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The Silent Man

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Hello Ladies and Gents! 

 

Men: Please listen to the impression you make on a woman when you go silent, then re-read your profile where it says that you are annoyed and too busy to have a conversation in which the woman disappears. If you want her to stop asking WHY, please show that you are strong and respectful by simply stating that the conversation, relationship, date, meeting (whatever it is) simply is not or did not meet your needs. She won't argue with that. It is a genuine form of walking away that really demonstrates your aptitude for success. She doesn't want to continue with you, if you aren't actually into her. So, be respectful and allow the conversation to end with a period, not a question mark. 

 

Ladies: Please understand that we want to know everything, to get all the answers, and we have a desire to ask away! Men find this to be whiny and annoying. When a man goes silent, please consider it to be his way of showing you respect, in that he chooses not to lay upon your heart all the reasons for which he cannot continue the discussion to meet, the next date, or his conversation. Usually, a man is trying to let you down easily. Take it. At least he is not throwing a knife into your heart. It is not personal. Have you always wanted to continue every conversation you thought you might be interested in? No, and you weren't trying to hurt his/her feelings. Be strong. You are elegant, couteous, genuine, and you know what you want. You DO NOT want a man who chooses not to communicate....so, don't fret when he stops emailing, calling, texting. Just let go and know that you have the power to move forward. Focus on your own goals. Whoever HE is, will come find you when you least expect it! 

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I have to say, in all my years I have had a lady twice in the thousands of comments to actually respond and say... not my type. It did not make me feel any better or worse. Oh well.

Let me also say this. This is not gender driven. I am not a victim and dont feel bad. I just take is as I am not right for one reason or another. Just move on, who cares. Im certainly not going to complain. Nobody owes me anything and for the ten who dont answer, there will be one who becomes my other half.

I want the woman who is mature and special enough to know Im out there and all the others really don't matter.
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1 year ago

 

hiyapdn1 , 

 

You said it well .. I preferred to be told about the real score

than to be left behind without knowing the reason . In the 

end I feel like an idiot ...

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Well said! ❤️❤️❤️
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1 year ago
I am impressed with your instruction system of correct way to love you. And I genuinely think you will find that obedient man that complies and will live a exact life ... and may do so creatively in the middle of your jurisdiction. .. trouble is your boredom will set in again!