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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2017 12:11 AM

One of the harsh realities of life I have personally experienced is that regardless you met a successful woman, not a so called a financially successful woman at the end majority of women demand money in some shape and form to date you. The sequence is slightly different and expectations are slowly revealed. YES, all in the name of love.

So what is the real difference between arrangement vs. dating to you?

Interestingly, I did a quick research and what I found interesting is that woman who has profiles on arrangement sites, also seeking love at the end, a man in a shining armor to rescue them at the end. It's almost like "RENT TO OWN" business model..lol

To me, at the end, dating "or" arrangement sound the same. One candy is just wrapped in a pretty paper that's all. (of course, not all women are the same), just different paths to the same outcome in a majority of cases.

The arrangement is almost like an arranged marriage if you really look closely :) more power to Asians. may be they got it right day 1 :)

On the flip side, I wonder what ladies have experienced in the dating world besides the scammers asking for iTunes cards, money to bail themselves out of tough situation etc.?

Your thoughts?



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Posted on Fri, Sep 15, 2017 02:10 AM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

Hmmmm FUNTIMES ...Now you are telling me what you do in your free time . .LOL.. 


Analyzing as always. I am pure AND innocent like a new born baby.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 15, 2017 12:05 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

The arrangement is not limited to one. The girls are smart these days. MWF one guy, TTS another guy..lol

 

It's called optimizing your time. :)



 

Hmmmm FUNTIMES ...Now you are telling me what you do in your free time . .LOL.. 



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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2017 03:24 PM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

@FUNTIMES,

 

By removing the word " legalized " its almost the same but there are still differences between them ...Arranged relationship is 

limited to 1 man and there are fixed financial arrangement .. as I mentioned before it is a give and take and it depends on what

they want and what they need ..some men do it with a contract ..while Prostitution is not limited to one and they get the money right away after the service.and no special treatment ..

 

OK both have no emotional involvement but there are cases I know that they fall for each other ..


The arrangement is not limited to one. The girls are smart these days. MWF one guy, TTS another guy..lol

 

It's called optimizing your time. :)



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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2017 11:26 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

@MaryClaire2000 - Hmmm Let's analyze it for the old-time sake, shall we...lol

Arrangement: Spend $2000 a month on me and once a month shopping, you can bang me twice a week. Will Wednesday and Friday night will work for you, honey!?

Prostitution: Let's cut to the chase, $300 per hour, after 2 hours you get a discount, but I doubt you will even last more than 30 minutes, so sign up for multiple visits coupon code for extra savings. p.s.Over night stay and cuddling are extras....lol

I am not seeing any difference. are you?

Disclaimer: the above rates are subject to change without any prior notice. Personal hygiene is important to me, however, I am willing to ignore such things for an extra $100 per hour. Please note donations provided are for my company and time. Anything happens behind Doras's door is no one freaking business.


 

@FUNTIMES,

 

By removing the word " legalized " its almost the same but there are still differences between them ...Arranged relationship is 

limited to 1 man and there are fixed financial arrangement .. as I mentioned before it is a give and take and it depends on what

they want and what they need ..some men do it with a contract ..while Prostitution is not limited to one and they get the money right away after the service.and no special treatment ..

 

OK both have no emotional involvement but there are cases I know that they fall for each other ..



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 11:27 PM

Quoting DeAnna_Greenwood:

Just harsh and probably true which makes it very sad indeed.

In all honesty (I hope everyone has taken my previous comments as a joke so far) to be fair towards women, we as a society have a abondend women and have turned them into god knows what. A society that doesn't take care of their women is heading towards a disaster. Women are sacred and they must be protected at all cost and it's a men's job. period.

 

A women wants to work, build a carrier or whatever she wants for her life is no ones business including men, but we have developed a system in our western culture where women are perceived as sex objects by men. Check all the profiles on this site.

 

Yes I know I am not politically correct so be it.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 11:19 PM

Quoting CRLegirl:

lol. Glad you caught that humor.

