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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2017 09:09 PM

Chivalry Never Died 💕....???  Or did it??!! 

 

What's your thoughts? 


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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2017 05:12 PM

Quoting isitfate4unme:

Love it! 😍  Even I, open and hold doors! And I love it when a gentleman does the same, or pulls out a ladies chair, helps her with her coat, or lifting or carrying things for her, etc. 

 

Remain a gentleman, and stick with the kinds of women that appreciate it, and welcome it, as I do! 

 

Good to hear from you, as always! 😀

 



Holding a door open for someone is just being polite and having good manners.  These days it has an even more important role, it could prevent some nasty scarring when the individual's iPhone smashes into the glass door because they weren't looking where they were going.

 

It's true that some women object to chivalry.  I've been told by several that they're fully capable of taking care of themselves.  My response is that I know that and I find that quite attractive.  I further explain that the reason I open and close her car door, pull out her chair, stand when she leaves the table or walk on the curbside of the sidewalk has nothing to do with her.  It's the way I was brought up, it's part of who I am and I hope it's not a deal breaker.



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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2017 05:15 AM

Quoting isitfate4unme:

Don't tempt me! 😀   I thought of you last night, when my daughter and I went out to eat.  A young boy held the door for us. Then, on the way out, I held the door for 2 children and their father. That seems to still be one thing that many still follow.  Now if only other common etiquettes and courtesies, would be followed as well.  And even on a bigger platform, more love, peace, kindness, selflessness, goodness, and generosity,... and less hate, war, hurt, selfishness, and crime. 


 

Aww thats sweet ..You see we just have to show to the People

that there is still a Room for chivalries.. You and me have learned a lot of good things from our Parents ..besides Good 

Manners and Right Conducts are integrated in our Curriculum

from Elementary to High School ..and when I was in College my Parents sent me to a College run by the Nun's that I also wish I want to be 1 of them but my Dad had opposed and told me I will just messed them up ..Lol ..because I was so full of life ..so there is no reason for me not to behave good ..but I did enjoyed my childhood and as a young Woman...NO Regrets..Haha..

 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 16, 2017 02:43 AM

Don't tempt me! 😀   I thought of you last night, when my daughter and I went out to eat.  A young boy held the door for us. Then, on the way out, I held the door for 2 children and their father. That seems to still be one thing that many still follow.  Now if only other common etiquettes and courtesies, would be followed as well.  And even on a bigger platform, more love, peace, kindness, selflessness, goodness, and generosity,... and less hate, war, hurt, selfishness, and crime. 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 16, 2017 02:34 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

Asian cultures are not old fashion, I would not phrase it that way. They understand the value of family, and responsibility imposed upon on all adults to make sure that their kids are safe, and women are protected at all cost. As far as us man, who cares lol

 

I am not implying by any means North American culture is bad. Just some people have walked away from good old principles of a family which were practiced here as well. We are one self-centered, materialistic society now..oh well



For me, "old-fashioned," is in essence, saying "good old principles."  

This reflects the way that I was raised, but is sadly, hard to find these days. 



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Posted on Sat, Jul 15, 2017 02:02 AM

Quoting isitfate4unme:

Aww, how sweet.  I love it when little ones are already holding doors for people. I taught mine to do the same, as do I, and I even do it for the men. 

Sounds like I need to move to Germany, and explains why I'm the way that I am, as I'm mostly German! 

 

Hope you've been well! 😀



 

Well then come over here FATE and you will be attended like a 

Princess ..

Thanks Im well ..just raring to go ..



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Posted on Sat, Jul 15, 2017 01:56 AM

Quoting rmac22:

Practicing chivalry is fun. 

 

However, if ever I should be so unfortunate as to be attacked, while walking about with a lady, I expect her to be on my attackers back scratching his eyes out while I am hitting him for all I am worth. 

 

No time for being a delicate little flower then



 

@RMAC, 

 

Love your Comment and its supercalifragilistic funny ..

But I have seen those scenes in Films..



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Posted on Sat, Jul 15, 2017 12:51 AM

Quoting rmac22:

Practicing chivalry is fun. 

 

However, if ever I should be so unfortunate as to be attacked, while walking about with a lady, I expect her to be on my attackers back scratching his eyes out while I am hitting him for all I am worth. 

 

No time for being a delicate little flower then



Either that, or have lots of charm and wow him. 



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Posted on Sat, Jul 15, 2017 12:45 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

I honestly feel sorry for women in US or even Canada as I have lived in both countries and Asia. Over here Parents kick even girls out of the home after college, then they go from one boy friend to another, work till they find a decent guy to marry him, they continue to work and pay half the bills or less, get pregnant, get few weeks of maternity leave, back to work, child is raised by day cares, two bitchy husband and wife get home pass 6 pm for dinner, pick kids from day care on their way back, husband spends sundays in shorts watching football game, she cooks clean, sometime even cuts the grass. The saga continues.

