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Posted on Thu, Jul 30, 2015 01:05 AM

In my experience, most men on these sites are content with having a fantasy, virtual relationship. They are happy being keyboard Cassanovas and not venturing out into the real world.

It's a sad state of affairs that we have become so antisocial and hiding behind computers.

Enjoy in joy....



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Posted on Sun, Oct 25, 2015 04:24 PM

Quoting Curious2078:

And what about how you men have evolved in your tastes, Bernie?  I'm pretty sure you're not still happy living in a cave with no pickup truck, no electricity, no running water, no refrigeration, no electricity.  LOL.  Where would you store your generators?????  And more importantly, where and how would you use them?

 

As for women being replaced by computers, tell me please exactly how men are going to get sexually satisfied by a computer.  Or don't.  I'm not entirely sure I want to hear the answer.  Oy vay.  

 

As for women being about the same as they were 10,000 years ago, I'd say men are about the same they were 10,000 years ago or more!  As for those cold feet in wintertime, men have much LARGER feet than most women do, and they spread the cold around the bed at a much LARGER rate.  

 

LMAO--although I've recently read that "LOL" and "LMAO" have become passe and we "shouldn't" use them any more unless we all want to look like dinosaurs.  C'est la vie.  I'm pretty content with "LOL" and "LMAO" and will continue using them until they become officially outlawed.  Even after that I may continue using them and risk being arrested by the PC police.  

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Oct 05, 2015 07:47 PM

Hi..I am very new here..This is my first time on a dating site. I have to comment on this. I left my partner of 17 years due to cheating and porn addictions. This computer stuff is only the beginning..They will replacing us with robots in no time.. why?  Because this is easier for them and they don't have to put any effort into it or any emotions. These words came straight out of a marriage counselor' s mouth. Very sad what our society has become. 



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Posted on Thu, Aug 27, 2015 01:48 PM

Quoting lostinthe70s:

In my experience, most men on these sites are content with having a fantasy, virtual relationship. They are happy being keyboard Cassanovas and not venturing out into the real world.

It's a sad state of affairs that we have become so antisocial and hiding behind computers.

Enjoy in joy....



If that's the case, it's not a commentary on the sad state of affairs, but the said state of relationships.   If someone's fantasy relationship is better than a real life one, that means the people they meet in real life are treating them like total crap.

 



All names have been changed to protect the guilty.

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Posted on Thu, Aug 13, 2015 11:42 AM

Quoting Dakota35:

Rmac, well lucky you...every woman that has met me went screaming.  They may be still screaming for all I know. :-)  We are talking about sex, right?



Actually I was referring to the notion that my appearance would not scare them so badly that they would run screaming into the night.  



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Posted on Tue, Aug 11, 2015 06:18 PM

Quoting wwww12345:

Women are being replaced by computers because women are too scary.. Computers don't bite, get mad, don't scream at you, don't cheat, don't take advantage, are not psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissistic, borderline, bi polar, skitzo, and don't cost much to maintain. You can get a new one anytime you feel like it and the old one just moves over, doesn't complain, happy to be in standby mode..  The new models get cheaper and cheaper, smaller and smaller, faster and faster, quiter and quiter and store more and more for less and less....The one I have now has four processors sharing the workload and they never get tired or even sleep. They have been following Moore's law for 40 plus years now, doubling in capability, getting better and  cheaper ever year.  Women are about the same as 10,000 years ago, but getting worse and worse every year...... And most important, computers don't have cold feet in the wintertime.

I forgot where I was going with this....
Oh, I remember...

A 1000 years ago you could go out and catch a few rabbits and she made herself a nice winter coat.. Now it has to be mink or cashmere or Moreno wool, and with a designer label. Throw a rabbit on the fire you had a meal. Now it has to be a five star restaurant with linen napkins and waiters in funny shirts. Some corn squeezing made a nice drink. Now wine from France. If she wanted to go somewhere she walked. If she wanted a bath she went to the river, not the spa. I am telling you, things have gotten bad bad..

 


And what about how you men have evolved in your tastes, Bernie?  I'm pretty sure you're not still happy living in a cave with no pickup truck, no electricity, no running water, no refrigeration, no electricity.  LOL.  Where would you store your generators?????  And more importantly, where and how would you use them?

