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Posted on Sat, Feb 11, 2017 04:31 AM

It's interesting that what's considered sexy when it comes to ladies seems to have a common theme in most societies, however, what's considered handsome for a man by the ladies has so many variations that it's mind boggling.

During a social experiment, two sets of women of similar education background; family upbringings etc. were shown a picture of a man. To one group he was defined as just, for example, a blue collar worker and to the other group the CEO of a company...

85% of the ladies in the first group didn't like him; however, 90% of the ladies in the second group did find him attractive...

To be fair To the ladies, and to avoid stereo typical views, I know a financially stable man is not always attractive for all ladies for sure. Especially for the financially stable, educated border line feminist women. Perhaps it's not that high on their priority list or are they simply lying or in denial?

By the same token, if a man doesn't find a woman sexy, they normally don't care about her education, financial success, academic success and so on. Yes I know, I know another stereo typical point of view.

Your thoughts?

Would you agree? Disagree or do you have a completely different point of view on the proposed topics of discussion?


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Posted on Mon, Jul 31, 2017 03:28 AM

Quoting MorganAPLlywelyn:

hey do you just have to go to the right part of town


hmm..the blog is about what is sexy for a female is not sexy for male and why?



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Posted on Fri, Jun 09, 2017 11:47 PM

hey do you just have to go to the right part of town


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Posted on Tue, Apr 04, 2017 04:22 AM

Quoting Vicki2008:

Its funny


Thanks..anythng you would like to add?



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Posted on Tue, Apr 04, 2017 04:21 AM

Quoting sandy411:

lmbo how funny😜


Good...:) At least you enjoyed the humor.



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Posted on Tue, Mar 28, 2017 12:26 AM

lmbo how funnyūüėú


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Posted on Thu, Feb 23, 2017 09:39 PM

Quoting Rosel2017:

lol

So what part made you laugh? the pic or the men acting sexy? :)

 

There are some people who for sure can benefit from a pacifier as well...


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Posted on Thu, Feb 23, 2017 01:43 PM

lol


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Posted on Sun, Feb 19, 2017 12:44 AM

Quoting Donald918:

I agree I find the word over used. If we're to comment on a ladies photo which I do quite often I never use the word. to me it is derogatory to women. I choose words that have higher meanings.

Donald918 - Thats a smart thing to do. I think majority of women appreciate decent man. May be you should read my blog "Outrageous Profile Comments". Its mind boggling what some man would say to woman.

 

Perhaps some bloggers do need a shrimp or converted into a shrimp :)



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2017 07:25 PM

I agree I find the word over used. If we're to comment on a ladies photo which I do quite often I never use the word. to me it is derogatory to women. I choose words that have higher meanings.


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2017 02:59 PM

Funny set of photos, the guy is definitely NOT SEXY whatsoever.

 

Now to just type about that term- 'sexy", I don't like to use that word for anyone.  I would never describe myself as sexy and it is a complete turnoff when I see someone describe themselves that way unless it's a complete joke. You know that song that goes, "Im sexy and I know it", that is funny to me. What is one man's sexy is another's man's slutty.  Sexy (the term) implies too much.  I prefer to describe myself as sensual if I feel the need to even use that word.  

 

If I have to describe what is sexy to me would be like the paper towel commercial.  The extremely good looking guy has just finished chopping firewood in a forest setting.  He is wearing a plaid, flannel shirt with some buttons that just happen to be undone.  His forehead is just slightly sweaty hence the reasonfor the paper towel. Now if this man was chopping firewood for me or was working on my car for me, now that is appealing!!  Notice how I didnt use the word sexy?

 

My paper towel fantasy man has major competition with the vodka commercial fireman with an adorable kitten  :)

Only in my dreams...sigh.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2017 04:31 PM

Quoting rmac22:

Sometimes a tall lady will be more tolerant of a shorter man than a short one.   For tall women there simply may not be all that many men she would want that are taller than she is. 

 

I have a few very tall nieces.  Six feet five inches territory.  None of them have had any trouble finding husbands; they are also very pretty.  Their husbands are not quite as tall as they are. 

 

Most of my nieces are very petite.  Also very pretty.  That is part of an uncles job description -- to think his nieces are very pretty.  All of mine are. 

 

Re define a shorter man.  Some ladies think it is less than 5 feet 10 inches.  Some think less than 6 feet.  This based on reading the preferences listed.  5 feet 8 inches is considered average in most of the statistics I have read.  

 

 

I once dated a lady that claimed to be shorter than I was.  She was just as tall.  Kind of nice.  Did not need to stand her on a stool to kiss her.  