 

On the other hand lol in Asian cultures...

 

Daddy and mother raise the children together. Dad Pays for college, get them the best education, never let especially the daughters to leave home till they get married. Husband works like a dog and wife stays home and enjoys life :)

 

Yes there are pros and cons of both societies, however honestly I do feel bad for women here. Women are like roses, must be handled with care and North American men are lazy bums making their wife to work and pay bills. I just can't believe that men here even expect a women to pay her fare share of dinner bills while out on a date. Ridiculous.



Now you really have me thinking that I'm living in the wrong country!  I'm old-fashioned, so the Asian culture sounds more fitting. 



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Posted on Fri, Jul 14, 2017 05:26 PM

Practicing chivalry is fun. 

 

However, if ever I should be so unfortunate as to be attacked, while walking about with a lady, I expect her to be on my attackers back scratching his eyes out while I am hitting him for all I am worth. 

 

No time for being a delicate little flower then



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2017 10:55 PM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

Hi FATE ! 

 

DEFINITELY NO ! A 5 yr. Old Girl had opened the door for me

last week ..Lol ..No kidding aside..Chivalry is still existing here 

sometimes ..Germany was before a Kingdom so good manners

and right conduct are still existing in Businesses , Hotels and in

everyday life ..depends upon where ..I don't really miss it here ..everyday somebody opens and hold the door for me just like that little girl and I do the same ..



Aww, how sweet.  I love it when little ones are already holding doors for people. I taught mine to do the same, as do I, and I even do it for the men. 

Sounds like I need to move to Germany, and explains why I'm the way that I am, as I'm mostly German! 

 

Hope you've been well! 😀



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2017 10:49 PM

Quoting funtimes0007:

:) I have a bad habit of deleting old comments for no particular reason.

If women in North America allow men to remain, a gentleman, Chivalry can be revitalized in the US. It does exist in most part of the world as women over there are much smarter and they prefer to be the puppeteer rather than the puppet a.k.a man :)

Let's not confused equality with the pure beauty of feminine power. A relaxed, well rested, well loved, well eaten healthy woman is what we all man want. We have enough of pissing contest at work with our fragile egos and then to top it, deal with a woman in pants at home.....Nah!



Like the fragile egos you mentioned... some of us women still do like being treated like fragile ladies, at least to an extent. 

Now you've got me thinking that maybe I'm living in the wrong country! 😀



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2017 10:39 PM

Quoting rmac22:

The head waiter at an informal Irish pub said, "That's my job," when I was pulled and held the chair for a lady.  Her response, "Never too many gentlemen." 



Aww, good for you for being a gentleman, and great response from her! 😀



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2017 06:53 AM

The head waiter at an informal Irish pub said, "That's my job," when I was pulled and held the chair for a lady.  Her response, "Never too many gentlemen." 



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Posted on Mon, Jul 10, 2017 12:41 AM

Quoting isitfate4unme:

Chivalry Never Died 💕....???  Or did it??!! 

 

What's your thoughts? 


 

Hi FATE ! 

 

DEFINITELY NO ! A 5 yr. Old Girl had opened the door for me

last week ..Lol ..No kidding aside..Chivalry is still existing here 

sometimes ..Germany was before a Kingdom so good manners

and right conduct are still existing in Businesses , Hotels and in

everyday life ..depends upon where ..I don't really miss it here ..everyday somebody opens and hold the door for me just like that little girl and I do the same ..



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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2017 10:53 PM

Love it! 😍  Even I, open and hold doors! And I love it when a gentleman does the same, or pulls out a ladies chair, helps her with her coat, or lifting or carrying things for her, etc. 

 

Remain a gentleman, and stick with the kinds of women that appreciate it, and welcome it, as I do! 

 

Good to hear from you, as always! 😀

 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2017 10:46 PM

Omg, how ironic!!! Not to get off topic, but I literally JUST went to your page and left you a comment and checked to see if you were still on MM, as several comments you had previously left on my blogs were missing.  Good to hear from you!! 

 

I thibk that men can still act like polite gentlemen, and women like polite ladies.  I've opened and held doors for men, bought them gifts, etc, too!  And just everyone remembering and following the Golden Rules. Everyone should be respectful of everyone, regardless of who they are, or which sex they are, etc. 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2017 10:44 PM

Amazing the number of women who won't let you open the car door for them to let them out.  I tell them I need the practice.  Which I do.  



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