@CRLegirl - we forgot about her leaning to pick up the accidental drop,of keys prior to entering into the car while the man adjusts :))) ok ok I know, it's getting out of control now. Haha

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 09:04 PM

Just harsh and probably true which makes it very sad indeed.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 05:01 PM

lol. Glad you caught that humor.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2017 11:33 AM

Quoting CRLegirl:

true, no self-respect would be the answer. and it goes both ways.

And, you can't "make" a woman like you by pulling up in a $120k car. she wouldn't be liking you, she'd be spreading her legs just to get IN the car she likes. ;)

lol @ Spreading her legs to get inside the car. Classic!

 

 



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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2017 03:18 PM

true, no self-respect would be the answer. and it goes both ways.

And, you can't "make" a woman like you by pulling up in a $120k car. she wouldn't be liking you, she'd be spreading her legs just to get IN the car she likes. ;)


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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 08:49 PM

Quoting Maryclaire2000:

 

@ FUNTIMES,

 

Arranged Meeting is basically not a legal Prostitution unless

they want to get married with a Contract which is another case .

With regards to usual Dating you are not obliged to give anything and the women are not also inclined to ask something specially on the 1st date ..its up to you if you give a flower from 

your heart..or Pay the Bill..

 

Have you heard about the Dutch Treat ..meaning each of you 

can Pay each Bill ..well you can take it or leave it . but I think 

its seldom adapted unless you are a Dutch ..It happened to a 

very pretty cousin long time ago but she is now married to the 

guy ..


@MaryClaire2000 - Hmmm Let's analyze it for the old-time sake, shall we...lol

Arrangement: Spend $2000 a month on me and once a month shopping, you can bang me twice a week. Will Wednesday and Friday night will work for you, honey!?

Prostitution: Let's cut to the chase, $300 per hour, after 2 hours you get a discount, but I doubt you will even last more than 30 minutes, so sign up for multiple visits coupon code for extra savings. p.s.Over night stay and cuddling are extras....lol

I am not seeing any difference. are you?

Disclaimer: the above rates are subject to change without any prior notice. Personal hygiene is important to me, however, I am willing to ignore such things for an extra $100 per hour. Please note donations provided are for my company and time. Anything happens behind Doras's door is no one freaking business.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 12:33 AM

Quoting sbempowerment:

I guess if you know what it is you really want and you can be honest with yourself so you can relay that to others honestly, then all is good. If you want an arrangement and find someone that wants one too, then have it, if you want a relationship with someone that has more than two dimes rubbed together, than have it, as long as you know what you are looking for and accept what you are looking for, no harm no foul sort to speak.

 

As far as women demanding Money in one form or the other, being a women, I can honestly say I don't do that, I am a very independent person, yet I love to be spoiled and appreciated...do I like "things', absolutely, but things aren't going to make anyone more attractive to me, or someone that I will want to date...My question has always been to myself.."Could I date this person and want to be with this person if he didn't have money, and if I couldn't answer that with a resounding YES, then I knew it was time to move along.."...LOL

 

I have found that most people, women and men, don't want to really accept who or what they are or want, so they are fearful of sharing it with someone new as to not look "bad" in someone else's eyes.  I say if you aren't willing to reveal who you are...in the first place, a person will never get what they truly want, and thus make themselves and someone else miserable. That has been my experience looking around and in my own life as well. 

 

 

 

 


@sbempowerment - I have done many social dating experiments in my life so I strictly speak based on my own experiences not off some text book material.

I can make most women like me (besides liking my personality) when I pull over to pick her up in a 120K+ car and spend $300 to $400 on a dinner bill.

On the other hand, most woman (as per society standards) doesn't easily like you if I pull over in my old Toyota :)

I have tested the money game and its impact on woman likeness and it is very disappointing.

I think the issue is much deeper than being honest or speaking the truth upfront. I think the main issue is the majority of people don't know what really they want as their concept of happiness is not based on what they want, it is based on what other think is considered a happy relationship or the right catch.

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 12:14 AM

Quoting CRLegirl:

@funtimes0007 I have to agree with you about the whole relationship dance. Honestly, I can't understand why there are so many shallow women and men who fall for it.


@CRLegirl - The simple answer is I guess, "no self-respect".