 

As for women being replaced by computers, tell me please exactly how men are going to get sexually satisfied by a computer.  Or don't.  I'm not entirely sure I want to hear the answer.  Oy vay.  

 

As for women being about the same as they were 10,000 years ago, I'd say men are about the same they were 10,000 years ago or more!  As for those cold feet in wintertime, men have much LARGER feet than most women do, and they spread the cold around the bed at a much LARGER rate.  

 

LMAO--although I've recently read that "LOL" and "LMAO" have become passe and we "shouldn't" use them any more unless we all want to look like dinosaurs.  C'est la vie.  I'm pretty content with "LOL" and "LMAO" and will continue using them until they become officially outlawed.  Even after that I may continue using them and risk being arrested by the PC police.  

 

 



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Posted on Tue, Aug 11, 2015 06:03 PM

Quoting Dakota35:

Mary, I'm going to give you the 411 on men.  (411 is information in the US).  Guy's become bitter with women simply because they pick the wrong women.  Many times the wrong woman is like the bad boy that women pick.  Either a guy can't get the woman (her interest) and he becomes angry or he gets her and finds out she is like riding a wild horse...she can't be broken.  The same thing happens with women and "bad boys".  Then after riding a few wild horses, all of a sudden all the horses look frightening.  And the ones that don't look frightening, the best, are of no interest him.  There was a reason the horse became wild in the first place.  So then the man's bitterness sets in against all, as he can't find a solution to his problem.

 

The solution is both very simple and very difficult.  Find a good partner that satisfies enough to make him/her happy.  Women are very guilty of searching for a man that satisfies many, many different areas.  Most of these women will never be successful in their hunt, as it's like searching for Nessie in the Loch.  Even if there was one, it/he is long gone and been captured by another.  And you can bet unless she is a fool, she's not letting him go.

 

Men are rather straight-forward.  Mostly it comes down to if a man finds a woman attractive.  Then he must be able to get along with her.  That's about it.  He cares but it is not of a huge importants if she is wealthy, has a great job, drives a nice car, is the life of the party, or whatever.  Just a couple of simple things.  That's why you see men chasing women that are very attractive but are shallow as hell.  The only two things that really matter is attraction and getting along with her.  The second thing is where men screw up.  They pick a woman on attraction alone, then jump aboard to learn later that they can't stand being on the ship. 

 

 



Dakota, I gotta agree with you on this:

 

"The second thing is where men screw up.  They pick a woman on attraction alone, then jump aboard to learn later that they can't stand being on the ship."

 

But I think that worksdboth ways.  Women often do the same thing.

 

So many of us are so hard-pressed for time in our daily working lives that we don't take the time to get know a potential partner before we jump into a relationship.  Once that initial looks thing wears off, we find ourselves feeling empty and unfulfilled.  

 

Time, time, time.  Good old fashioned time to get to know the potential partner before rushing off to bed and living together.  Or, maybe too many people are too desperate these days to find that one and only.  I'm actually not sure.  Maybe a bit of both. 



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Posted on Mon, Aug 10, 2015 10:41 PM

Quoting lizzie6200:

So Dakota & Rmac, that's why you guys go faceless on this site? Seriously?! Hate to break it to you but I think you're safe. I think we women could take the stress of your faces in stride!

As such....mind coming out of the shadows?



Are you seriously using the word seriously?

  

 

I stick to my comment made on various blogs.  Not all the women who have been brave enough to meet me in person have run screaming into the night.  



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Posted on Mon, Aug 10, 2015 03:07 AM

 

****@ DAKOTA ****

 

DAK , I understand what you mean .. Men and Women , we have all our shares .. to commit mistakes is human

because nobody is perfect .. and we are not perfect .. even though we tried our best and make the best out of it but that is life .. we just have to learn to cope up with it and never expect too much from anything because that is where we make failures and from there we have to learn to accept from our past ...but there is a saying

" WE WILL NEVER REACH OUR DESTINATION IF WE DONT LOOK BACK FROM WHERE WE BEGIN " ...



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Posted on Sun, Aug 09, 2015 02:39 PM

Svetlana from Moldova said the same thing to me last week, you women have me pegged, I can't get anything past that feminine intuition.



