who doesn't want to meet or video chat is even more suspect.
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October 17 Total posts: 2
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October 17 Total posts: 2
that's true
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It's pretty easy, make everyone verify themselves before having their account become active and invest in better verification software!
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does anyone actually look at the profiles, I came here in the hope i would find a quality person. Looking at some of profiles its anything but..very disappointed which is why I haven't renewed my membership as some old ones here have been here years and one I did a background check on has a very dodgy record indeed.
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Full of scammers. Fake profiles.
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October 11 Total posts: 1
that's on any dating site
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I usually dont write comments but I will on this one. There are scammers on every website out there. Is there really a way do delete scammers, I personally don't think so.. They will figure out another way because its their nature. Look at the profile, not just the pictures. Usually there will only be one or two pictures, and if you read the profiles you can usually weed out those ungrateful people. There are so many players, scammers, and gold diggers in todays world. Be yourself, but be Alert, do what your gut tells you.
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Yes and admins are fake too mostly nigerians
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People use fake profiles,fake names,they use stolen profile pictures and it's very unsafe here
Very disappointed
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This suggestion would have been best prior to COVID19 to offer meet snd greet sessions at a rate for your Co. $
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Quoting QualityRequired:

FAKE PROFILES


You have to help us. The frustration level is at an all time high. When I am on, I continually get fake profiles. They are telegraph clear and the site MUST be responsible for it or people will leave because it is no longer any fun. It is humiliating to discover you were fooled into a fake profile.
  • I understand that this is the most difficult part of owning a site like this but there are basic requirements you need to meet or you cannot post.
  • Yes, it will ruin 50% of the profiles on this site, but they are not paying customers and really do not establish cash flow with exception of fake member counts and slowly your site will become all fake members. There are better ways to accumulate real members through establishing value.
  • There are many things you can do to qualify if there is a real person filling out the applications. First of all when someone applies, it is the first time you should verify authenticity. Here are many examples of how this can be done below. The second time within the next week they are required to solve one additional item then finally a third time in the first month. If they fail they must open a new account.
  1. Email verification
  2. Text with a number verification
  3. Emailed ID scan and approval retain for duplicates
  4. Dial phone with a verbal number read and must do fill in(Automated)
  5. Floating window with 4 numbers you put in on another floating window
  6. Must post a minimum of 3 pictures (Its a dating web site, they should!)
  7. Allow paying members to request picture verification if suspected fake. Profile on hold until verified
  8. Must fill out 35% of the required profile information
  9. Flag duplicate profiles or pictures for review
  10. Record IP addresses and when flagged for fakes it gets recorded on a blacklist
  11. Zip codes must match the home town (Information is required with option to be made visible)
  12. Solve an addition/subtraction/multiplication problem to continue
All of you site owners know this is a bad problem but refuse to fix it because the numbers make you money. Bad philosophyOffer me to buy this site at a good price and I will solve this problem myself and grow it till it eats Match.com

REVENUE GENERATORS
  • Every day I would guess that there are 50 to 100 people who come on your site who are insecure and afraid to post. The main reason are:

Problems.
  • a. They do not know what to write. After a while most people grow accustomed to being on a dating site and their profiles get better and they start to have success. Help to break the ice .
  • b. They do not have good pictures or they do not know what a good picture is. You cannot judge your own pics
  • Picture Suggestion: NO FILTERS! They are not cute and do not make you look better CLEAR PICTURES! One of face and one of full body. You will meet eventually. Worst complaint from everyone. Not what the pictures showed!
  • Solutions. a. Tell them what NOT to write. It will improve originality extensively. I could give you groves of repetitious drivel.
  • b. Make a picture rating page. Members would love to sit and rate pictures all day. The post 5 pictures and people rate 1 to 10

EXCELLENT. But like most things in life, they won't listen until they can't pay the light bill. I am leaving the site.
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Quoting Byrdie01:

There are a multitude of ways to improve the site. First, not tolerating fake profiles. When someone is suspected and reported of being a scammer they must verify their information and/or identity. Second, an option similar to other dating sites to be able to talk/video chat through the site to establish the person is real and to verify their pictures match the person you view on video before exposing your phone number. Third, when displaying matches or spark swipe matches enabling a feature that is more fine tuned than reverse matches. Something more relevant to the viewer specifically. An example. I read profiles throughly before sifting through the pictures just to get to the end and their profile and it will have specific race, age, distance, and physique preferences that do not include me in some form or another. We all have our own preferences but viewing several profiles in a row that are not a match can be frustrating as I do not reach out to people that I do not align with what they seek.

Very good suggestions. I am leaving the site soon. As soon as I get thru a very crucial business deal I am waiting to fund I am actually going to leave the site before my subscription is up. I just haven't had the time to create a profile on a "legitimate" website. I like your suggestions on the talk/video. Which site is that please? Would you kindly private message me. Thx.
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Quoting D2inBuckhead:

Is this a virtual brothel? This blog has so many sleazy woman on it. Do men fall for that?

A few do. But they know what they are paying for and don't care. But most on here are scammers.
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October 7 Total posts: 49
I agree. I will be leaving soon when my subscription is up. I will not be renewing. However I did register my own domain name. As an old systems analyst maybe I will design my own site having been a head hunter, HR recruiter. I have a friend that is thinking of running it for me. The idea occurred to us in part because this site sucks. It is called turning lemons into lemonade.
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October 7 Total posts: 49
You are correct. I have suggested over and over they require Identification before allowing the profile to go live. I have several background services due to the nature of what I do. It only takes me about 1 minute to validate that most of the men who contacted me on here were... drum roll . . . . SCAMMERS. If it takes me 1 minute, how long would it take MM if they really cared about their client... speaks volumes.