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 12:14 AM

Quoting rmac22:

I have read suggested first dates on various profiles.  More and more it seems many women think shoppinhg is a normal part of dating.  Shopping and Cudleing.  Dinner and Shopping.  

 

Maybe it is the normal part of Sugr Dadddy Sugar Baby.  

 

 



 

Hi RMAC , 

 

Its good to see you safe and Funtimes but I was thinking of our

pretty Diana and her new built House. I just Imagine how it is to 

be in such situation.

 

Referring to your Comment about Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby.. Yes it belongs to arranged Dating without emotional involvement..I have watched a lot of Reports about them ..



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 12:13 AM

Quoting Good2BTheKing:

I have been on MM a long time and have been online friends with a good number of women, but I have had first dates with just a few.  None of them have talked about an arrangement or wanted money for dating. I stopped chatting with a few who seemed like scammers, but there weren't many of those.  Paying for dinner, sometimes trips, and birthday/Christmas presents is a natural part of dating, I don't count that.     Women have offered to pay for our dates occasionally, which is a nice gesture.


@Good2BTheKing - Paying from your heart is the natural instinct reaction of a gentleman towards a woman he likes. It's a cave man thing. I agree I have met few off this site who never asked for anything.

 

Unfortunately, large majority absolutely have financial expectations in return for dating.

 



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Posted on Mon, Sep 11, 2017 12:04 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

@MaryCalire2000

 

I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't "demand" money in some shape and form while dating her. I am even talking about a successful woman like a VP of a major bank making 200K a year. They all expect that because they are sleeping with you, they are entitled to shopping sprees, expensive gifts, luxurious vacations. Unfortunately, most of them suck in the sack which really takes away falling in love because of her mindset:) lol

So arrangement sounds more appealing to most men nowadays (however I will never ever do such a thing). I never realized how many women signing up for arrangement setups. Very interesting for sure. It's basically a legalized prostitution.



 

@ FUNTIMES,

 

Arranged Meeting is basically not a legal Prostitution unless

they want to get married with a Contract which is another case .

With regards to usual Dating you are not obliged to give anything and the women are not also inclined to ask something specially on the 1st date ..its up to you if you give a flower from 

your heart..or Pay the Bill..

 

Have you heard about the Dutch Treat ..meaning each of you 

can Pay each Bill ..well you can take it or leave it . but I think 

its seldom adapted unless you are a Dutch ..It happened to a 

very pretty cousin long time ago but she is now married to the 

guy ..



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Posted on Sun, Sep 10, 2017 07:01 PM

I have been on MM a long time and have been online friends with a good number of women, but I have had first dates with just a few.  None of them have talked about an arrangement or wanted money for dating. I stopped chatting with a few who seemed like scammers, but there weren't many of those.  Paying for dinner, sometimes trips, and birthday/Christmas presents is a natural part of dating, I don't count that.     Women have offered to pay for our dates occasionally, which is a nice gesture.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 09, 2017 01:04 PM

@funtimes0007 I have to agree with you about the whole relationship dance. Honestly, I can't understand why there are so many shallow women and men who fall for it.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 09, 2017 07:26 AM

I guess if you know what it is you really want and you can be honest with yourself so you can relay that to others honestly, then all is good. If you want an arrangement and find someone that wants one too, then have it, if you want a relationship with someone that has more than two dimes rubbed together, than have it, as long as you know what you are looking for and accept what you are looking for, no harm no foul sort to speak.

 

As far as women demanding Money in one form or the other, being a women, I can honestly say I don't do that, I am a very independent person, yet I love to be spoiled and appreciated...do I like "things', absolutely, but things aren't going to make anyone more attractive to me, or someone that I will want to date...My question has always been to myself.."Could I date this person and want to be with this person if he didn't have money, and if I couldn't answer that with a resounding YES, then I knew it was time to move along.."...LOL

 

I have found that most people, women and men, don't want to really accept who or what they are or want, so they are fearful of sharing it with someone new as to not look "bad" in someone else's eyes.  I say if you aren't willing to reveal who you are...in the first place, a person will never get what they truly want, and thus make themselves and someone else miserable. That has been my experience looking around and in my own life as well. 

 

 

 

 



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