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Posted on Sun, Aug 09, 2015 01:53 AM

 

*****@DAKOTA *****

 

DAK , I know you guys just kidding around otherwise it will be boring here ( I hope nobody will play a violin all day long ) ... 

 

Thanks for your comment ...Im doing fine ok ..

If that guy has a problem with women then the Blog is not the right place for his sentiments and attack women generally ...we have nothing to do with it ...He just have to grow up and deal with his problems respectively ...I know some members who got problems with their past but they didn't spread it here ..



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Posted on Fri, Aug 07, 2015 06:38 PM

Quoting wwww12345:

Women are being replaced by computers because women are too scary.. Computers don't bite, get mad, don't scream at you, don't cheat, don't take advantage, are not psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissistic, borderline, bi polar, skitzo, and don't cost much to maintain. You can get a new one anytime you feel like it and the old one just moves over, doesn't complain, happy to be in standby mode..  The new models get cheaper and cheaper, smaller and smaller, faster and faster, quiter and quiter and store more and more for less and less....The one I have now has four processors sharing the workload and they never get tired or even sleep. They have been following Moore's law for 40 plus years now, doubling in capability, getting better and  cheaper ever year.  Women are about the same as 10,000 years ago, but getting worse and worse every year...... And most important, computers don't have cold feet in the wintertime.

I forgot where I was going with this....
Oh, I remember...

A 1000 years ago you could go out and catch a few rabbits and she made herself a nice winter coat.. Now it has to be mink or cashmere or Moreno wool, and with a designer label. Throw a rabbit on the fire you had a meal. Now it has to be a five star restaurant with linen napkins and waiters in funny shirts. Some corn squeezing made a nice drink. Now wine from France. If she wanted to go somewhere she walked. If she wanted a bath she went to the river, not the spa. I am telling you, things have gotten bad bad..

 



@ Lizzie I love the quote about women multiplying things. Thank you for sharing that.

 

@wwww It's all fun and games until the Luddites' prophesied Singularity occurs and your android friend decides to turn you into microchip. All joking aside, I think technology is becoming a hindrance to dating and meeting people. Everyone is always on their phone or off in cyber land. While we are texting away our mister or misses right is walking down the sidewalk and we never even see them. We live in an instant gratification microwave ready world, but we can't expect to order a partner like a pizza and have them hot and ready at our doorstep. 

 

 

People are meant to be loved.

Things are meant to be used.

The reason why the world is in chaos,

is because things are being loved 

and people are being uxsxexdx



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Posted on Fri, Aug 07, 2015 01:45 AM

 

*****@WWWW12345 *****

 

In behalf of all women I would say your comparison is unfair and insulting - offending ...as well as if you don't know " NOT ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME ...COMPARING A HUMAN LIFE WITH A COMPUTER IS DEFINITELY " NO GO " ... GROW UP ...

 

 

*****@LIZZIE *****

 

Atta girl ...I totally agree with you .. BRAVO WITH STANDING OVATION ...I salute ...



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Posted on Thu, Aug 06, 2015 10:32 PM

Quoting Dakota35:

Well, I'm beginning to believe, if you can't beat the curse...then give in to it.  I guess from now on, I'll just be a sex object, a toy, and a kept man.  I also guess things could be worse, she might want to share me with her friends. Oh, the inhumanity of it all!  Rmac, I am glad you are sympatric and have the same problem...and to think that we believed we might actually find love on this site. Nope, same as the other sites, just sex, sex, sex.  Ladies please just love us for our minds and who we are inside.  Is that to much to ask? :-)


So Dakota & Rmac, that's why you guys go faceless on this site? Seriously?! Hate to break it to you but I think you're safe. I think we women could take the stress of your faces in stride!

As such....mind coming out of the shadows?



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Posted on Thu, Aug 06, 2015 10:19 PM

Quoting wwww12345:

Women are being replaced by computers because women are too scary.. Computers don't bite, get mad, don't scream at you, don't cheat, don't take advantage, are not psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissistic, borderline, bi polar, skitzo, and don't cost much to maintain. You can get a new one anytime you feel like it and the old one just moves over, doesn't complain, happy to be in standby mode..  The new models get cheaper and cheaper, smaller and smaller, faster and faster, quiter and quiter and store more and more for less and less....The one I have now has four processors sharing the workload and they never get tired or even sleep. They have been following Moore's law for 40 plus years now, doubling in capability, getting better and  cheaper ever year.  Women are about the same as 10,000 years ago, but getting worse and worse every year...... And most important, computers don't have cold feet in the wintertime.