 

In my life time, actually more later part of my life, I learned that the really pretty women are the nicest. I guess they have less insecurities of any kind. They are kind and polite and have no chip on their shoulders. They are interestingly looking for good man less careless about their looks to a larger degree. The explanation I was provided by some very beautiful women was that they are sick and tired of hearing that they are beautiful and they are looking for a smart man that can admire them as a person not just their looks.

Yes I agree I think 5' 8" to 5"10' is the average height of a man now a days. Off course there are exceptions to those rules all the time.

Speaking of nieces, one of mine is like 6' 2" tall. I always bug her, you will never find a man...lol She is only 18..amazing soccer player, plays for Canadian provincial soccer team.

I have only dated once a woman taller than me..It was a lot of fun :) yes making out requires a whole different dynamics altogether..lol



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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2017 09:38 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

Yeah true..the question remains how one define a shorter man? Average height varies from country to country culture to culture for a man for sure.



Sometimes a tall lady will be more tolerant of a shorter man than a short one.   For tall women there simply may not be all that many men she would want that are taller than she is. 

 

I have a few very tall nieces.  Six feet five inches territory.  None of them have had any trouble finding husbands; they are also very pretty.  Their husbands are not quite as tall as they are. 

 

Most of my nieces are very petite.  Also very pretty.  That is part of an uncles job description -- to think his nieces are very pretty.  All of mine are. 

 

Re define a shorter man.  Some ladies think it is less than 5 feet 10 inches.  Some think less than 6 feet.  This based on reading the preferences listed.  5 feet 8 inches is considered average in most of the statistics I have read.  

 

 

I once dated a lady that claimed to be shorter than I was.  She was just as tall.  Kind of nice.  Did not need to stand her on a stool to kiss her.  



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2017 09:33 PM

Quoting funtimes0007:

Looks like you have never been to Uzbakistan or Kazakistan..

Over there people slaughter the lamb and sheeps and make a fresh suit out of them next day. Little stiff in the begining but you start to feel home in few days :)

I am kidding, this is the picture of one of our fellow bloggers which I found it in his high school year book...lol



Well I wasn't sure since we have not seen your pics, you my be Warren number 2,  $10.00 on a piece of meat is really over the top kinda match the suit. 

 Both Flower 999 and you have true valuable points,  so keep up the good work,  I love the fact that 2 invisible individuals can share :-), we may have a MM on Valentines day. Good luck and happy Valentines day Flower999.

 

 

 

 

 Yours truly, Mr. Born1top. 

 Love and peace, don't hate participate. 



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2017 03:01 PM

Quoting born1top:

Mr. Funtimes0007 is that you, ah you been  holding out, what is up  with that leather suit in Miami during summer time? 

 

 

 

Yours truly, Mr. Born1top. 

Love and peace, don't hate participate. 


Looks like you have never been to Uzbakistan or Kazakistan..

Over there people slaughter the lamb and sheeps and make a fresh suit out of them next day. Little stiff in the begining but you start to feel home in few days :)

I am kidding, this is the picture of one of our fellow bloggers which I found it in his high school year book...lol



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2017 01:56 AM

Quoting flower999:

Men, either the blue collar workers or the CEOs of the companies, don't have to dress like a woman to be sexy.  

 

In my opinion, a man is extremely sexy if:

 

he is intelligent.  A man's intelligence is a massive turn-on; a man can hold a good conversation.  

he is athletic.  Does anyone find a couch potato attractive?  I'd love to find a nice workout partner!

he is romantic.  Nothing is hotter than a romantic man!  

he is humorous.  It's been said that a man who lacks a sense of humor is like a cold shower on legs.    

he is in passsionate love with his woman.   

he is independent and confident.  True confidence has nothing to do with the size.  Does size really matter? 

he is generous.  Being stinging is a huge turn-off for women.  

he is responsible and family-oriented.  Women prefer to share the responsiblities of raising kids and running a household with their men.    

 

I also believe a man is sexy if:

 

he has beautiful eyes that could speak.  His eyes sparkle with happiness when he looks at his woman.

he has beautiful lips that speak only words of kindness.

he has such a beautiful heart that he has made everything beautiful in his time.  In the end, we won't remember the most beautiful face and body.  We'll remember the most beautiful heart and soul.  Right? 

he has good manners and is well-dressed.  Dressing well is a form of good manners.  Don't you think so?

 

last but not least...

 

he has big hands...I understand that being tiny isn't easy at all :-)  Ok, I am joking about this.

 

Well, I am here trying to help.  There are many women out there also can help you out.  I wish you all a very happy Valentine's Day! 