I forgot where I was going with this....
Oh, I remember...

A 1000 years ago you could go out and catch a few rabbits and she made herself a nice winter coat.. Now it has to be mink or cashmere or Moreno wool, and with a designer label. Throw a rabbit on the fire you had a meal. Now it has to be a five star restaurant with linen napkins and waiters in funny shirts. Some corn squeezing made a nice drink. Now wine from France. If she wanted to go somewhere she walked. If she wanted a bath she went to the river, not the spa. I am telling you, things have gotten bad bad..

 



Honey, you've been hanging with the WRONG crowd! The first group you've described is the "Princess Club" you as a mere mortal was trying to infiltrate. The second group of the "Western Woman" had it too hard for us to want to repeat.

 

In this day and age, we the NORMAL women can go from boardroom to bedroom without going postal about breaking a nail. We didn't have to burn our bras to gain our independence...we were born that way! However, we choose to share our lives with men as equals. Being alone for us does not necessarily mean we're lonely, but the bed does get cold on occasion. We deserve love and we want it on equal terms. That's all we normal women want.

 

So sweetie, use the computer for what it was made for and if you decide to find yourself a woman, choose a Real one...you know, one from the NORMAL GROUP.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 06, 2015 04:38 PM

Women are being replaced by computers because women are too scary.. Computers don't bite, get mad, don't scream at you, don't cheat, don't take advantage, are not psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissistic, borderline, bi polar, skitzo, and don't cost much to maintain. You can get a new one anytime you feel like it and the old one just moves over, doesn't complain, happy to be in standby mode..  The new models get cheaper and cheaper, smaller and smaller, faster and faster, quiter and quiter and store more and more for less and less....The one I have now has four processors sharing the workload and they never get tired or even sleep. They have been following Moore's law for 40 plus years now, doubling in capability, getting better and  cheaper ever year.  Women are about the same as 10,000 years ago, but getting worse and worse every year...... And most important, computers don't have cold feet in the wintertime.

I forgot where I was going with this....
Oh, I remember...

A 1000 years ago you could go out and catch a few rabbits and she made herself a nice winter coat.. Now it has to be mink or cashmere or Moreno wool, and with a designer label. Throw a rabbit on the fire you had a meal. Now it has to be a five star restaurant with linen napkins and waiters in funny shirts. Some corn squeezing made a nice drink. Now wine from France. If she wanted to go somewhere she walked. If she wanted a bath she went to the river, not the spa. I am telling you, things have gotten bad bad..

 



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Posted on Wed, Aug 05, 2015 06:48 AM

 

*****@ DAKOTA and FISHY *****

 

DAK , You mean " IF YOU CAN'T BEAT THEM JOIN THEM " ...

 

YOU Guys , you don't know what you are saying ....For that big challenge you must " be very fit "  ...don't forget there are Monster .....Just saying ...



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Posted on Wed, Aug 05, 2015 12:23 AM

Quoting Dakota35:

"tired of being treated like a disposable love machine in real life " 

 

So fishy, clearly we have the same problem.  Women just want us for our body and sex...they only see good looking, hunky, sex machines.  Why can't they just love us because we are caring sweet guys...BUT NO.  Yep, Fishy it's just a curse we are going to have to live with...damn it.



 

Thankfully there are others like us because I have so little time for so many women.



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Posted on Tue, Aug 04, 2015 04:23 PM

Quoting Dakota35:

"tired of being treated like a disposable love machine in real life " 

 

So fishy, clearly we have the same problem.  Women just want us for our body and sex...they only see good looking, hunky, sex machines.  Why can't they just love us because we are caring sweet guys...BUT NO.  Yep, Fishy it's just a curse we are going to have to live with...damn it.



I know, I know, it is a big problem.  Whatever can we do, whatever can we do?  



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Posted on Sun, Aug 02, 2015 02:39 AM

 

 Hi lost.

 

  I got into this online searching because I'm tired of being treated like a disposable love machine in real life    :-]

 

  Really though, it has turned more into just blogging here now for me.

 

  Hope everything else is well with you.



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