First of all the picture posted above is done in all humor I think you took it literally. The picture is basically saying the same as what you have word out, men don't need to dress up like a woman to be sexy.

Interesting point of views. I would agree with most of your observations but some I would probably analyze further.

Not all intelligent men are wealthy neither all wealthy men are intelligent. By the same token even if a men is intelligent and wealthy that doesn't mean he is attractive for all women. Not all attractive women are turn on for a men for long term relationship (short term yes) as men also deep down seek a ton of stability when it comes to forming a family with a lady.

Now here I am debating with a lady claiming I know ladies better than a lady... sigh! :)

What is your definition of stingy?

When I was 35 years old, I met this gorgeous Eastern European woman in Toronto. I asked her out on date and when she agreed I took her to a fancy (by my definition at that time) Restaurant for dinner. When she saw the Entre'e prices she was so worried about me wasting my money on a meal that she insisted that we must leave this Restaurant immediately and go to her place and she will cook a wonderful meal for me. In my books I was being generous, nurturing, caring because I wanted to spoil her and in her books I was a complete idiot for wasting my money on piece of meat worth 10 dollars :)



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2017 01:24 AM

Quoting funtimes0007:

So flower999 - is any men in suit looks sexy? I think the reason you picked the pic because of his facial features, cheek bones not because he is wearing a suit or no?

How about this pic of a man in suit?

There is an old saying not every clothing makes anyone look good. Your thoughts?


Men, either the blue collar workers or the CEOs of the companies, don't have to dress like a woman to be sexy.  

 

In my opinion, a man is extremely sexy if:

 

he is intelligent.  A man's intelligence is a massive turn-on; a man can hold a good conversation.  

he is athletic.  Does anyone find a couch potato attractive?  I'd love to find a nice workout partner!

he is romantic.  Nothing is hotter than a romantic man!  

he is humorous.  It's been said that a man who lacks a sense of humor is like a cold shower on legs.    

he is in passsionate love with his woman.   

he is independent and confident.  True confidence has nothing to do with the size.  Does size really matter? 

he is generous.  Being stinging is a huge turn-off for women.  

he is responsible and family-oriented.  Women prefer to share the responsiblities of raising kids and running a household with their men.    

 

I also believe a man is sexy if:

 

he has beautiful eyes that could speak.  His eyes sparkle with happiness when he looks at his woman.

he has beautiful lips that speak only words of kindness.

he has such a beautiful heart that he has made everything beautiful in his time.  In the end, we won't remember the most beautiful face and body.  We'll remember the most beautiful heart and soul.  Right? 

he has good manners and is well-dressed.  Dressing well is a form of good manners.  Don't you think so?

 

last but not least...

 

he has big hands...I understand that being tiny isn't easy at all :-)  Ok, I am joking about this.

 

Well, I am here trying to help.  There are many women out there also can help you out.  I wish you all a very happy Valentine's Day! 


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Posted on Mon, Feb 13, 2017 11:43 PM

Quoting funtimes0007:

So flower999 - is any men in suit looks sexy? I think the reason you picked the pic because of his facial features, cheek bones not because he is wearing a suit or no?

How about this pic of a man in suit?

There is an old saying not every clothing makes anyone look good. Your thoughts?



Mr. Funtimes0007 is that you, ah you been  holding out, what is up  with that leather suit in Miami during summer time? 

 

 

 

Yours truly, Mr. Born1top. 

Love and peace, don't hate participate. 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 13, 2017 09:51 PM

Quoting rmac22:

Actually, I am not sure that shorter men in general are wealthier.  It was only part of the test that these shorter men were wealthier than the taller men.  That to see if it made a difference.  It does, but the wealth increment has to be significant. 

 

It could be that taller men are in general wealthier.  Taller is selected for promotions over shorter all else being equal.  Better looking over not as nice looking again all else being equal. 

 

It is not fair, but then life is not fair.  Even though I joke about doing a good job of picking my ancestors we don’t get to do so. 

 

 



Yeah true..the question remains how one define a shorter man? Average height varies from country to country culture to culture for a man for sure.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 13, 2017 09:18 AM

Quoting born1top:

Yes she is she your greatest grandmother, eve, and my God created the heavens and earth, so just because I shared with that  an individual made a claim about ladies from Venus and men from Mars. Don't mean I believe they are from there, I believe they use it as a metaphor. So you enjoy, and thanks for your acknowledgement about God.

 

 

 Yours truly,  Mr.  Born1top. 

 Love and peace, don't hate participate amen.



On a completely different note. When Apple send you an iOS update for your iphone or Android phone, Do you upgrade to the latest release or you hold on to the older version? :)



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